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  • A Mission Other Than MORE with Damion Lupo

    If your self-worth is tied to your net worth, what happens if you lose it all?

    Losing $20M took Damion Lupo to a very dark place, and when he asked himself, ‘What is true?’ he realized that he didn’t care for the man he had become, a man who didn’t have a mission other than MORE.

    That’s when Damion’s transformation began, and he honed in on his purpose to free one million people from financial bondage, rewiring their belief systems around money and retirement planning. Today, he is a sought-after financial consultant and mentor for his online community, Transformation Nation. A serial entrepreneur, Damion has founded 40-plus businesses in the last 25 years AND created the martial art form known as Yokido. He also happens to be a bestselling author in the realm of personal finance and co-author of the book Reinvented Life, which outlines his transformation in the aftermath of losing it all.

    Damion joins Emerald to share the story of how losing $20M led him to a mission other than MORE. He explains his transformation to a new level of vulnerability, authenticity and connection—with a focus on contribution rather than consumption. Damion offers his take on asking for help, discussing the strength required to open up and say, ‘I don’t know.’ Damion speaks to the difference between failing and failure, arguing that failing forward is necessary for growth. Listen in for Damion’s insight around filtering opportunities through your purpose and playing full out to live your potential!

    What You Will Learn

    How losing $20M resulted in an ego death for Damion

    The impact of asking the question, “What is true?”

    Damion’s transformation to a place of vulnerability and connection

    Why asking for help is NOT a weakness

    The benefit of mentors who can identify your patterns

    Damion’s mission to free people from financial bondage

    How a narrow focus on your purpose leads to a fulfilling life

    How experiencing the energy of regret inspired Damion to play full out

    The shift toward a consciousness based on trust in the creative age

    How charity work keeps Damion expanding and alive

    Damion’s mission to rewire people’s belief systems around retirement

    The role of confidence in attaining financial freedom

    The difference between failing and failure

    Connect with Damion Lupo

    Damion’s Website

    Damion on YouTube

    Damion on Twitter

    Damion on LinkedIn

    Resources

    Reinvented Life by Damion Lupo and Christofer Ashby

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

      Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Creative Age Consulting Group

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    24 min
  • Making Every Moment Matter with Dave Sanderson

    Every. Moment. Matters.

    Given the choice between saving yourself or helping others in an emergency situation, what would you do? Would you trust that God takes care of the people who do the right thing? Would you have the courage to risk your own well-being for the sake of others?

    Dave Sanderson is a sought-after inspirational speaker in the realm of leading with integrity. And he speaks from personal experience, having been the last passenger on US Airways Flight 1549—otherwise known as 'The Miracle on the Hudson.’ After the crash, Dave took ownership of the wellbeing and safety of others, risking his own life in frigid water to help his fellow passengers off the plane. He shares the lessons of that day with audiences around the world, inspiring others to do the right thing in difficult situations and reframe traumatic events as an opportunity for growth. Dave is also the author of Moments Matter, a book detailing his close encounter with death and the calling to encourage others that defines his life now.

    Today, Dave sits down with Emerald to share his experience as a passenger on US Airways Flight 1549 and discuss how surviving the crash provided him with a renewed sense of purpose. He describes hearing his mother’s voice during the evacuation and explains how her words gave him the courage to be the ‘last passenger’ out. Dave speaks to his decision to leave his company and become an entrepreneur on a mission to help others harness the power of post-traumatic growth. Listen in to understand how Dave celebrates life by giving back and learn how to lead through certainty and make every moment matter!

    What You Will Learn

    Dave’s experience as a passenger on US Airways Flight 1549

    How the plane crash provided Dave with a clarity of purpose

    The advice that gave Dave the courage to be the ‘last passenger’

    Dave’s realization that he was just a number to his company

    How Tony Robbins inspired Dave to become an entrepreneur

    The concept of post-traumatic growth

    How Dave celebrates life through contribution and giving back

    Dave’s top three kernels of wisdom from Moments Matter

    • Each experience prepares you for what’s next
    • Record history
    • Lead through certainty
    Connect with Dave Sanderson

    Dave’s Website

    Dave on Facebook

    Dave on Twitter

    Dave on LinkedIn

    Resources

    Moments Matter by Dave Sanderson

    Moments Matter with Dave Sanderson

    Dave’s TED Talk at TEDxQueensU

    Dave’s Article in AARP Magazine

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Creative Age Consulting Group

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    Emerald on Twitter

    Email: [email protected]

    This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

    27 min
  • Making Every Moment Matter with Dave Sanderson

    Every. Moment. Matters.

    Given the choice between saving yourself or helping others in an emergency situation, what would you do? Would you trust that God takes care of the people who do the right thing? Would you have the courage to risk your own well-being for the sake of others?

    Dave Sanderson is a sought-after inspirational speaker in the realm of leading with integrity. And he speaks from personal experience, having been the last passenger on US Airways Flight 1549—otherwise known as 'The Miracle on the Hudson.’ After the crash, Dave took ownership of the wellbeing and safety of others, risking his own life in frigid water to help his fellow passengers off the plane. He shares the lessons of that day with audiences around the world, inspiring others to do the right thing in difficult situations and reframe traumatic events as an opportunity for growth. Dave is also the author of Moments Matter, a book detailing his close encounter with death and the calling to encourage others that defines his life now.

