All of us make poor or wrong decisions and then suffer the consequences, which could have been forestalled by taking the time to consider the consequences before making the decisions. It's the simple truth, if you want to suffer fewer negative consequences, then check the possible consequences of each decision before you make it. Sadly, our current world is hell bent on making decisions without considering the consequences, then blame others for their bad luck, when it's all our very own fault. It's time we all wake up and take responsibility for our actions, and not try to pass the blame unto others. That's the only way our world will ever right itself. Much LOVE!