On this very spicy episode of The Intimacy Index, we’re unwrapping 12 Days of Smutmas by Dana Leeann—and along with the heat comes a very important gift: kink safety.

From breath play to impact play to food getting involved where food probably shouldn’t, we’re breaking down how these fantasies show up on the page—and what it actually takes to explore them safely, consensually, and without ruining the holidays with an awkward urgent care visit.

We’ll talk red flags vs. green lights, communication that keeps things hot and responsible, and why knowing your limits is the sexiest thing you can put under the tree. Because Smutmas should end with satisfaction… not ice packs and regret.

Naughty fantasies, nice boundaries, and a reminder that pleasure hits harder when safety comes first.

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This week on The Intimacy Index, we’re diving into Invi Wright’s The Female — a story that proves you don’t need penetration to bring the heat. We’re exploring the electric world of tension, touch, dominance, and desire, and why some of the most intimate moments happen long before anyone gets naked.

From emotional intensity to sensory play, we’ll break down how The Female rewrites what “sex” looks like on the page — and why expanding our definition of intimacy can make pleasure deeper, bolder, and way more satisfying.

Because sometimes the most powerful moments are the ones that happen in the space between breaths… not between the sheets.

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Inspired by Between Two Kings by Lindsay Straube, this episode dives into the messy, magnetic, and meaningful forms of love that shape us — from romantic devotion to erotic power exchange to the love we choose for ourselves. We’re unpacking how this duology redefines loyalty, connection, and desire, and why exploring different kinds of love can completely transform your relationships.Make sure to follow along for more updates! Follow us on instagram for more bookish content @theintimacyindexpodcast

Inspired by The Perfect Fit by Sadie Kincaid, we’re diving deep into the art of power dynamics — from Dom/Sub roles to the trust that makes them work. This episode explores how to introduce BDSM into your own sex life with curiosity, communication, and zero shame. Because pleasure isn’t about giving up control — it’s about choosing it.

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Grab your headphones and maybe a glass of wine, because this week on The Intimacy Index, we’re sinking our teeth into Lindsay Straube’s The Kiss of the Basilisk — a dark, delicious story where danger feels a little too good to resist. We’re talking power, pleasure, and that irresistible pull between wanting to run and wanting to be caught. What does it really mean to be devoured — and who’s actually in control when things get spicy? Join us as we break down the fantasy, the fear, and the fun of dark romance — and maybe discover why letting go (safely!) can feel so damn powerful. Because at the end of the day, pleasure isn’t just about surrendering... it’s about knowing when to take the lead.Click the link for our socials, other streaming, and other affiliated links :) linktr.ee/the_intimacy_index_podcast

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In this episode, we cover Part One of Kiss of the Basilisk by Lindsay Straube. This is a plot spoiler-lite episode, but we do a deep dive into Temperance's growth, sexual empowerment, and her ability to set boundaries.

We also focus on gender misconceptions in a sexual space, consent and the different ways it may look, and the importance of healthy communication between partners to create a safe/satisfying sexual experience.

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In our premiere episode, we discuss what you can expect throughout the podcast and the books that started our smut journies. This is an 18+ podcast, and we do discuss explicit material. We hope you'll join us on this journey of self-love, discovery, and an ever-growing TBR.

As always, stay hot, stay hydrated, and always read the content warnings.

We'll see you next time when we dive into some monster smut, check out our instagram for book announcements and other updates!