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The Heart that Lived Twice: The Case of Sonny Graham and Terry Cottle
In April 2008, neighbors in Vidalia, Georgia, were jolted awake by the sound of a shotgun blast. The man who died that morning was no stranger — Sonny Graham was a beloved golf director, a husband, a father. But Sonny also carried a secret: the transplanted heart of another man who had died by suicide more than a decade earlier. That man’s widow, Cheryl, had since become Sonny’s wife. What unfolded was a story so eerie it captured headlines across the world: two suicides, one heart, one wife. But behind the sensational coverage was something far more
complicated — a collision of love, survival, stigma, and myth-making.
In this episode, Bailey and Chelsea unravel the haunting symmetry of Sonny Graham and Terry Cottle’s lives. From the quiet desperation inside a South Carolina trailer, to the medical miracle of a transplant, to the crushing burden of being turned into a symbol, this is the story of how communities cling to folklore when the truth feels unbearable — and why even a heart strong enough to beat twice couldn’t carry the weight of a legend.
Resources:
Struggling with Suicidal Thoughts?
For the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, Call/Text 988
Previously known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, the 988 Lifeline
provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and
crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals
in the United States.
Find a Therapist:
Psychology Today: Health, Help, Happiness + Find a Therapist
BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today
Depression Resources:
Helpful Online Resources for Depression (webmd.com)
If you want to support us, subscribe, rate and review on your favorite podcast
listening app!
Want to recommend a wild case or just give us a 'hey!'? Contact us at
Buy Merch!: www.wildcidepodcast.com
Updates on Instagram: @wildcidepodcast
Facebook: Wildcide Podcast
Don’t forget Wildcide Wednesdays- new episodes drop every Wednesday at 6am EST.
Interviews will drop every other Friday at 6am EST.
Background music by Brad Parsons at Train Sound Studio. Art for the podcast was
created by Kelly Steen.
WILDCIDE Podcast and any content posted is presented solely for general informational, educational,
and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast
or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician,
professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should
not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may
have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
References:
Associated Press. (2008, April 6). Recipient of suicide victim’s heart kills self 12 years later. The Seattle Times.
https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/health/recipient-of-suicide-victims-heart-kills-self-12-years-later/
Associated Press. (2008, April 6). Man with suicide victim’s heart takes own life. NBC News.
https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna23984857
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Same fate for donor, recipient. Los Angeles Times. https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-
2008-apr-07-na-oddheart7-story.html
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Transplant patient in bizarre suicide. Otago Daily Times.
https://www.odt.co.nz/news/world/transplant-patient-bizarre-suicide
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Heart transplant recipient dies same way donor did (suicide). WFMY News 2.
https://www.wfmynews2.com/story/news/2008/04/07/heart-transplant-recipient-dies-same-way-donor-did-suicide/16660567/
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Heart transplant man dies like suicide donor. The Telegraph.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/1584391/Heart-transplant-man-dies-like-suicide-donor.html
Associated Press. (2008, April 13). Transplant patient in bizarre suicide. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/transplant-
patient-in-bizarre-suicide/
Associated Press. (2008, August 31). Transplant tragedy: 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart, 1 widow. Deseret News.
https://www.deseret.com/2008/8/31/20266449/transplant-tragedy-2-men-2-suicides-1-heart-1-widow
Associated Press. (2008, September 1). 2 suicide victims shared same heart, wife. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/2-
suicide-victims-shared-same-heart-wife/
Associated Press. (2008, September 7). 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart and 1 widow. SFGate. https://www.sfgate.com/news/article/2-
men-2-suicides-1-heart-and-1-widow-3181340.php
Associated Press. (2008, August 31). 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart and 1 widow. The Bend Bulletin.
https://www.bendbulletin.com/localstate/2-men-2-suicides-1-heart-and-1-widow/article_7f1f66c4-6d9a-5c90-8a77-
392ac47f7a1c.html
Evening Standard. (2012, April 12). Man given heart of suicide victim marries donor’s widow … then kills himself in exactly the same
way. https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/man-given-heart-of-suicide-victim-marries-donor-s-widow-then-kills-himself-in-
exactly-the-same-way-7629461.html
The Island Packet. (2009, November 22). Questions linger after suicide ruling in Graham death. The Island Packet.
https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-island-packet/142814707/
The Times and Democrat. (2010, February 22). GBI: Heart recipient committed suicide. The Times and Democrat.
https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-times-and-democrat/142669372/
Snopes. (2024, March 9). 2 men shared same heart, same wife, same cause of death? Snopes. https://www.snopes.com/fact-
check/suicide-heart-widow/
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In April 2008, neighbors in Vidalia, Georgia, were jolted awake by the sound of a shotgun blast. The man who died that morning was no stranger — Sonny Graham was a beloved golf director, a husband, a father. But Sonny also carried a secret: the transplanted heart of another man who had died by suicide more than a decade earlier. That man’s widow, Cheryl, had since become Sonny’s wife. What unfolded was a story so eerie it captured headlines across the world: two suicides, one heart, one wife. But behind the sensational coverage was something far more
complicated — a collision of love, survival, stigma, and myth-making.
