The Independent Mom

The Independent Mom

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  • 60. Oldie Replay // How Divorce Led Devin M. Butler To Start JoyPop Brand And Grow Her Faith And Finances

    This episode is an oldie but goodie with so many gems and lots of energy for anyone who is on a faith and entrepreneurial journey. If you’ve ever considered starting a business but were worried about what to do or how to start, then this episode is for you? 

    My guest, Devin Butler never wanted to become an entrepreneur. But shortly after her divorce forced her to move back home to Texas it was ultimately getting to a point of being broke, that she decided to take her “side hustle” seriously and start JoyPop LLC. 

    In this episode we discuss:

    • Her reasons for becoming an entrepreneur even though it was the last thing she thought she wanted to do
    • How listening to God led her to start her business
    • Why it is so important to her now to learn about business and finances
    • How she is bringing her children along on her business and money journey

    And so much more...


    Links mentioned in the episode

    We Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel Rodgers: ⁠https://helloseven.co/the-book/⁠

    JoyPop website: ⁠https://joyyypoppp.com/⁠

    Follow JoyPop on Instagram: ⁠@JoyyyPoppp⁠


    Podcast Resources:

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    Connect with us on social: ⁠⁠@theindependentmom⁠⁠

    Email us at: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

    1 hr
  • 59. Why Traditional Business Advice Doesn't Work for Moms Over 40

    In this episode, I’m breaking down why so much of the business advice out there simply doesn't work for high-achieving moms over 40—and what to do instead.

    We’re not 28, unencumbered, and working from Bali. We have real responsibilities: children, mortgages, aging parents, teams, and clients. We’re building businesses and carrying the emotional labor of our families. This episode is a truth-telling moment about why the mainstream hustle-and-grind approach doesn’t fit our lives—and why we need strategies that honor our experience, energy, and expectations.

    If you’ve ever felt like business advice wasn’t made for you, this episode will feel like a deep exhale.

    In This Episode, We Cover:

    • The disconnect between standard business advice and the lived realities of moms over 40


    • The silent weight of being the backbone of your family and your business


    • How to filter business advice through your lived experience, capacity, and vision
    • Why age, responsibility, and discernment are actually superpowers in business

    And so much more...


    Ready to explore if trading might be the next right step for you?Click ⁠here⁠ to book a free call with me to learn more about my Trading Basics class—designed to demystify the markets and help you build wealth on your terms.


    Let’s Stay Connected: Follow me on Instagram ⁠@theindependentmom⁠ and share this episode with a mom who needs to hear it. Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe—your support means everything!

    37 min
  • 58. Why We Need To Be Our Own Financial Safety Net

    In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and getting personal. If you’re new around here or haven’t gone all the way back to episode one, I want to share a bit of the “why” behind my passion for finances, trading, and helping moms—especially women of color—build financial safety nets.

    I believe, with every fiber of my being, that abundance is our birthright. And I also believe we need more money in the hands of Black and brown women, because when we have it, we change the world.

    I open up about two pivotal moments that reshaped how I think about money and freedom:

    1. Losing my fiancé just weeks after our engagement.

    2. Getting laid off while I was seven months pregnant.

    Those moments rocked me. But they also lit a fire in me to never again feel financially vulnerable—and to help other women avoid that feeling too.

    Whether you're new to the podcast or have been listening from the beginning, this episode will reconnect you to the "why" behind Independent Mom and reignite your own reasons for wanting to own your finances, reimagine your motherhood, and live a wealthy life.


    In this episode, you'll hear:

    • Why I believe more money needs to be in the hands of Black and brown women

    • The two life-altering events that shifted my money mindset forever

    • How capitalism can be a tool and a trap—and why we need to master the game to change the game

    • What it really means to create a financial safety net as a mom

    • Why stock trading became my on-ramp to entrepreneurship and freedom


    Ready to explore if trading might be the next right step for you?Click here to book a free call with me to learn more about my Trading Basics class—designed to demystify the markets and help you build wealth on your terms.


    🔗 Resources mentioned:

    • Check out the Purpose Post feature that inspired this episode — [https://www.careersteward.co/blog/arielle-deane]
    • Episode 1: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-independent-mom/id1678028311?i=1000605682127]


  • Let’s Stay Connected:
    Follow me on Instagram @theindependentmom and share this episode with a mom who needs to hear it.
    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe—your support means everything!

  • 22 min
  • 57. The Hidden System That Could Be Blocking Your Wealth

    Have you ever felt like you just keep holding yourself back, or can't push through to do the thing you actually say you want to do? If so, you're in good company. I was having that feeling lot recently, so I started looking for answers outside of the traditional business and wealth strategies...and instead explored more of my mindset and specifically my nervous system and neuroscience connection to wealth.


    In this episode we discuss:

    • The two programs that opened my eyes to the importance of my nervous system regulation in creating my wealthy life
    • Why it is so important to understand the emotions and not just the thoughts that are limiting your growth
    • The one exercise that moved me from blocked to in motion

    And so much more.


