The Hold Up

For this week's episode, Sarah and Kaley could not resist jumping on the bandwagon and asking "Is Love Blind?" Hot off the heels of Netflix's reality show by (almost) the same name, your co-hosts dive deep into the show and wonder whether you can fall in love with someone sight unseen and if love at first sight is real. Tune in to hear what we have to say about this age old question!

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This week, Kaley and Sarah discuss string theory-and no! We're not talking science. Have you ever strung along a friend you're not really that into in the hopes they'll be around if you're both single and haven't found partners yet? Have you ever been strung along by a friend who's in a long term relationship because they like having lots of attention? Yah, we've heard stories. It happens! But like crushes, being a stringer and/or a stringee feeds off your low self esteem-and we want you to banish that! Tune in to this week's episode to learn how we all get into this bad habit and how to break it!

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This week, Sarah and Kaley sit down to discuss the age old discussion of whether it is better to find dates online or in real life. Online dating services began in 1994 and over the last 26 years couples have been using the internet to date. Online dating does pose some risks to safety and potential cat-fishing. However, online dating has many advantages in regards to efficiency and meeting people you may not encounter in real life. But still, there is resistance from people who feel that meeting in real life makes your chances at sparking a relationship better. But in this day and age when our time is becoming more constricted and the interactions we have with strangers are fewer and fewer, how does one go about meeting someone IRL? Tune in this week to find out the pros and cons of both sides!

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This week, Kaley and Sarah talk to LA-based feminist film trailblazer Inka Winter who is changing the landscape of porn for the better. Inka is the founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman production film company that focuses on making feminist porn centred on the female sexual experience. Inka began her filmmaking journey when her dying sex drive was impacting her relationship. Inka has a thoughtful, holistic approach to pornography which is both insightful and refreshing.

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To find out more about Inka and her work: www.forplayfilms.com

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This week, Sarah and Kaley go deep on Valentine’s Day. Is it a romantic celebration of love? Or is it a single-shaming monstrosity? Listen to find out what our co-hosts think.

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There are more single North Americans now than at any other point in history. While stereotypes once cast single people as sadsacks who pine for partners, the time has come to retire that tired cliche. Kaley and Sarah break down the best ways to suck the marrow out of life as a single person.

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This week, Kaley and Sarah turn to one of the busiest ladies they know for intel on how to keep your relationships strong, even while your career is revving up. They sit down with marketing expert, internet personality and bestselling author Avery Swartz. Her new book about digital marketing for small businesses is called See You On The Internet. It's available for pre-order now.

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And our lovely guest:

https://averyswartz.com/

https://www.seeyouontheinternet.com/

Instagram & Twitter: @averyswartz

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This week, Kaley and Sarah discuss stale patches. You know, those moments when your relationship has lost its luster and it just feels...dull. Stale patches are a regular part of being in a long-term relationship, but are they always a bad sign? And is your relationship always the real cause of that ennui? The co-hosts discuss strategies for refreshing your love life. They also tackle how to avoid relationship problems by living your most fulfilling life AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

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This week, Sarah and Kaley examine the stigma surrounding ultimatums. Our fearless co-hosts dare to ask, "Are they really that bad?" Whether you're tired of waiting for a partner to propose or you can't agree on whether to have kids, sometimes issuing an ultimatum is an effective way to find out if there's a path forward. Issuing an ultimatum isn't coercing your partner; you're asserting a boundary, letting them know you want someone who can meet your needs. And if they can't? Thank u, next!

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This week, we sit down with Holly Wyder, playwright and advocate for asexual awareness. Holly explains what it's like to date when you're not into sex, and why it's essential we stop erasing asexual existence.

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And our lovely guest:

https://www.hollywyder.com/

Instagram & Twitter: @hollyiswyder

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