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  • 033: Reflections On Mental Wellness
    This week I want to reflect on mental wellness, technology, and sleep.During this first season we didn't set out to explore mental wellness but it became apparent that in the arc of their stories that mental fortitude, resilience, and strength were crucial to the achievements of our guests, even those that had experienced mental health challenges in their lives.Reflecting on these many interviews, intentionality seems to define our guests. Intentionality of how they live their lives and how they live with technology. Whether Ryder Carroll through his Bullet Journal or Debbie Millman’s life design methodology where she writes a projected vision of her perfect day five years in the future, defining their future selves seems to be a common trait. Outside of the Podcast, I did a breakfast interview with Fabrice Grinda, Forbes listed No1 Angel Investor, where he laid out his life planning approach, writing 20000-word letters to himself outlining his future life.  This for me is intentionality. We live in a world where It’s so easy to assume from the polished veneer of our socially connected world that everyone is happy, mentally strong and resilient. Contrast that with the common reality of the distracted lives of those who live in a constant state of what is often called Continuous Partial Attention. I’ll quote from the visionary thinker and thought leader, Linda Stone: ‘In large doses, it contributes to a stressful lifestyle, to operating in crisis management mode, and to a compromised ability to reflect, to make decisions, and to think creatively. In a 24/7, always-on world, continuous partial attention used as our dominant attention mode contributes to a feeling of overwhelm, over-stimulation and to a sense of being unfulfilled. We are so accessible, we’re inaccessible. The latest, greatest powerful technologies have contributed to our feeling increasingly powerless'.Just consider the neurological and neuro-chemical effects this is having a pandemic of global proportions - 320m people globally are suffering from depression and anxiety and that’s just the reported numbers  - 16.1 million American workers are affected by Major Depressive Disorder according to Workplacementalhealth.org - In the US alone the feeling of social isolation is on the rise - 50% of of the population claim to feel ‘alone...disconnected ...that no one really knows us’ - Since 2011 depression rates have risen 60% amongst 12-17-year-old teens and young adults.This is an individual and a collective problem44% of adults say stress has increased in the last five years 56% of employees say stress and anxiety impact their job performance 62% of missed workdays are attributed to Mental Conditions We need to confront this. I think most of us have experienced the negative impact that social media and technology can have on wellbeing.  But we can’t turn back the technology timeline and we need to face emerging challenges of rapidly changing world where our identity and purpose as humans will be challenged by the advances in AI and Machine learning -  - where they can out think us,  - outperform us  - and out reason us…Soon we will have to question more than ever  - who we are - what we want to be - and doSo as technology threatens to erode our humanity, we need to strengthen our collective identity and that starts with us to take action and confront the realities of how we live with technology today. If you are a parent check out CommonSenseMedia.orgIf your a business check out the Center for Humane Technology And I urge everyone to read the important book by Matthew Walker called Why We Sleep. If we are to start anywhere we need to reclaim our right to sleep. As our celebrity trainer guest, Josh Holland stated, fitness and wellness start with sleep.  - The WHO lists lack of societal sleep as a world health epidemic ...

