In this fun, heartfelt, and honest episode, we sit down with Kess and Steve Scharff — a couple who have weathered 27 years of marriage, raised three daughters, opened their hearts as foster parents, and walked through the shadows of childhood trauma and the freedom gained in Christ after years of struggle with alcohol dependency. Their story is one of resilience, raw faith, and radical love — not the kind that tries to fix or control, but the kind that holds space, leans into grace, and chooses personal growth over blame. As Kess and Steve share, Real love isn’t about fixing someone — it’s about holding space while they grow.

Together, they explore what it truly means to love someone as they are, to navigate pain without losing connection, and to let God’s love transform the way we care for those closest to us. Because as they’ve learned through experience, You can’t build a strong house if you’re only pointing at the cracks in someone else’s walls. Whether you're in the midst of relationship struggles, parenting challenges, or your own healing process, this episode is a powerful reminder: no house is too broken for God to rebuild — brick by brick, with Jesus at the center!

Kess and Steve Scharff's ministry center on showing the love of Jesus to everyone they meet, teaching their family to break generational sin, and teaching other to love and serve like Christ. They believe family extends beyond blood, encompassing all who love Jesus and live according to His call. Through their work with SEEDS for Change, they emphasize holistic healing, experiential growth, and breaking free from cycles of trauma by living in alignment with God's Word and being full of gratitude and joy in the simpleness of the day. Learn more at www.kessscharff.com and get the Couples Devotional on Amazon: Sacrificial Love: The Marriage I Didn't Say I Do To, Husbands and Wives Tell All

From Hustle to Harvest: Holy Surrenders and Slowly Becoming, and God's Way Forward with Christina Blincoe!
In this soul-nourishing episode, we sit down with the radiant Christina "Chrissy" Blincoe — author, entrepreneur, boss babe, wife, and mother — as she opens up about the transformation from a high-speed, high-stress lifestyle to one rooted in surrender, following Jesus, and God’s timing.

Christina shares her testimony of building a lavender farm with her husband Joe, and how her health crisis became the divine turning point that led to deep pruning, spiritual renewal, and a shift in priorities. From balancing work, entrepreneurship and motherhood to publishing multiple books, Christina shares insight and wisdom every season of her journey — and how leaning into God became her greatest business (and life) strategy to following God's design!

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the hustle or unsure how to slow down, this conversation will encourage your heart and remind you that sometimes, the detour is the destination.

Don’t miss this inspiring episode filled with faith, farming, and purpose-filled living and dreaming with God!

Find Christina Blincoe:

www.sweetstreamslavender.com | Instagram: @sweetstreamslavender & @christinablincoe

Tune into The House We Build Podcast Eps 9: Living in the In-Between: Walking through Longsuffering as Daughters of God with Co-host Becky Vasquez and Special Guest Tierra Lebbie.

In this heartfelt episode, Tierra Lebbie, advocate for women and host of the Kept podcast, shares her deeply personal journey of walking through longsuffering as a daughter of God. As a woman who has experienced the pain of multiple miscarriages, Tierra opens up about the emotional and spiritual challenges she faced in the in-between seasons of waiting, loss, and longing. She shares how these heartbreaking experiences became an invitation to surrender everything to Jesus, even in the midst of the pain.

Tierra reflects on the temptation to covet the next season—the hope of a new beginning or the end of mourning—but reveals how God has taught her to embrace the present season of refinement and growth. Through raw vulnerability, she explains how the enemy seeks to distract us from the work God is doing in our hearts by pushing us to rush ahead or wish away our pain. Instead, Tierra shows how we can live fully in the "in-between," trusting that God’s purpose is unfolding, even in the waiting.

Ladies (Daughters), we have a legacy to leave behind! We are called to come together to speak the Gospel to one another, so not one family member is left behind! God wants His Daughters to be free! It's our rightful inheritance, because who the Son sets free is free indeed! We have in our inheritance the ability to be FREE even in the midst of the greatest pain in our lives. So, lean in ladies, and share this special episode with a sister who needs this word today!

In this powerful episode, we sit down with special guest Tamra Andress to explore the tension in seasons of decrease, self-reliance and total dependence on Christ. Much like the show Naked and Afraid, where participants strip down to their bare essentials, we dive into the process of stripping away false identities, self-righteousness, and man-made pursuits in order to stand raw and vulnerable before God. Just as the contestants on the show face their fears vulnerable and transparent, we, too, are called to abide, cloth and trust Him to cover us in seasons where we feel exposed—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.

Together, Becky and Tamra share moments of "getting naked and unafraid" before the Lord—allowing Him to reshape and unveil the parts of their stories that were built on falsehoods, and embracing the divine transformation of being fully clothed in Christ. We talk about how we often spend our lives building our own "houses" of self-reliance, when it comes to business, and even things we "do for God" but that the real freedom comes when we lay down our own construction and surrender to God’s design.

This conversation is a raw and transparent exploration of vulnerability, identity, and the refining process where God unwraps false doctrines, replacing them with His pure truth. As Christians navigating the professional world, we often fear being exposed, but Tamra reminds us that God doesn’t just want the polished, perfect version of us—He wants all of us, the real, raw, and authentic selves, laid bare before Him.

Join us as we discuss the beauty of leaning into fear, embracing the process of unwrapping, and finding strength in being fully vulnerable before the Lord. God goes before us and prepares a way, so we can approach the table to dine with the Father—naked, unafraid, and fully seen. This episode is packed with revelation that will empower you to face your fears and step into the freedom God has for you.

