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Hi everyone, it’s Caryn, and welcome back to The Music of Life! This week, I’m diving into a deeply personal and eye-opening episode about the subtle—and not-so-subtle—ways financial control and manipulation can manifest during a divorce. I’ll share the bizarre story of how toilet paper became a symbol of power in my marriage, along with the emotional and financial toll it took on me. From hoarded household goods to disrupted financial agreements, this episode is all about resilience and reclaiming control when everything feels stacked against you.

If you've ever felt like you were being played in ways you couldn't have imagined, or if you're simply curious about the emotional layers that come with financial independence, this episode is a must-listen. It’s raw, it’s real, and hopefully, it will give you some insight into navigating similar struggles with grace and strength.

Episode Highlights:

[0:06] - Kicking off the episode with a vivid dream and its surprising connection to real-life challenges.
 [2:45] - How toilet paper turned into a bizarre control tactic during the marriage.
 [6:12] - Breaking down the financial manipulations and their emotional impact.
 [8:33] - The truth about court-ordered temporary maintenance and the games played with joint accounts.
 [10:20] - Uncovering how generosity was weaponized to maintain appearances.
 [12:45] - Closing reflections on resilience, taking the high road, and the importance of community support.

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