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    6 min
  • 032: Reflections On Serendipity
    I’m going to start these reflections with serendipity.It’s the underlying theme of this series, a word that’s often used but as a concept somewhat misunderstood.  Let’s start with its origins. The origins of words always make for fascinating reading. But ‘serendipity’ has a particularly interesting origin story. The word ‘serendipity’ was invented on 28 January 1754 in a letter from Horace Walpole to another Horace—Mann.When Walpole (son of Britain’s first de facto Prime Minister, Robert Walpole) wrote down the word ‘serendipity’ for the first time, he was giving the English language one of its most adored, but bewildering words. Walpole was a prolific creator, or populariser, of new words. The Oxford English Dictionary credits him with introducing over 200 words into the English language, among them malaria, nuance, somber, and souvenir.But Walpole is most recognized neologism was ‘serendipity’, often cited as meaning the ‘faculty of making happy and unexpected discoveries by accident’. The word ‘serendipity’ is derived from Serendip, the old name for Sri Lanka, but the etymology of Walpole’s creation of serendipity stems from a specific work of literature, a Persian fairy tale called “The Three Princes of Serendip”: as princes traveled, they were always making discoveries, by accidents and sagacity, of things which they were not in quest off. In fact, it’s one of the earliest detective stories in existence: the story of how three princes track down a missing camel through ‘luck and good fortune’. However, the princes actually utilize curiosity or forensic deduction – on a Sherlockian level. And it’s that curiosity and deduction that, ironically, gets them into trouble. As the story goes - they were traveling through the desert, when they met a merchant whose camel had gone missing.They helped the merchant by tracking the animal’s progress through the land. However the descriptions and deductions they make about the lost animal were in such striking detail that the merchant suspected them of having stolen it and had the stand trial before the king, Bahram Gur, where the merchant publicly accuses the princes of theft, and the king sentences them to death – unless they can produce the camel and return it to its owner.Among the princes' deductions that set off the suspicion was that they correctly managed to identify that it was lame in one leg, blind in one eye, and had a missing tooth. They deduced these distinguishing features from the patches of grass on which the camel had grazed, and the imprints it had left in the ground. What happens to the princes in the end? Good fortune intervened and their lives are spared, when a traveler shows up and announces that he has seen a camel wandering in the desert – the merchant’s missing camel. The merchant gets his camel back, and the king issues a reprieve to the princes –and even appoints them his special advisers, in recognition of their talents.In conclusion, their lives are spared, by what Walpole coined as serendipity, and they even owed their subsequent advisory careers to the King as a serendipitous occurrence in itself.So why do we ask all our guests about serendipity?One we are interested in their interpretation of it and examples thereofTo explore whether its more than happy accidents and that serendipity can be engineered.  What impact does upbringing have on a guest’s willingness to embrace risk, welcome ambiguity, confront fear, and to take the road less traveled? Where did their curiosity come from, was it innate or nurtured or both? How has that curiosity fueled their life journey? And how do they continue to feed it?As the three princes tale demonstrates there is always something unexpected, at the core of serendipity, an unanticipated occurrence, a moment or an encounter that, that planning can not predict, that results in a positive outcome. This is contrary to our natural ...

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    7 min
  • 031: It's A Wrap - End of Season One

    Welcome to The Impossible Network.


    This is just a short episode to say we reached our 30th episode last week and with that event, we ended Season One of The Impossible Network. 

    Over the next 5 weeks until the next season starts we will be posting our reflections, questions, and perspectives on some of the big themes from season one: 


    • The impact of parental support 
    • The damage of abuse
    • The character to survive it 
    • We’ll talk more about the power of curiosity 
    • Creating environments where creativity can flourish
    • We’ll explore resilience, grit, and determination
    • Risk-taking, fear, and failure 
    • Mental wellness
    • Why we think serendipity can be engineered
    • The principles that connected our guests 
    • And of course, we’ll reflect on what we consider possible. 


    If you’re new to the show and haven’t listened to some of our early episodes I’d encourage you to listen to Tyrique Glasgow, Michael Ventura, and Merritt Moore as starters. 

     

    We have some captivating guests coming in series two including visionary impresario behind Studio 54 Carmen D’Alessio and renowned New York Gallerist Jose Freire, and many more. 

    Reflections start next week.

    As ever, stay curious, be creative and be open to serendipity. 

     

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    2 min
  • 030: Debbie Millman - When Life Design Meets Serendipity

    Guest Overview

    One of the most influential voices in design, led the re-design of over 200 global brands, is Co-founder of the Masters in Branding program at New York’s School of Visual Arts and creator, author of six books, and host of one of the most popular and longest running podcasts, Design Matters, is this week’s guest Debbie Millman. 

