This episode is a bit of an off the cuff freestyle where I chat about the recent bridleless competition and going bridleless with your horse, some myths about nervous system regulation, and I'll be giving you a friendly kick up the bum if you are feeling stuck or behind with your horse this summer.

Want to come along to the Summer Confidence Reset Call? Grab your ticket here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-summer-confidence-reset-tickets-1990786831002

Wanna work together 1:1 this summer? Email me at [email protected] or DM me on any of the socials @thehorsemanshipandmindsetcoach

See you next week!

Why does singing make us feel calmer? Why do so many riders talk to their horses, hum while grooming, or sing when they're nervous?

In this episode, I'm diving into the fascinating science behind singing, humming and nervous system regulation.

You'll learn how your voice can activate the vagus nerve, help calm anxiety, regulate stress responses and create a greater sense of safety and confidence both in and out of the saddle.

We'll explore why confidence isn't always a mindset problem, why horses often respond positively when we regulate ourselves, and simple techniques you can start using immediately before riding, hacking, competing or spending time with your horse.

If you've ever struggled with nerves, anxiety, overthinking or confidence around horses, this episode is packed with practical insights and tools to help.

• The science behind singing and anxiety relief
• How the vagus nerve influences confidence
• Why humming can regulate the nervous system
• The connection between breathing and emotional regulation
• Why riders often talk to their horses when nervous
• How horses respond to human tension and relaxation
• Practical confidence tools for equestrians

🎟 Summer Confidence Reset Workshop - The Summer Confidence Reset Tickets, Monday, June 29 • 7 PM - 8:30 PM GMT+1 | Eventbrite

📞 Apply for 1:1 Recalibrate Coaching - [email protected]

📲 Connect with me on social media for more rider confidence and mindset support - @thehorsemanshipandmindsetcoach

"That could never be me."

This week's episode is a powerful and honest conversation with one of my previous clients who, just 18 months ago, had completely lost her confidence with her horse, Pegs. At the time, riding felt overwhelming. Fear had taken over. She had stopped enjoying her horse, given up riding Pegs altogether, and couldn't imagine ever feeling relaxed and confident in the saddle again.

Yet today? She's regularly out hacking, cantering through open fields with her horse and dog, enjoying adventures together, sharing her journey on social media, and has even started experimenting with jumping again...something she never imagined she'd want to do!

In this episode, we talk openly about:

✓ What it really feels like to lose your confidence around horses

✓ The fears, worries and self-doubt that kept her feeling stuck

✓ How confidence issues affected her relationship with her horse

✓ The moment she realised something needed to change

✓ What she'd tried before that wasn't working

✓ The biggest mindset shifts that helped her move forward

✓ The first signs that her confidence was returning

✓ The reality behind the transformation people now see online

✓ What feels possible for her today that once felt impossible

✓ Her advice for riders who are currently struggling with confidence

If you've been feeling frustrated, fearful, stuck, or wondering whether you'll ever enjoy your horse again, this conversation will remind you that change is possible, because confidence isn't something you're born with...it's something you can build for yourself.

Connect with me and learn more about confidence coaching, hypnotherapy and mindset support for horse riders by messaging me on the socials at @thehorsemanshipandmindsetcoach or emailing me at [email protected]

To follow along with Valentina and Pegs adventures together, find her on instagram or Tiktok at @thatspottyhorse or to find out more about Val's photography, head to @reinfocusmedia

If this episode resonates with you, please share it with a fellow horse person and leave a review...it helps more riders discover the support they need!

See you next week!

Are you truly training your horse… or just repeating exercises?

In this episode, I explore why riding and lunging should be about far more than “walk, trot, canter both ways” and ENDLESS circles!

You’ll learn:

• how horses actually learn through release and association

• why nervous system regulation affects learning and performance

• the importance of pauses and processing time in training

• how to become more aware of your horse’s communication

• why slowing down can improve connection and understanding

• how to use lunging for observation, regulation and relationship building, not just exercise

This episode is perfect for riders interested in:

✨ horse behaviour

✨ equine learning theory

✨ horse-human connection

✨ nervous system regulation

✨ confidence and mindset

✨ natural horsemanship

✨ improving communication with your horse

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review and share with a fellow equestrian! Want support rebuilding calm, confidence and connection with your horse?

