Embodied Hearts

The Internal Conflict of Disorganized Attachment


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Episode 6: In this episode of Embodied Hearts, we dive into the complexities of disorganized attachment, a less-discussed attachment style that arises from inconsistent and unpredictable caregiving. I explain how this attachment type manifests in adulthood, highlighting the internal conflicts individuals face between the desire for closeness and the fear of intimacy.


I also explore the impact of childhood experiences on attachment adaptations, the role of the nervous system in emotional responses, and offers practical steps for individuals to reconnect with their bodies and emotions.


Key Takeaways:

  • Disorganized attachment is often overlooked in discussions about attachment styles.
  • Childhood experiences significantly shape attachment styles, including the influence of fearful or dismissive caregivers.
  • Perfectionism can be a coping mechanism for those with disorganized attachment.
  • Disorganized attachment is not a fixed state; it can change based on relationships and experiences.


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Embodied HeartsBy Rachel Staley, LCSW