Many times in life we find ourselves longingly looking at the field of others and then thoughts like "how I wish that was me" "A's life is seems so put together compared to mine" starts to creep in that we fail to remember it's all an illusion. No one on earth has a perfect life, we all just do a great job of hiding our pain because no one wants to be perceived as a wreck. So, instead of wasting so much time with comparison, how about we water our own gardens and not fixate on the things our hands haven't quite reached.