Grace Tahir has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She is one of the directors of Mayapada Hospitals, and a co-founder of digital media company, Everest Media. She loves reading books and is a mom of three.
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Timestamps:
0:10 — Did you want to become a mom? Did you have good parents? What was 1 bad and 1 good thing your parents did with you?
09:09 — Parents apologizing to their children, forgiving our parents for being toxic/abusive, what is the difference between toxic parents and abusive parents, “Anak Durhaka”
17:41 — Who takes care of your parents now that you have a family of your own? How do siblings decide who takes care of the parents? Living with parents after marriage, juggling career, family & parents
22:40 — Why do people put their parents in retirement homes, are we obligated to take care of our parents? Pragmatic alternatives to sending your parents to a retirement home. Do all parents deserve to be taken care of?
37:00 — “I am not your friend, I am your parent.” Navigating our relationship with our parents as adults, and how to make our kids actually want to spend time with us. Loving our parents vs. Liking our parents, Honoring our parents vs. Obeying our parents.
56:53 — Orang tua durhaka, child free movement, IVF, surrogacy