In this episode, Bailey and Chelsea unravel the haunting symmetry of Sonny Graham and Terry Cottle’s lives. From the quiet desperation inside a South Carolina trailer, to the medical miracle of a transplant, to the crushing burden of being turned into a symbol, this is the story of how communities cling to folklore when the truth feels unbearable — and why even a heart strong enough to beat twice couldn’t carry the weight of a legend.
Resources:
Struggling with Suicidal Thoughts?
For the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, Call/Text 988
Previously known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, the 988 Lifeline
provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and
crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals
in the United States.
Find a Therapist:
Psychology Today: Health, Help, Happiness + Find a Therapist
BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up Today
Depression Resources:
Helpful Online Resources for Depression (webmd.com)
If you want to support us, subscribe, rate and review on your favorite podcast
listening app!
Want to recommend a wild case or just give us a 'hey!'? Contact us at
Buy Merch!: www.wildcidepodcast.com
Updates on Instagram: @wildcidepodcast
Facebook: Wildcide Podcast
Don’t forget Wildcide Wednesdays- new episodes drop every Wednesday at 6am EST.
Interviews will drop every other Friday at 6am EST.
Background music by Brad Parsons at Train Sound Studio. Art for the podcast was
created by Kelly Steen.
WILDCIDE Podcast and any content posted is presented solely for general informational, educational,
and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast
or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician,
professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should
not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may
have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
References:
Associated Press. (2008, April 6). Recipient of suicide victim’s heart kills self 12 years later. The Seattle Times.
https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/health/recipient-of-suicide-victims-heart-kills-self-12-years-later/
Associated Press. (2008, April 6). Man with suicide victim’s heart takes own life. NBC News.
https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna23984857
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Same fate for donor, recipient. Los Angeles Times. https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-
2008-apr-07-na-oddheart7-story.html
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Transplant patient in bizarre suicide. Otago Daily Times.
https://www.odt.co.nz/news/world/transplant-patient-bizarre-suicide
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Heart transplant recipient dies same way donor did (suicide). WFMY News 2.
https://www.wfmynews2.com/story/news/2008/04/07/heart-transplant-recipient-dies-same-way-donor-did-suicide/16660567/
Associated Press. (2008, April 7). Heart transplant man dies like suicide donor. The Telegraph.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/1584391/Heart-transplant-man-dies-like-suicide-donor.html
Associated Press. (2008, April 13). Transplant patient in bizarre suicide. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/transplant-
patient-in-bizarre-suicide/
Associated Press. (2008, August 31). Transplant tragedy: 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart, 1 widow. Deseret News.
https://www.deseret.com/2008/8/31/20266449/transplant-tragedy-2-men-2-suicides-1-heart-1-widow
Associated Press. (2008, September 1). 2 suicide victims shared same heart, wife. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/2-
suicide-victims-shared-same-heart-wife/
Associated Press. (2008, September 7). 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart and 1 widow. SFGate. https://www.sfgate.com/news/article/2-
men-2-suicides-1-heart-and-1-widow-3181340.php
Associated Press. (2008, August 31). 2 men, 2 suicides, 1 heart and 1 widow. The Bend Bulletin.
https://www.bendbulletin.com/localstate/2-men-2-suicides-1-heart-and-1-widow/article_7f1f66c4-6d9a-5c90-8a77-
392ac47f7a1c.html
Evening Standard. (2012, April 12). Man given heart of suicide victim marries donor’s widow … then kills himself in exactly the same
way. https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/man-given-heart-of-suicide-victim-marries-donor-s-widow-then-kills-himself-in-
exactly-the-same-way-7629461.html
The Island Packet. (2009, November 22). Questions linger after suicide ruling in Graham death. The Island Packet.
https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-island-packet/142814707/
The Times and Democrat. (2010, February 22). GBI: Heart recipient committed suicide. The Times and Democrat.
https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-times-and-democrat/142669372/
Snopes. (2024, March 9). 2 men shared same heart, same wife, same cause of death? Snopes. https://www.snopes.com/fact-
check/suicide-heart-widow/
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