In today’s segment from a SAFEHOUSE Support call, Onami talks about the curse of advice. If you’ve never heard this before, listen up, it’s about to change the way you move through the world forever.

In today’s episode, Onami talks about the concept of mercy in life and marriage, and the loneliness of being right. If you want to be happily partnered one day, don’t miss it.

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On Today’s Erotic Wealth Support Call and Safehouse Q+A: Magic takes the lead on the call without trying to read Onami’s mind, and Onami learns to let Magic lead.

The game of dominant and submissive
What’s the plan, what’s the strategy and how are we going to get there
If water have no direction its a swamp
You need a riverbed of direction to let you flow
When the erotic is dead - Return to the why
Pray for joy, not happiness
If you don’t have money you usually have time
If you have a lot of money you usually don’t have time
The power of neutral income
You might not have money for a business, but you have time to build neutral income
Why would you be horny if your whole life is going with everyone else’s flow?
If you’re not having sex with your partner, doesn’t mean you’re not having sex with yourself
You’re 50% responsible if you’re partner doesn’t want to have sex
If you’re partner doesn’t want to have sex with you, doesn’t mean that they don’t want to have sex.
Excitement dulls with every repetition
Is it time to push or is it time to surrender?
Why do millionaire scrutenizing the price?
Because millionaires care about saving money and poor people blind buy
How do you get people to not care about the price?
If you're the only one doing it, the price doesn't matter. If they say, I could get music lessons anywhere, they're going to squiggle and squaggle about that price.
Accepting something is surrendering to it. When it comes to focus, the answer is always focus.
Focus, know what the finish line is, and see something all the way through to the finish line. When you've gone through the finish line, then you can stop focusing on it.
Have you made an offer the best that you can?
You surrender when the price is fixed and the time is fixed after you have completely packages the next iteration of the offer.
Don’t surrender when you’re draining
Even if it hurts, it feels good to do something about it
I’ve mastered the masculine, but can’t channel the feminine
Bring the masculine to the feminine business
Turn both the hot and cold faucets on, not one at a time.
What do you do when the tricks stop working?
It’s time for an upgrade
If you try to please people the less pleased they are
Say thank you when people shame you for valuing your work
People don’t value the things they haven’t paid for
Identify the limitation and ask for the tools to get around it
How can you make your offer and easy yes for people?
You know what you need to do, it’s just scary
Don’t resist a generous impulse
How do you heal resentment when you want your man to protect you
There is no appropriate substitute for standing up for yourself
Are you attracting them or are you seeking them out
We don’t date a type we run a pattern
If you recognize the pattern you can break it
Find the lynchpin
If you’re getting money but not keeping it - you have to learn how to do it, not find a boyfriend to do it for you.
To be able to take the story off of your shoulders and give it to a Deity that has chosen you, the synchronicities seem impossible.
It will be too synchronous to dismiss.
You can’t cook in a dirty kitchen, clean it and put it back more organized.

Today’s MASTERCLASS on Erotic Wealth just dropped: 
On Today’s MASTERCLASS: Magic takes the lead in the perfect example of the flow state, baby Taiga needs booba, and it's not a problem.
We start with the flow and go into our MASTERCLASS on topics like:

1. Flow is a thing - acknowlege it
2. Flow accepting the lesson you need
3. Mircomanaging never works
4. Starting everything finishing nothing
5. Flow is not frantic
6. There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way
7. This is not about hoping to be successful
8. I’d rather know I’m making progress than guess
9. We don’t deserve a trophy for starting the race
10. Do it slow, do it steady, just do it.
11. The journey is the reward
12. The things that you need will come to you
13. What does it feel like to be in co-creation?
14. You don’t have to manufacture success
15. “I would rather just do this by myself”
16. Don’t drag your partner to do something they don’t want to do
17. Get clear about what we want with numbers
18. Numbers are not vague - get specific
19. How much money do you want and what would you do with it?
20. We cannot grow what we do not measure
21. This is about scaling a business not starting a business
22. You need white magic (will), black magic (eat your fears), and red magic (sacrifice) to get to gold magic (sex)
23. Amateur - did it by accident
24. Advanced - did it on purpose
25. You don’t need a fancy reason to make money
26. When erotic dies in your business
27. All the money you make is ethical because you are ethical
28. All the money you make is spiritual because you are spiritual
29. There is nothing more beautiful in the work you haven’t started yet
30. Never seek to tell thy love, love that never told can be
31. Fuck around and find out
32. Please do. But if you are meant to keep something that you are trying to throw away, your life is going to be really out of alignment until you make it right, and you can just test that out.
33. There's three forces required to create everything,
34. Neutral force - step one of any magical process is creating the container
35. Active sex is conscious sex.
36. Passive sex is that you don't have to think about.
37. Neutral sex is I want you, but I don’t need you to be perfect
38. Neutral income are the people that will pay you that haven't paid you yet.
39. Passive income is fuel for the fire.
40. Don’t destroy your frustration, transmute it into fuel
41. Active income is live time
42. “Nobody will be able to replace you.” is a lie.
43. Prep the fire before you make the fire
44. You all know exactly what needs to be done. You don't need a business coach.
45. You don’t get free “good girls”
46. Anyone can be a boss, but can you be a leader?
47. A container is sealed by trust
48. The sky is not even the limit when you have a partner you can trust
49. Don’t race to the finish line to come
50. Your kids interrupting you is teaching you how to stop and hold
51. When you want and not need, the erotic tension is strong - think about having a crush on someone
52. Ejaculation is not orgasm
53. Nitpicking is the opposite of sexual tension
54. Instant gratification < delayed gratification
55. Creative juice = sex juice are the same
56. Never saying no to yourself = you’re a big baby
57. You cannot shame someone who is shameless
58. Men are horny everyday
59. Women are horny every 28 days for 1 week
60. Wanking privately will make it hard to harmonize
61. Nature is always working on your behalf
62. Everyone gets their turn
63. Nighttime is not unhealed daytime
64. If your proud of corn - do it more
65. If your ashamed of corn - don’t do it
66. Holistic income is eating your waste as fuel
67. You cannot do this work without a physical practice
68. No sex for 21 days
69. Be mad at me, I don’t care 

