If you’re a single woman over 40 who keeps attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, even though what you really want is a secure, lasting relationship, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we’re diving into unconscious self-sabotage in dating: the sneaky ways your mind and heart can work against your deepest desires without you even realizing it. If you’ve ever said “I’m ready for love!” but keep finding yourself in confusing, unfulfilling situations with unavailable guys… there’s a gap between what you want and what you’re actually experiencing. And that’s where change begins.

I’ll share real client stories, common self-sabotaging patterns, and powerful healing tools to help you bring your unconscious blocks to light so you can finally align with the love you desire. If you’re ready to stop chasing, stop hiding, and start welcoming love with an open heart, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to get there.

What’s Inside This Episode:

• The surprising ways self-sabotage shows up in your dating life (even when you swear you’re ready for love)
• Why there’s often a gap between what you say you want and what you’re actually experiencing
• How “harmless” dating habits — like waiting for the universe to deliver or analyzing every text — can keep you stuck
• A real client story that reveals the emotional tug-of-war behind unavailable-guy patterns
• Two powerful healing tools to stop sabotaging your love life and start leading with your heart

Ready to Break the Cycle? Listen now!

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