Tamra Andress is a 8x #1 best selling author (…and counting) featured in Forbes, USA Today, Inc., Entrepreneur, LA Weekly and many other well known publications. She’s keynote speaker, and top podcaster - with The Messenger Movement Podcast (with over 500 episodes and counting) and 2 other notable shows (The Founder Collective and Girls Gone Holy). She’s a serial entrepreneur who works with high capacity christian leaders to turn their messages into movements and share the Good News. She is wildly in love with words and The Word! Through her publishing company, F.I.T.(fit) in Faith Press, she catalyzes messengers in the marketplace by building buisnesstry through publishing, podcasting and platform development while keeping play at the core! Her non-profit, The Founder Collective, focuses on ordaining and sustaining marketplace ministers and is launching a world class Academy in 2026 alongside partners like John Maxwell. Find her adventuring with her hubby, two kiddos and pups or dancing and cartwheeling to stay aligned and alive.

In this episode of The House We Build Podcast, we dive into a powerful conversation on what it truly means to live in relationship with one another through the lens of empathy, proximity, expectations, and good judgment. Special guest Calvin Murray shares his personal testimony of coming into his own relationship with Jesus and the profound lesson that following Christ is a race to the back of the line. It’s about putting others before ourselves and loving even those who may be difficult to love.

Calvin challenges us to reflect on how we engage with others—how we serve, how we react when we are offended, and how we handle judgment. Through this raw and heartfelt discussion, we explore the importance of living out the teachings of Jesus, serving others, and loving with humility, especially in the face of adversity.

Join us as we reflect on how to truly love one another—both friends and strangers alike—and build a house of grace, empathy, generosity, and good judgement based on the teaching of Christ.

Calvin Murray and his family are locals to the Augusta area, where they serve their community through fellowship in and out of the church walls, loving their neighbors, on the pickle ball court, in sports, and through their business Egoscue® of Atlanta & Augusta. Through the Egoscue® Method they focus on identifying and correcting muscular imbalances and joint misalignments in the body to eliminate chronic pain, improve physical alignment, and enhance overall movement. That way, people can get back to doing the things they love to do with one another!

In this episode, we explore the profound invitation of God’s love—a love so deep and selfless that it changes everything. The cross stands as the ultimate manifesto of this divine love, a public declaration of who God is: Agape, self-sacrificial, and unconditional love in its purest form. Jesus, the embodiment of that love, calls us to experience and reflect it in our own lives. We will discuss what does it mean to love God and how his love paves the way for transformation in our relationships. Have we lost the language of love? Together as we build his house in our hearts and home we will renew our minds and spirits, allowing Love to reshape us from the inside out! This is the Invitation of Love—are you ready to answer?

In this episode of The Sacred Thread: Building Intentional Relationship with Rest & Repentance, we dive deep into the importance of building relationships with intentionality—both with God and others. In a world that often treats church and connection as optional, we explore how rest, repentance, and renewal are all intricately connected in our journey of faith. True restoration can’t happen without first embracing the power of rest and the humility of repentance. Join host Becky Vasquez and guest Jori O'Neale as they uncover the transformative truth that we are all deeply connected, and learn how intentional relationships, rooted in grace and renewal, can illuminate and strengthen our walk with God and those around us.

Go first... God did: The Power of Going First in Reconciliation and Healing Relationships - In this powerful episode, we explore the profound concept of Going First—the essential step of initiating reconciliation and taking intentional action in our relationships to forgive and let go. Drawing inspiration from the heart of the Gospel, we reflect on how God set the example in the garden and how Jesus' life and ministry, including washing His disciples' feet, was all about reconciliation and loving others well.

Through deep reflection, we ask ourselves the crucial question: What does love require? We dive into the spiritual practice of seeking God’s guidance in our relationships, using the words of Psalm 139:23-24 as a prayer of introspection: "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting."

Join us as we reflect on going first—leading in reconciliation in your relationships with neighbors, friends, church members, coworkers, and more. Whether you're navigating personal challenges or striving to love more like Jesus, this conversation will inspire you to embrace reconciliation and live a life of love, grace, and action.

In this episode of The House We Build Podcast, co-host and founder Becky Vasquez sits down with Out of The Fire Podcast Host, Coach, & Mentor Trisha Fraley to discuss the common barriers that cause disconnect in our relationships. We explore how the culture of individualism, offense-taking, and judgment can undermine our connections, and how embracing grace and forgiveness can bring us back together. Trisha shares a powerful relational tool that helps us get honest with ourselves, leading to deeper communication and stronger bonds, even in moments of depletion. Tune in to learn how you can create healthier, more connected relationships by practicing love, empathy, and mutual understanding. Learn more and get connected with Trisha at trishafraley.com and @trisha.fraley

Join us on a transformative journey with special guest, pastor, speaker, author, and creative Michael R. Zadai, as we explore the powerful truth that God is not just a distant deity but a loving Father who is inviting you back home. In this episode, we dive into the shift from mere religious obligation and shame to a deep, personal relationship with your Creator. From the story of the prodigal son (Luke 15) to understanding the full identity of God as Father (Yahweh, ABBA), we unpack the beauty of our identity as sons and daughters. Discover the profound invitation to come home and embrace the life God always intended for you—one filled with love, belonging, completeness, freedom, and SHALOM... This is coming HOME!