For better or worse, wanting, desiring, and chasing can be such familiar energies for us to be in. What happens when we actually receive what we've been asking for? What fears or blocks might arise? What new tools can support us in being fully present with -and enjoying- the having?

Many of us try to be perfect in our connections and avoid conflicts at all costs. Allowing ourselves to be messy and real has allowed us to learn that rupture is actually an opportunity for healing and connection.

Bez and Freyja explore desire as the compass of their new relationship terrain. From solo polyamory to devotional partnership, hear how desire informs and serves their intentions for creating their most interesting and nourishing connections.

Change is inevitable in life and relationships. How do we source safety and security as our relationships grow, evolve, and transition? Bez and Freyja explore the ways that they build solid ground to hold them through the turmoil of relational expansion and contraction.

Selfishness has a bad rap in the dating and relating world. Having both just gone through a renaissance of selfhood, Bez and Freyja explore how being selfish can actually benefit everyone involved. When explored consciously, being selfish can guide us back to truth, authenticity, and greater intimacy with ourselves and others.

This week Bez and Freyja explore the many facets of desire from the outlandish to the tender, and how to move through the conditioned obstacles to our deeper truths.

In Infinite Relating, boundaries can increase connection rather than inhibit it—but the process of adjusting to each other's needs and limits can be rocky. Discover with us how to set boundaries from the inside out so we can live our truth and have the connections we crave.

When the opportunity presented itself, Bez and Freyja thought it would be so much fun to date the same guy... and it was! Until it wasn't. In this episode, we unpack our first relationship rupture and how to navigate being poly in the same community.

Nearly two years after discovering the concept of "Us Between Us," Bez and Freyja revisit the magic of the nuance in attending to You, Me, and Us.

In this episode, we dive into our fresh journeys into solopolyamory after years of partnership. We share our excitement, explore how to stay rooted in desire rather than obligation, and reflect on what it means to navigate this new chapter with openness and curiosity.