    As a guest on countless podcasts, we avoid going over much of what you may have already heard in other interviews. Instead, we delve into who Debbie is. 

    I hope you enjoy this emotive exploration into the life design of Debbie Millman. 

    What We Discuss

    Her upbringing in New York

    The emotional impact and stigma of her parent's divorce aged eight 

    The impact of the abuse she experienced from her stepfather

    A drawing she created as a child that became a visual representation her future life

    Why Manhattan became what she called her ‘non-negotiable’ 

    The impact and experience of 9/11 

    Her life-long struggle with a lack of self-belief

    Resilience, hope, and shame

    The validation she received from teachers for her 

    The empowering effect from one professor's encouragement 

    Her creativity as a child

    The liberating experience of being single in 2017 

    The serendipity and positive impact of a character destroying post on the Speak Up blog

    How she guides and advises her students

    Debbie’s innate curiosity

    How she interviews for attitude

    The transformative impact of coming out in her 50’s 

    Her perspective on courage

    We discuss Debbie’s periods of depression and despair 

    We cover her principles 

    Her views on failure 

    The hard choices she has made

    Her answer to our impossible question

    Who we interview next

    On Social 

    Twitter 

    Facebook

    Instagram 

    Linkedin

    Links In The Show 

    Debbie Millman 

    Milton Glaser 

    School of Visual Arts 

    One of Us movie 

    SUNY Albany

    Professor Helen Regueiro Elam 

    Speak Up Blog 

    Hacking the American Mind Robert Lustig

    AIGA 

    Print Magazine

    Steven Heller 

    Masters In Branding Program 

    Sterling Brands 

    David Lee Roth 

    Joyful Heart Foundation 

    Fabrice Grinda

    Hedonic Treadmill

    Roxanne Gay 

    Hunger Book 

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    49 min
  • 029: Anahita Moghaddam - Transcendence, Transformation and Finding Purpose
     Guest Overview Born in Iran, raised in Germany, a social anthropologist, an executive coach, organizational trainer and international speaker, founder of contemplative science focused Neural Beings, and long term resident of New York is this week’s guest, Anahita Moghaddam. In this episode, Anahita tells the story of her troubled, anger-fueled and rebellious early years, the impact of her parents and upbringing and her struggles with sexual identity, purpose, and life direction. Anahita discusses the role and transformative power of dance in her growth and how a trip to India transformed her life and set her on her Buddhist Spiritual path.   She explains how a serendipitous flight cancellation resulted in coming face to face with the Dalai Lama on the re-booked flight. We also discuss the happy accidents and chance encounters, that have defined her spiritual path in New York  Anahita explains how her rigorous and experiential contemplative science methodology blends Eastern practices and wisdom, with the western fields of psychology, philosophy, neuroscience, and biology.  We discuss the damaging fragmentation of technology on our attention, on self and our communities and the practices we can all adopt to lead more balanced positive lives.   She shares her perspective on the power of femininity in society and culture and ideas on new forms of education.  I hope you’re inspired by this episode of powerful insights into the human experience, and her commitment to self-inquiry with Anahita Moghaddam.   What We Discuss  Being born in Iran and experiencing the traumas of the Iran-Iraq war Moving to London to study Marketing Immersing herself in the gay club scene to dance and feel safeHer drug abuse, inner dialogue, partying and hitting rock bottomThe bubble that was her school life, her self-harm, and her alienation The duality of growing up in Germany and spending vacation time in Iran The ambiguity of her upbringing The wake-up call of her father dyingThe end of her spiral of destruction Her spiritual awakening from a 3-month immersive retreat in IndiaLeaving behind suffering, alienation, and abuseReturning to London to complete her Masters in SocioAnthropology How consulting and interviewing third-world leaders opened her mind to her coaching abilities Her burning desire to move to New YorkThe serendipitous impact of having $10,000 deposited in her bank account.The openness and potential of NYC Her search for purpose Migrating from Project Management to CoachingHer journaling and documentation of her inner life Knocking on Patti Smith's front door and what happened next Studying at Contemplative Science at Nalanda Institute Explaining Contemplative ScienceWhy she considers curiosity and kindness so powerfulThe role of loveHow she considers and views the mind vs the brain How actions impact on world view and life How the Dalai Lama became her teacherHer perspective on social media and technology and the fragmentation of attentionThe role and power of mindfulness to regulate social media Negativity bias Power of a gratitude practice Her view on the imperative to increase the number of women in power New innovations in education Identifying and challenging self-limiting beliefsNeural Beings impact over the next 10 yearsWhen she realized purpose was her pathHer quick-fire question answers  Social Links Linkedin Instagram  Links In The ShowNeuralBeingsIran Iraq War Lenny KayePatti Smith Nalanda InstituteMind and Life InstituteRumiDr. Robert Lustig Hacking the American MindIain McGilchristSee learning curriculumMandelaSolve For Happy Roger Waters The Tide is Turning Above Us Only SkyChef’s Table ...