Explore ways to work with me + the Ride or Cry Kit via the link below!

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In this rider Q&A episode, I’m answering real questions sent in by listeners, and honestly, these are things SO many horse owners quietly struggle with.

We’re talking about:

• adjusting after moving yards,
• how your energy and mindset affect your horse,
• rebuilding confidence after rehab,
• and returning to canter solo after a long break.

If you’ve ever felt anxious, disconnected, overwhelmed, emotional around your horse, or frustrated that your confidence doesn’t match your capability… this episode is for you.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

• why horses often mirror nervous system states,
• how stress and pressure can affect connection,
• practical ways to settle into a new environment with your horse,
• and how to rebuild trust in yourself after time out of the saddle.

This episode is especially helpful for sensitive riders, anxious riders, returning riders, and anyone wanting more confidence, calm, trust, and ease with their horse.

✨ Ready for deeper support this summer?

I’m currently taking on a limited number of 1:1 mindset coaching and hypnotherapy clients for June. If you’re tired of overthinking, second-guessing yourself, riding in survival mode, or feeling stuck in fear and tension around your horse, this work is designed to help you reconnect with confidence, calm and enjoyment again.

📩 Email: [email protected]

📱 Or send me a DM on Instagram with the word “SUMMER”

And if this episode helped you, please follow, subscribe, rate and share the podcast... it genuinely helps more horse riders find this work!

See you next time!

I'm back! In this weeks episode I'm reflecting on the last couple of weeks being oot and boot in the 'field'. I share some insights that I hope are helpful, aswel as some quick tips on nervous system regulation that you can take away and use right away!

If you have any questions or things you'd like me to talk about on the podcast, email me at [email protected], or DM me on the socials @thehorsemanshipandmindsetcoach...same place if you'd like to talk about working together!

Enjoy, and I'll see you next week!

Comparison doesn’t have to hold you back, it can actually become one of your most powerful tools for growth.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why comparison triggers self-doubt
• How to shift from feeling “behind” to feeling inspired
• The difference between being triggered vs activated
• Practical mindset shifts to build confidence

📩 Work with me: [email protected]

⭐ Please rate, follow, and share the podcast pretty please and thank you!

In this episode, we dive into the impact of external pressure and the need for approval on your confidence and connection with your horse.

You’ll learn:

• How comparison and judgement affect your riding
• Why seeking approval disconnects you from your instincts
• Practical ways to rebuild self-trust
• How to start riding in a way that feels aligned and authentic

📩 Work with me: [email protected]

⭐ Don’t forget to rate, follow, and share pretty please and thank you!!

In this episode, we explore the powerful (and often overlooked) horse–human loop the way your internal state directly influences your horse’s behaviour, and vice versa.

You’ll learn:

• Why your nervous system plays a bigger role than you think
• How tension, anticipation, and fear impact your horse
• Why “fixing the horse” isn’t always the answer
• Simple ways to start regulating yourself before and during your rides

If you’re ready to feel calmer, more confident, and more connected in the saddle, this episode is for you.

📩 To work with me this spring: [email protected]

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Spring can feel exciting…but it can also bring a lot of pressure!

More riders out. More expectations. More comparison.

...and suddenly you’re wondering why you don’t feel as confident or as “ready” as you think you should.

In this episode, I’m sharing 10 simple reminders to help you:

– come back to yourself

– release the pressure

– and move forward in a way that actually feels good

Because you’re not behind, and you don’t need to rush!

💛 If you’re ready to feel calmer, more confident, and more in control around your horse…

Recalibrate is my 4-week 1:1 program designed to:

– stop the spiral

– regulate your nervous system

– rebuild trust in yourself

📩 DM me CALM to find out more (@thehorsemanshipandmindsetcoach on the socials) or email me at [email protected]