we also have it set up for you on our podcast! Get it wherever you podcast

On Today’s Safehouse Q&A, it's a Family Affair with Magic, Rainer, Wylie, and Taiga. We talk about striking “fair” from our vocabulary, how happiness is the way to happiness, and how done is always better than perfect.Here’s what else you can expect in the call:You set the tone in your homeNitpicking energyThe importance of personal physical practicePhysical practice is not a luxuryIf you neglect yourself, you neglect your relationshipDon’t just destroy — transformAll kink is a yin yangDom in the streets - Sub in the sheetsA God’s kink is limitationThe Myth of dominance is not “bend over!”Controlling the way you’re helped is missing the pointStop waiting for them to give you time; you have time alreadyIs it shared? Not, is it fair?“Must be nice” is the end of your relationshipSmall needs over tall ordersYou can’t build anything on a shit marriageDivorce is easyWhen you want someone, you don’t need them to be perfectYour partner can’t feel hot for you if you don’t feel hot for yourselfFlow doesn’t exist in schedules and deadlines — it's the medicine being brought to you by life that you needCreativity comes in the most unexpected circumstancesTao does nothing and leaves nothing undoneAssuming malicious intent is psychoticAssumptions are the death of the EroticAll this and More in the replay on YouTube and wherever you podcast!

On Today's Q+A (with Wylie and Rainer!), we told the objective money story, aka walked you through the entire suit of Pentacles in the Rider Waite Tarot (!!!!!)Here’s what else you can expect in the call:Using the Tarot as a Formula: The Pentacles, How Money Won’t Solve Money Problems, and Why Only Poor People Hate Capitalism,    •    The Brain vs The Mind    •    The Entire Suit of The Pentacles    •    You can’t run a business like a  halfway house    •    You’re 50% the asshole    •    Why can’t you skip the line?    •    Ignore the tall order - start small today    •    Don’t delegate your children    •    You’re not stuck, you just need to study     • Reinvest in your business and make it a write off    •    I love capitalism and capitalism loves me    •    Quitting is an option until it’s not    •    You don’t get a gold star for showing up    •    Become someone who can handle more than enoughAll this and More in the replay on YouTube and wherever you podcast!

OMFG Guys I went off. No like I went OFFFFFF.

Today’s first of four QA’s on the topic of Erotic Wealth just dropped:

On Today’s Q+A: Big Beefs with the Sex Magic Industry, Want Instead of Need, and Who’s Qualified for Sex Magic,

we start with the beef and go into our Q+A on topics like:

•    Devotion over Discipline

•    Don’t take advice from people who’s life you don’t admire

•    Soulmates vs Polyamory

•    Is 🌽 siphoning your energy?

•    The Scam of the O-Method

•    Weak 💦 = Weak Lifeforce

•    Keeping High Standards

•    Delayed Gratification

•    How to rebuild trust

to get the book we’re talking about, head to mamionami.thrivecart.com/completeguide

In today's Safehouse Q&A we start with a teaching lecture on

Propaganda," in my defenselessness, my safety lies" followed by our Q&A.

Today's Topics include:

Manipulation

Spiritual Growth & Resilience

"In my defenselessness, my safety lies"

Building a Business

Financial Goals

Active, Passive Neutral Income Discipline Vs. Punishment The Enneagram of Personality The Sacred Symbol of The Enneagram

Jealousy and Judgement Shame and Enoughness

All this and more in the replay on Youtube and wherever you podcast.

Get your question answered by Onami as a private student in Safehouse.

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On Today’s Safehouse QA: Kids On Camera, Scaling Your Business & When To Stop ‘That’,  we bring the kids to work and answer: 

• Why do you let your kids put their face on the internet?

• Do your children watch the videos they’re in?

• Does the government need to know? 

• The Enneagram and Super Efforts

• Human Design Teachers/Resources 

• Chakras: Judgement, Jealousy, Indecision, Third Eye Confusion

• Giveaways VS Lead Magnet 

• How to receive answers to questions only YOU can answer

• How To Scale Your Business: what’s worked, repeating it, and avoiding costly coaching traps

• How much time do I spend on social media and newsletter

• Is it time to stop that? Weed, Drinking 

• Gratitude VS Appreciation 

• The transition from active income to passive income and scaling passive income

• The Hack for great photos for your business

• Ikigai and Finding Your Purpose, Refining Your Purpose 

And so much more including exclusive questions for Wylie and Rainer. Watch the replay on Youtube or Listen Wherever You Podcast!
Last call for all questions answered by Onami for this year. Become a private student and learn more at www.mamionami.com/safehouse

In Today’s Safehouse QA we cover: 

- Masculine Feminine Energy and finding balance

- Trauma Work, 1:1 Sessions Vs Group Sessions

- Emotional Authority in HD and surrendering

- Enneagram Retention

- Projectors and Overwhelm 

- Platforms for Your Business 

- Authenticity When It Hits 

- Channeling, Tarot and Divination

- Obsessing with Black Magic 

- Plus MOARRRR 

To become a student of Safehouse and get Onami to answer your questions every week, go to www.mamionami.com/safehouse 

** This is the last few months Onami does all questions answered, method changes next year!