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    1 hr 36 min
  • 028: Beth Comstock on Curiosity, Creativity and Courage.

    A change maker inside NBC, the instigator of Hulu, a driver of innovation and the first female vice chair of GE, best selling author of Imagine It Forward, is this week’s guest, Beth Comstock.


    In this expansive episode, we discuss the impact of her upbringing on her propensity to embrace ambiguity, be a accelerate digital transformation inside traditional organizational structures and inspire teams through her curiosity and imaginative mindset. 

      

    With candor and thoughtful introspection Beth discusses the challenge of being introverted and overcoming her innate shyness as she grew her reputation and stature as a provocateur of innovative action taking and bold decision making inside traditional business structures.


    I hope you enjoy this episode of curiosity, creativity and courage with industrial change-maker Beth Comstock. 



    What we discuss 

    The push and pull of influence of her father and mother

    How she combines core characteristics of both parents 

    Her introversion and its impact on energy

    The difference from shyness 

    How her curiosity fueled her

    How her parents nurtured her innate curiosity

    The role of play in her upbringing and driving her imagination

    She explains how her competitive nature was apparent from an early age

    Documenting her ambition aged fifteen years old

    The desire to build a career in journalism 

    The resilience of early rejection 

    The struggle with her lack of confidence versus her persistence and stubbornness

    Diane Sawyer impact 

    Where serendipity impacted her life

    Witnessing fear inside GE of early to mid career managers

    Passion for creative courage

    Recognition that her difference was her strength  

    Her concerns over how we are preparing our children for the future

    The issues with the curriculum and lack of creative problem solving

    Job crafting 

    Field Trips 

    Her NBC experiences 

    The Five Elements of the Book

    • Self Permission 
    • Discovery
    • Agitated Inquiry 
    • Power of Storycraft 
    • Creating a new Operating System 

    Her advice - get used to living in the in between

    ‘Figure it out’ classes

    How she views curiosity

    Beth’s ‘Just Start’ Mantra

    What advice Beth would give under 30 Beth 

    Her “Gap’ Year and writing her book

    We discuss emergence in our ambiguous world

    Following Gut vs Data 


    Social Links 


    Facebook 

    Instagram 

    Linkedin

    Twitter 


    Links In the Show

    Diane Sawyer 

    Three Mile Island 

    21 Rules for the 21st Century 

    Brooklyn Maker Space 

    Sixth Sigma

    Ecoimagination

    OODA Loop

    Imagine it Forward 

    Hulu

    NBC Universal 

    Michael Ventura

    SubRosa 

    The Looming Tower 

    Sam Harris Podcast What Jihadists Really Want 

    Walter O’Brien on Tim Ferris Show 

    Bibblio

    Twila Sharp The Creative Habit 

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    1 hr 19 min
  • 027: Social Impact, Purpose and Power of Football - Ben Miller

    Born from Scottish and Irish parents, serendipity opened the door into a career in sports publishing and broadcasting until his desire for social justice led him to Common Goal; the social impact movement in global football. Welcome, this week’s guest Ben W.S. Miller. 

