TRIGGER WARNING: VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED
This episode contains discussions of severe generational trauma, sexual abuse, addiction, incarceration, and human trafficking. Please watch in a safe environment and prioritise your well-being.
In this profound and powerful episode of the Innovat3 Podcast, we sit down with the truly indestructible hero, Elizabeth Quiroz. Elizabeth is an author, advocate, and founder of Redemption House, and she embodies the intersection of lived experience and social impact.
Elizabeth details her journey from a childhood marked by trauma, poverty, and abuse , to a harrowing 11-year period on the streets after being groomed into human trafficking at the age of 15.
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Key Themes:
Trauma, Resilience & Redemption
Hear the raw, honest truth about how she was forced to run away from an abusive home , became vulnerable to predators who offered false love and protection , and was initiated into drug use to cope with the pain.
Elizabeth shares the critical moments that led to her transformation and healing: The Power of Non-Judgmental Mentorship: How a simple pastor in a jail cell was the first person to show her the true face of God, helping her stop constant fighting rooted in fear.
The Crucial Realization: The moment in a treatment facility when a counselor shattered the shame by telling her: "You're a survivor of human trafficking, not a child prostitute". This gave her the power to embrace her story.
Turning Wounds into Purpose: Why her tattoos—once marks of ownership—are now her "battle wounds", fueling her mission to help others. She explores this theme in her powerful book, "Purifying the Flame".
Global Impact and Advocacy
Now a highly motivational speaker and advocate , Elizabeth is committed to global advocacy, pursuing her doctorate and traveling internationally to study forgiveness and reconciliation, including a recent trip to Rwanda to learn from the genocide recovery process.
Don't forget to grab Elizabeth's book: Purifying the Flame on Amazon!
Show Notes:
00:01:08 Introduction: From elegant leader to indestructible survivor, the power of Lived Experience.
00:01:43 Trigger Warning: Why it's important to know the full backstory of trauma.
00:02:40 Overcoming human trafficking, incarceration, addiction, and PTSD with God's help.
00:03:12 Generational trauma, poverty, and seeking love/protection in the wrong places.
00:04:14 Sexual abuse starting at age four and the cycle of physical/verbal abuse.
00:04:33 The trauma of the foster care system and running away at 15.
00:06:44 Growing up with a "punishing God": Rules, sin, and the fear of hell.
00:08:37 Father's alcoholism and ex-gang background made her highly vulnerable to predators.
00:09:47 A school therapist was the only one who saw her self-harm marks.
00:13:11 The grooming process: meeting her trafficker and the romantic manipulation.
00:14:39 Introduction to drugs (marijuana, ecstasy) and the eventual use of Meth to numb out trauma.
00:17:16 Her father permitted the relationship with the 27-year-old man.
00:18:12 Trafficking begins: Taught to be a drug mule and labeled as "his property".
00:18:52 Tattoos covered as "battle wounds"—using her story for purpose.
00:21:26 The second trafficker (from the same prison gang) forced her into selling sex.
00:22:43 Her boyfriend got out and told her: "Show me how much you love me".
00:23:11 The danger of the streets and why runaway children need more awareness and protocols.
00:25:50 The moment of realization in treatment: "You're a survivor of human trafficking".
00:30:41 Finding God through "Brother Marty," a non-judgmental pastor in county jail.
00:33:15 forming Redemption House.
00:35:24 Studying forgiveness and reconciliation during a trip to Rwanda.
00:36:07 Currently pursuing her Doctorate.
00:38:18 Final words of hope: There is a second chance for every survivor
