June 25, 2025

The Healing Trap: When “Doing the Work” Becomes a Form of Self-Sabotage

42 minutes

What if the very thing you’ve been doing to free yourself… is the thing keeping you stuck? In this episode, Carlie dives into the shadow side of the healing journey. The subtle yet powerful trap so many women fall into without even realizing: becoming addicted to healing.

You’ll hear why constantly “doing the work” can quietly reinforce your identity as the woman who’s never fully ready, never quite enough, and always almost there… And how this keeps you from embodying the orgasmic, liberated version of you that already exists.

Carlie unpacks:

The unspoken cost of over-identifying with your pain story

How trauma healing without a clear vision of your future can become its own loop

Why pleasure and freedom can feel unsafe to a nervous system wired for struggle How the body becomes chemically addicted to suffering

Why therapy alone might be keeping you anchored in the past

The Tantric shift from healing to feeling — and how to rise from love, not lack

And the 8-step pleasure-based process she teaches inside her VIP program

This episode is a gentle (but fiery) wake-up call for the woman who’s done so much work — but still isn’t living the reality she’s been manifesting. It’s time to break the healing loop, reclaim your joy, and become the version of you who no longer needs to be fixed — only felt, seen, and set free.

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