    In this episode, we explore the role of Ben’s upbringing in driving down his early career path in publishing and sport. 

    Traversing fifty countries across South America, Europe, Asia, and Africa, Ben recounts his experiences of witnessing the power of football to pause a civil war and bring communities together. 

    Ben describes how this opened his eyes to the latent power of football and consider how it could be harnessed in a strategic and systematic manner to improve lives. 

    Ben describes the mission, vision, and purpose of Common Goal and the challenges they now face as they try to inject social impact into the heart of this multi-billion dollar sport.

    I hope you’re inspired by the passion, purpose and social impact vision of Ben Miller.


    What we discuss:

    The impact of his upbringing 

    His early freedom to explore and play 

    The development of his identity

    His early desire to seek out a career where truth was central 

    The impact of Brave New World 

    How serendipity led him from teaching English in Venezuela to his first job in publishing

    His transition into a career in sport via a move to Hong Kong in the early ’90s 

    Moving back to London to work for Football Mundial and IMG 

    His George Weah experience 

    Realizing the power of football to bring communities together

    His views on players forming Foundations 

    Experiences with UEFA and FIFA 

    Experience of attending the 2014 World Cup as part of a FIFA delegation. 

    How Common Goal emerged 

    The challenges he’s faced in building the Common Goal movement 

    His vision for the next ten years

    How curiosity served him 

    His vision for education

    And all our quick-fire questions.


    Links to Social

     LinkedIn

    Twitter 

    Links in show

    Brave New World Aldous Huxley 

    Ben De Pear

    Harper Collins

    IMG 

    George Weah

    Common Goal 

    Jurgen Griesbeck

    Street Football World 

    FIFA 

    Juan Mata

    Megan Rapinoe

    Alex Morgan

    Book - Stephen King On Writing

    Stef Curry 

    Eric Cantona 

    Erin McLeod

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    1 hr 28 min
  • 026: The Social Impact Storyteller: Mark Woods Episode

    Guest Overview

    UK Journalist, bestselling author, social media content creator for Comic Relief and Sports Relief, and recent founder of social impact film company, Really Good Films is this week’s guest, Mark Woods 

    The youngest in a family of seven siblings, Mark recounts the impact of his family upbringing and early home life on his attitude to life and risk talking as well as the seminal impact his English teacher had on this life direction.

    Mark discuss his life transition from University into a career in journalism, and PR during the early days of digital, before serendipity opened a new creative path into the heart of Richard Curtis’s Comic Relief organization.

    We discuss Mark’s Comic Relief and Sport Relief experiences, his work with the SDG’s, his views on the current state of journalism, news and technology and his optimism for the future of society.

    Mark also explains his motivation and method for writing his books on pregnancy for men.

    I hope you enjoy this entertaining episode of education and impact with Mark Woods.

     

    What we discuss:

    His upbringing as the youngest in a family of seven 

    The impact of serendipity

    How he became involved in Comic Relief

    Why he wrote his first book Pregnancy for Men

    How Planet Parent came about

    His podcast on Parenting

    The beginnings of Sport Relief

    Richard Curtis

    Forming Really Good Films on Purpose

    Project Everyone

    Why passion is the foundation of career longevity

    The evolution of news and journalism

    Future of philanthropy and CSR

    His views of creativity and curiosity

    Mark’s imperative for education

    His Impossible advice

    And all our quick-fire questions

     

    Links to Social

    LinkedIn

    Twitter

    Really Good Films


    Links in show

    Comic Relief

    Sports Relief

    Richard Curtis

    Project Everyone

    Pregnancy for Men

    Mels Cafe in Earlsfield London

    Planet Parent

    Steven Pinker  

    SDG’s

    Todd Jacobson NBA

    Elegance of Eloquence Book

    Sapiens 

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    1 hr 11 min
  • 025: The Art of Self Discovery : Shantell Martin

