How can I maintain my motivation for “more”?  I want “more” in my marriage, and I know my wife also wants “more”, but I struggle to stay motivated long enough to facilitate change.   Q2: How can we “grow” more as a couple?  How can we best move ourselves closer and closer to each other?  […]

You talk about serving your wife — putting her needs, wants, and desires above your own.  If I do this continually, do I risk giving up a part of who I am?  Am I sacrificing my own identity? The Circle of Satisfaction:  The Choice —> The Action —> The Satisfaction  Q2:  I’m wanting to improve my marriage, but I […]

What are the biggest hurdles that need to be overcome when it comes to working on a relationship? Q2:  Why do we, as guys, not like to work on our relationship?  (Is that just me?) Quote:  “Show me a thoroughly satisfied man, and I’ll show you a failure.”  – Thomas Edison

My wife doesn’t want to have sex.  As a Christian, I want to be understanding, but the Bible also says that “her body is not her own”.  What should I do? Q2:  I did some things 5 years ago that caused us relationship trouble.  I didn’t have a affair, it wasn’t anything serious, but my […]

Do you think that every husband can become heroic?  I’m just a regular Joe, and the kind of relationship stuff that my wife seems to want is just not my thing.  Q2: We’ve been married for over 40 years, and if I had to guess, my wife and I would both probably rank our marriage […]

Help! – I like a clean, neat, orderly house, but my wife just doesn’t seem to care! Mentioned: Please Understand Me II, by Dr. David Keirsey