We are mean, judgmental, accusatory, and shitty to other humans, even when we don't mean to be. 

Part of it is (I think) a sort of cultural stress and frustration and mounting tension over the world in general, and it's been growing for a while. 

Part of it is social media. 

Source: https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/7/33/eabe5641

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