    Episode links

    • Rachel Luna's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/permission-to-offend-with-rachel-luna/id1014093682
    • Kate Northrup's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/plenty-with-kate-northrup/id1160960959


    Podcast links:

    • Connect with Arielle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/
    • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/theindependentmom/
    • Website: www.arielledeane.com
    25 min
  • 56. 5 Myths About Stock Trading You Should Stop Believing

    If you think stock trading is only for math whizzes, finance bros, or people with thousands of dollars to spare—you’re not alone. But you’re also not seeing the full picture.

    In this episode, I’m busting the top 5 myths about stock trading that keep smart, capable women (especially women of color and working moms) on the sidelines when they could be creating real financial flexibility right now.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why trading isn’t gambling—when you know the strategy
    • The truth about how much money (and time) you really need to start
    • Why stock trading doesn’t require a finance degree or being good at math
    • What’s actually risky (hint: it’s not what you think)

  • Whether you’re curious about the stock market or already investing in your 401(k), this episode will shift your mindset and show you what’s really possible —and show you why now might be the best time to start learning.


    Want to Go Deeper?

    Enrollment is now open for my Trading Basics course—a beginner-friendly program designed for busy professionals who want to learn how to trade stocks for income and financial peace of mind.
    Learn more and join here: [TradingBasics]


    Let's Connect

    • Follow me on Instagram: @theindependentmom
    • DM me your biggest stock trading question
    • Subscribe & leave a review if this episode helped shift your mindset!

    28 min
  • 55. Motives Over Message: How To Handle The Stock Market Right Now

    Are you completely confused about the stock market right now? Yes, the stock market is crazy right now, but I had a feeling this was coming. We cannot always trust what this administration says but we can trust their motivations and align ourselves with the right tools to allow us to take full advantage of this time. We all need to be better equipped to fight back physically and financially.


    In this episode we discuss:

    • What happened this week with the stock market
    • Why learning how to trade stocks and invest are so important to making your money back quickly
    • The relationship we have with risk
    • The different ways to trade stocks


    Join me in my Trading Basics class where I will teach you how to trade stocks in a simple and less risky way.

    https://arielledeane.com/tradingbasics


    Follow me on Social to hear more insights about the market:

    • Connect with Arielle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/
    • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠
    • Website: www.arielledeane.com


    Listen in each week and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW, and SHARE the podcast

    24 min
  • 54. Five Growth Areas To Transform Your Year

    Recently I celebrated a birthday. This year my word is: growth. I’ve grown in so many ways over the years, but this year marks 2 years since the launch of this podcast, and it caused me to think about some of the many ways that I’ve grown and the ways that I want to continue growing.  So, in the words of Kelly from Insecure…this episode is about “growth!”


    In this episode we discuss:

    • 5 areas of growth that have been the most challenging and rewarding for me this year
    • What I am prioritizing over hardwork as I become an entrepreneur
    • How "making" has changed my fixation with “mattering”
    • My revelations about tithing and being generous

    And so much more...


    Episode Resources:

    • Tithing sermon from Transformation Church: https://youtu.be/blR-mYKfhGw?feature=shared


    Podcast Links

    • Connect with Arielle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/
    • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠
    • Website: www.arielledeane.com


    Listen in each week and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW, and SHARE the podcast

    26 min
  • 53. Hustling vs. Investing

    Have you ever felt like you're doing a lot but not making a lot of progress? You might be hustling instead of investing. This distinction could be happening with your money, your time, or your emotions. There are so many insights that can be revealed to us when we stop hustling and start investing in all aspects of our lives...not just financially.


    In this episode we discuss:

    • The parts of investing that distinguish it from hustling
    • My insights about giants vs. ants
    • How to apply an investing mindset to your life
    • The questions you can start to ask yourself


    Podcast Links

    • Connect with Arielle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/
    • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠
    • Website: www.arielledeane.com


    Listen in each week and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW, and SHARE the podcast



    28 min
  • 52. How Do We Respond To Kendrick's Challenge?

    The big game last weekend was all the things! But aside from the dynamic win by the Philadelphia Eagles, there was the record breaking and revolutionary performance by Kendrick Lamar. Many people have been talking about the meaning, the symbolism, and the boldness of it all. But I want us to address the very real challenge that Kendrick posed to many of us.

    In this episode we'll discuss:

    • What it means to play the game
    • Why so many of us are tired of playing the game
    • My thoughts on what we need to think about next


    And so much more.

    Podcast Links

    • Connect with Arielle:https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/
    • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠
    • Website:www.arielledeane.com


    Listen in each week and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW, and SHARE the podcast

    23 min
  • 51. Is Now The Best Time To Invest?

    Recently a friend asked me if now was a good time to trade or invest in the stock market. My default answer was yes of course, but I spent some more time thinking about it and decided to share some of my thoughts on the podcast.

    In this episode we discuss:

    • Why I am confident that the stock market will continue in a positive direction
    • What I am doing to be mindful and intentional with my money right now
    • Why we all need to learn how to become our own bank

    • And so much more!

      Podcast Links

      • Connect with Arielle: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arielledeane/

      • Instagram: @theindependentmom⁠⁠

      • Website: www.arielledeane.com


      • Listen in each week and don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, RATE, REVIEW, and SHARE the podcast

        23 min

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      What if we reframed the labels? What if, you’re not a single mom or a working mom, you’re an INDEPENDENT MOM!