The House on Valencia Street

A pause shared, a gratitude given.

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ep 185. Hiatus Notes. 08 27 2024

12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

A party in Chicago give millions the feels, a data breach exposed 90+% of the U.S. population this week, and technical difficulties are addressed.

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ep 184. Credit notes 8/21/2024

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"A leak with hacked Social Security numbers is stoking concern. There are simple ways to protect yourself. " NBC News, August 15, 2024:

https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/security/was-every-social-security-number-hacked-leaked-concern-stoked-lawsuit-rcna166787

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

A funeral, a view of a friend, the one we all know. John Candy and Catherine O'Hara. A crush, grace, love and death. New respect for Ms. O'Hara, and glad for it.

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ep 182. Candy notes 8/14/2024

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Catherine_O'Hara

John Candy eulogy, taken from VHS with cleaned up audio, 1994, Youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rKHKTfrWL5w&t=260s

wiki

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_O%27Hara

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John Candy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Candy

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

Feeling hope and joy while triggered. New announcements make many happy recently... we are present, grateful and twitching.

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ep 182. Quiver notes 8/6/2024

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CPTSD research:

"Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation: Skills Training for Patients and Therapists (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology) 1st Edition" :

https://www.amazon.com/Coping-Trauma-Related-Dissociation-Interpersonal-Neurobiology/dp/039370646X

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Reddit group focused on CPTSD: https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/

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Dr. Ramani - Clinical Psychologist, New York Times Bestseller, and Professor:

https://doctor-ramani.com/

https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

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Patrick Teahan, LICSW :

https://www.patrickteahantherapy.com/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbWvYupGqq3aMJ6LsG4q-Yg

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

The longing we feel, yearning for our loved ones on the other side. Stranger Things gave us one version of a tool that might help - a Talking Board, also known as the Ouija Board. Also, stats on death by gun specifically with suicide and gender are discussed. Lastly, a dead grandma still helps a living girl stay strong.

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ep 181. Talking Board notes 7/31/2024

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Stranger Things, Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/80057281

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OUIJA BOARD: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ouija

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Death stats data - 2022 - suicide vs murder - American Foundation for Suicide Prevention = AFSP.org: https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/

CDC.org

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Hello From Heaven, Bill and Judy Guggenheim, book on After Death Communication or ADCs: https://www.amazon.com/Hello-Heaven-Research-After-Death-Communication-Confirms/dp/0553576348

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

The wild ride of presidential events giving you the feels? Here are a few fave political tarot readers on Youtube, with wisdom and charisma to offer. Also, a favorite tarot card may bear a small secret.

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ep 180. Snail notes 7/24/2024

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Youtube political psychics who are fun to watch and have accurate predictions:

Maighstir Tarot -

Australian, assertive, intuitive, has several spirit guides she acknowledges by name. She talks about First Nations tribe and tradition in her country, which I appreciate. She reads with many different tarot decks:

https://www.youtube.com/@maighstirtarot5385

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Linda G the Comanche Psychic -

Great readings, funny, sharp wit, predictions come to pass. Her Youtube newsfeed has been a source for breaking news for me - she's on it! She discusses First Nations and indigenous peoples tribe and tradition, which I appreciate.

https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGtheComanchePsychic

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Dr Lena Tarot Down Under - [wears a beret]

Australian sociologist, and tarot reader. I became aware of her from Mary Trump's youtube live chat group. I understand that Mary Trump has mentioned Dr. Lena, and other channel members loved her work. I do too. She calls the former guy, "The Orange Yeti.... not to insult Yetis"...

https://www.youtube.com/@LenaRodriguezTarotDownUnder

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

Artillery is discussed in this episode. Disclaimer - violence is not okay, do not use artillery to harm others.

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100, 200 yards. Analyzing things from the shooter's perspective. While hard to discuss, I break down mechanically what basic tools it takes to line a long distance target. How my Buddhism changed my actions with artillery. Last, the premonition on the former guy's recent event, with detail this time. It upset me to share, 2 years ago so I didn’t. And now that it’s happened, I’ll describe the premonition, and how much it matched the event.

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NOTES ep 179. Tools 7/17/2024

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"Table of handgun and rifle cartridges" - wikipedia -

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Table_of_handgun_and_rifle_cartridges

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

The present news take a toll on spirit. Leaning back, a memory of Elmer, helps. Finding life in a small dusty Arizona town. How one particular smile offered, changed my life.

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ep 177. The Last Bellydance notes - 7/2/2024

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Mary Trump Media - https://www.youtube.com/@MaryTrumpMedia

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.

The ghost of Darlene dispenses a joke, of course. Also, Donald Sutherland has passed on, alas. He ended up starring in a favorite Kate Bush video, with a famous director...focused on a son's book, about a colleague of Freud, that caught Sutherland's curiosity...

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ep 176. To Name It notes - 6/25/2024

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Cloudbusting, by Kate Bush on album House of Love. You can buy the single MP3 here

[I recommend buying the whole Hounds of Love album, most tracks are masterpieces]:

https://amazon.com/music/player/tracks/B0BXFPZPLY

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Cloudbusting by Kate Bush, starring Donald Sutherland, can be watched for free here on youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pllRW9wETzw

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"The Funny Story of How Donald Sutherland Ended Up in Kate Bush’s Cinematic 'Cloudbusting' Video" - People magazine:

https://people.com/how-donald-sutherland-ended-up-in-kate-bush-cloudbusting-video-8666772

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"Orgone was seen as a massless, omnipresent substance, similar to luminiferous aether, but more closely associated with living energy than with inert matter." -

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgone

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"A cloudbuster is a device designed by Austrian psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich (1897–1957), which Reich claimed could produce rain by manipulating what he called "orgone energy" present in the atmosphere."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cloudbuster

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A Book of Dreams - The Book That Inspired Kate Bush's Hit Song 'Cloudbusting' Kindle Edition

by Peter Reich (Author) - Kindle version:

https://www.amazon.com/Book-Dreams-Inspired-Bushs-Cloudbusting-ebook/dp/B00UAU9MS6/

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Happy Rhodes, and her song Ecto, can be bought standalone here:

https://amazon.com/music/player/tracks/B09QNTCBP9

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Happy Rhodes, and her song Ecto, for free on youtube:

https://youtu.be/5aXga1r7U5M?si=P1vvdNkLDyhtKVIX

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12 step, Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org/

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. 1-800-273-8255

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National Sexual Assault Hotline Hours: Available 24 hours 1-800-656-4673

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POD DESCRIPTION:

This is The House on Valencia Street. This is a place where ghosts & psychics, with PTSD, exist, & I'm talking about it. Share time with a rare survivor, walking back to haunted rooms and space being claimed from long ago. This is from the survivor's perspective, communicated as I see fit, in a way that feels right, for me.

I do not offer advice here, I share what worked for me. I am not a professional therapist, this is just one case study, one perspective. Please seek professional help, if mental health issues need attention.

This podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only, and I am a commentator. USE YOUR DISCERNMENT. Language is explicit. Names may or may not be changed, to protect some. Content Warning: ghosts, psychic ability, rape, incest, foster care, murder, emancipation, BDSM, therapy, lightning strikes, personal responsibility, Buddhism, LGBTQIA+, recovery, codependency, comedy, domestic violence - and inappropriate humor, most likely.

Picture inset: This is me, so many years ago, standing in front of my mother's Impala, and the House on Valencia Street.