    Guest overview

    She graduated from St Martin’s in London, spent five years developing her unique freestyle artistic expression in Tokyo, before moving to New York to further her ambitious and expansive artistic exploration of identity and the self, welcome this weeks’ guest live visual artist Shantell Martin

    In this episode we discuss the impact of her upbringing in a racially fueled district of London, how her self-belief, unique perspective, unerring curiosity and persistence propelled along an ever evolving, non-conformist artistic career path.


    We discuss the impact of serendipity and how her characteristic live and spontaneous black-and-white compositions form the basis of an exploration into identity and the self based on two philosophical questions of “Who are you? Are you you?”


    With clarity and candor Shantell talks about her curiosity fuels her and provides insight into her creative process and some of her many collaborations including Kendrick Lamar and The New York City Ballet.


    I hope you enjoy this freestyle episode of truth-telling and truth-seeking with Shantell Martin.


    What we discuss

    An upbringing in a mixed-race household

    The influence of cartoons on her artistic ambition

    Shantell's dual love of running and art

    The barriers and hurdles she faced

    Overcoming social norms to carve her own path

    Her passion and desire

    Confronting her art teacher's doubt

    Power of head to hand in art and writing

    The first experience of live art in Japan

    How she guides her students

    The importance of asking the questions Who Are You?

    Drawing on everything

    Her curiosity

    Environmental impact on her work

    Social justice and compassion

    Her Impossible advice 


    Connecting on Social

    Shantell Martin

    Twitter

    Instagram

    YouTube

    Facebook

    Tumblr


    Links In The Show

    Sir Ken Robinson TED Talk 

    St Martin's Art School

    Silent Giants podcast 

    Jiro Dreams of Sushi

    New York City Ballet 

    Kendrick Lamar 

    One Red Paperclip 

     

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    1 hr 11 min
  • 024: How to Confront Race, Gender and Cultural Bias with Navdip Dhariwal

    A former BBC International Correspondent and Anchor, reporting from over 60 countries and hostile environments on some of the most significant stories of recent times, honored in the Asian Woman of Achievement Awards, Chief of Communications for the World Summit of Nobel Peace Laureates and most recently founder of Content company Miran Media, is this week’s guest Navdip Dhariwal.


    In this extended episode we cover the challenges of growing up in an Indian immigrate family in racially charged 70’s London, how she confronted racial and gender bias to build a stellar career in journalism and broadcasting in the conventional white male middle class culture of the BBC.


    We discuss Navdip's perspective on the state and evolution of the BBC, today’s changing media environment and the privilege of being a journalist


    Her perspective on risk, fear and her commitment to journalism, using data to deliver authentic storytelling


    She also explains her embrace of kismet over serendipity, predetermination and the importance of carving your own path


    Finally we discuss her views of the challenges India faces in the coming years and her hope for humanity.


    I hope you enjoy this convention challenging truth seeking episode with Navdip Dhariwal  



    What we discuss

    Growing up as an Indian Immigrant in 1970/80’s London

    The racist pressures she faced

    Breaking through cultural, gender racial barriers to build a career at the BBC

    The global media revolution

    How the BBC missed it

    Her journey of achievement

    How it’s affected her

    Her reasons for creating Miran Media

    Her perspective on serendipity and kismet

    The power of curiosity

    The future challenges for India

    Her Impossible advice


    Social Media


    Miran Media

    Instagram

    Facebook

    Vimeo

    YouTube


    Links in the Show


    Don McCullin

    Scroobius Pip

    BBC

    Book she wants us to share In Extremis Marie Colvin

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    1 hr 39 min

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The weekly podcast tells the stories of curious-minded, purposeful people, creating positive change for social good.

Our guests include creative problem-solvers, storytellers, activists and…