In this episode of The Heart Warrior Project, I sit down with Will, a fellow cardiac arrest survivor, to talk openly about something many ICD patients fear: receiving a shock.

This is the full, in-depth conversation with Will about his recent ICD shock—what happened, what it felt like, and what went through his mind in those intense moments.

This episode is also part of a larger, in-depth video about ICD shocks featuring multiple survivor experiences and professional guidance from Dr. Samuel Sears, a clinical health psychologist specialized in working with ICD patients.

If you want to learn even more about ICD shocks—what to do, how to cope, and how to process the emotional aftermath—be sure to check out the full ICD shock episode: ICD Shocks: How Painful Are They—and How Do You Cope Afterward?

Love and dating can feel complicated after surviving a sudden cardiac arrest, living with heart disease, carrying an ICD, taking medication, or navigating physical limitations.

Quiet doubts can begin to surface: Will someone still choose me? Will I be rejected because of what I’ve been through? Am I still enough?

In this episode, I reflect on what I’ve witnessed firsthand through countless conversations with heart warriors—both on the podcast and during our monthly meetups—and share the remarkable qualities they embody.

This episode isn’t about pretending that things are easy. It’s about flipping the narrative.

Rather than focusing on fear, limitation, or illness, I explore why dating or building a life with a heart warrior can be deeply enriching—and why heart warriors make extraordinary partners.

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Dr. Sanjay Gupta, a consultant cardiologist at York Teaching Hospital in the UK, with a specialist focus on cardiac imaging, lifestyle medicine, and patient empowerment, is joining the podcast in a couple of days for a Q&A episode.

What questions do you have for Dr. Gupta on cardiac imaging, lifestyle and patient empowerment, or medications — benefits vs side effects?

You can leave your questions by going to this page:
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Questions can be submitted until February 12, 2026.

This live Q&A meetup was turned into a podcast episode so those who couldn’t join live can listen to it.

In this Q&A episode, we are joined by Prof. Dr. Johan Saenen, a renowned cardiologist and electrophysiologist from Antwerp University Hospital (UZA).

Dr. Saenen specializes in the prevention of sudden cardiac death and hereditary heart diseases.

This episode also highlights the Heart Warrior Project’s mission: connecting survivors, providing free access to vital information, and building a supportive community for heart warriors.

Every month, we host two meetups that give you the chance to meet fellow heart warriors from around the world. Occasionally, we also invite a cardiac health professional—as was the case here—so you can ask any questions you have, for free.

If you are a SCA survivor or someone at high risk, follow us on Instagram or subscribe to our newsletter to stay up to date on when the next meetup will take place.

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After leaving the hospital, we don’t receive a manual on how to cope with the mental load of living with an ICD, or what to do if a shock occurs.

That’s why I created this in-depth video/podcast episode, where members of our community—Will, Elise, and myself—share their personal experiences of receiving an ICD shock and what helped them navigate it.

We’re also joined by Dr. Sears, a clinical health psychologist specializing in quality of life for people with ICDs, who offers professional insights on coping with anxiety, responding to a shock, and rebuilding confidence afterward.

I hope this episode can serve as a guide and provide meaningful support for living with an ICD.

Cardiac Comeback Crew (Online Meetup)

Want to meet fellow SCA survivors or those who are at high risk? Come join our international family of heart warriors. It’s completely free. Every month, we host two online meetups. Sign up for our newsletter or follow us on Instagram to stay informed about when the next one will happen.

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I sincerely hope The Heart Warrior Project has been a source of support for you — and that it can continue to be one. I care deeply about making The Heart Warrior Project better, and I want to do this together with you.

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It’s completely anonymous, so please feel free to be as honest as you can.

Thank you for being here. Happy holidays to you all! See you again in 2026.

In this conversation, I talk with George Biesmans, a fellow heart warrior from our community, to discuss the complexities of living with heart disease and the progressive heart disease he has, DSP cardiomyopathy. George shares the emotional impact of the diagnosis, the uncertainty of the condition, and the challenges of navigating relationships and life in general.

If, after this episode, you’d like to learn even more about life with progressive heart disease, be sure to check out the full in-depth episode I made, which also includes parts of George’s story. In it, Karen, George, and I (all living with progressive heart disease) share our personal insights, together with Dr. Sears, a clinical health psychologist, who shares his professional insights on life with progressive heart disease.

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If you’d like to learn more about living with heart disease, check out the full episode, where George, Karen, Dr. Sears, and I share insights on navigating that journey: https://youtu.be/P3ipXCvSfo8?si=0PmbtWNHal4wqXLb

Karen, a fellow heart warrior and member of our community here at The Heart Warrior Project, shares in this conversation her journey of being diagnosed with arrhythmogenic cardiomyopathy — a heart condition she was diagnosed with two years ago — and the many changes and emotional challenges that have come with it.

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In this episode, I share what I’ve learned from over 20 years of living with heart disease. I’m joined by two wonderful members of our community, Karen and George, who were only recently diagnosed, as well as Dr. Samuel Sears, a clinical health psychologist, who offers his heartfelt and professional insights on navigating this journey.

If you’d like to join one of our meetups and connect with fellow heart warriors, you can find more information here: https://heartwarriorproject.com/online-meetup-for-cardiac-arrest-survivors/

Show notes for this episode can be found here: https://heartwarriorproject.com/chana-chaya-meetup/.

In this live Q&A meetup, Chaya Chana, a family and relationship therapist who is also a sudden cardiac arrest survivor, joins us to answer questions from those who joined in. This conversation highlights relational healing after cardiac arrest and how families can navigate recovery together.

Sudden cardiac arrest doesn’t affect us alone—the survivors—but also our family, partner, and our social life in general. This is where relational healing after cardiac arrest becomes so important. I hope this episode may provide some insights and support on this topic.

If you didn’t know that we also host meetups, hereby: we do indeed. Every month we host two. Sometimes it’s an open discussion, other times we focus on a theme, and occasionally a cardiac health expert will join us for a live Q&A meetup, as was the case here.Be sure to follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or subscribe to our newsletter to stay up to date on when the next meetup will happen!

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