If you've ever been the one others turn to — the kind, capable, steady presence — and still felt desperately alone in your own healing, this episode is for you. Inge shares her raw, personal reckoning with the shame many healers carry around needing support, and we begin to unhook from the myth that “real” healers do it alone.
The block we bust in this episode: "Overfunctioning"
This one is for you if:
- You've ever felt like a fraud for still having wounds.
- You're craving community, but don't know how to receive it.
- Support feels unsafe, self-indulgent, or like “too much.”
What you'll take with you:
- Why doing it all yourself isn't noble — it's erasure.
- How the myth of the “healed healer” keeps us isolated.
- A new way forward: healing in community, not alone.
Full episode notes, video + every episode: https://reikidiscovery.org/podcast/episode-5-the-healers-shame-around-needing-help-and-how-we-undo-it
Your host: Inge Broer — Reiki teacher and founder of Reiki Discovery.
Training for healers:
- Healer: Awakened (Reiki I — begin your training): https://reikidiscovery.org/healer-awakened
- Healer: Embodied (Reiki II & III — practice + mentorship): https://reikidiscovery.org/healer-embodied
- Practicing already? Grow with the network: https://reikidiscovery.org/practitioner-track