    Today, Dave sits down with Emerald to share his experience as a passenger on US Airways Flight 1549 and discuss how surviving the crash provided him with a renewed sense of purpose. He describes hearing his mother’s voice during the evacuation and explains how her words gave him the courage to be the ‘last passenger’ out. Dave speaks to his decision to leave his company and become an entrepreneur on a mission to help others harness the power of post-traumatic growth. Listen in to understand how Dave celebrates life by giving back and learn how to lead through certainty and make every moment matter!

    What You Will Learn

    Dave’s experience as a passenger on US Airways Flight 1549

    How the plane crash provided Dave with a clarity of purpose

    The advice that gave Dave the courage to be the ‘last passenger’

    Dave’s realization that he was just a number to his company

    How Tony Robbins inspired Dave to become an entrepreneur

    The concept of post-traumatic growth

    How Dave celebrates life through contribution and giving back

    Dave’s top three kernels of wisdom from Moments Matter

    • Each experience prepares you for what’s next
    • Record history
    • Lead through certainty
    Connect with Dave Sanderson

    Dave’s Website

    Dave on Facebook

    Dave on Twitter

    Dave on LinkedIn

    Resources

    Moments Matter by Dave Sanderson

    Moments Matter with Dave Sanderson

    Dave’s TED Talk at TEDxQueensU

    Dave’s Article in AARP Magazine

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    27 min
  • Marketing with a Mindset of Service with Dan Moyle

    As the saying goes, a rising tide lifts all boats. If you can develop a mindset of service and seek to help others reach their goals, we all get better together. What does it look like to live those values and cultivate servant leadership? Is there a way to approach marketing with a mindset of service?

    Dan Moyle, a self-proclaimed Inbound Marketing Evangelist, serves as the CMO at Interview Valet, a marketing and advertising firm that supports business owners, authors and entrepreneurs in growing their influence via podcast interviews. Dan’s philosophy is that it’s more impactful to reach 50 ideal clients as opposed to 5,000 passive viewers, and he believes that engaging, relevant content is the best way to build a community of loyal customers. Dan is also a believer in servant leadership, volunteering his time with Honor Flight, Habitat for Humanity, and Cat Nap Lodge kitten rescue, among many other organizations.

    Today, Dan joins Emerald to explain how he came to understand the value of building community as a marketing strategy and his innate desire to serve. He shares his approach to making peace with imperfection and rolling with the punches as challenges arise. Dan discusses the sense of honor that affords him the courage to stand apart as well as the value in being coachable and learning from your mistakes. Listen in for Dan’s insight on serving others with a spirit of kindness and making a difference—even if it’s just for one person.

    What You Will Learn

    The value of building community as a marketing strategy

    Dan’s innate sense of wanting to serve those around him

    The idea that a ‘rising tide lifts all boats’

    How bringing honor to his family name gives Dan courage

    How Dan makes peace with imperfection

    The significance of being coachable

    How Dan is teaching his daughters to make a difference

    How to roll with the punches when challenges arise

    Dan’s insight on serving others with a spirit of kindness

    Connect with Dan Moyle

    Interview Valet

    The Inbound Evangelist

    Dan’s Website

    Dan on LinkedIn

    Dan on Twitter

    Dan on Facebook

    Resources

    9 Secrets to Getting Booked on Your First Podcast

    How I Turned Journalism into an Inbound Marketing Career by Dan Moyle

    Honor Flight Network

    IronMen Ministries

    Cat Nap Lodge

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Creative Age Consulting Group

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    Emerald on Twitter

    Email: [email protected]

    This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

    24 min
  • Marketing with a Mindset of Service with Dan Moyle

    As the saying goes, a rising tide lifts all boats. If you can develop a mindset of service and seek to help others reach their goals, we all get better together. What does it look like to live those values and cultivate servant leadership? Is there a way to approach marketing with a mindset of service?

    Dan Moyle, a self-proclaimed Inbound Marketing Evangelist, serves as the CMO at Interview Valet, a marketing and advertising firm that supports business owners, authors and entrepreneurs in growing their influence via podcast interviews. Dan’s philosophy is that it’s more impactful to reach 50 ideal clients as opposed to 5,000 passive viewers, and he believes that engaging, relevant content is the best way to build a community of loyal customers. Dan is also a believer in servant leadership, volunteering his time with Honor Flight, Habitat for Humanity, and Cat Nap Lodge kitten rescue, among many other organizations.

    Today, Dan joins Emerald to explain how he came to understand the value of building community as a marketing strategy and his innate desire to serve. He shares his approach to making peace with imperfection and rolling with the punches as challenges arise. Dan discusses the sense of honor that affords him the courage to stand apart as well as the value in being coachable and learning from your mistakes. Listen in for Dan’s insight on serving others with a spirit of kindness and making a difference—even if it’s just for one person.

    What You Will Learn

    The value of building community as a marketing strategy

    Dan’s innate sense of wanting to serve those around him

    The idea that a ‘rising tide lifts all boats’

    How bringing honor to his family name gives Dan courage

    How Dan makes peace with imperfection

    The significance of being coachable

    How Dan is teaching his daughters to make a difference

    How to roll with the punches when challenges arise

    Dan’s insight on serving others with a spirit of kindness

    Connect with Dan Moyle

    Interview Valet

    The Inbound Evangelist

    Dan’s Website

    Dan on LinkedIn

    Dan on Twitter

    Dan on Facebook

    Resources

    9 Secrets to Getting Booked on Your First Podcast

    How I Turned Journalism into an Inbound Marketing Career by Dan Moyle

    Honor Flight Network

    IronMen Ministries

    Cat Nap Lodge

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE:

    24 min
  • Going Inward FIRST for Clarity of Purpose with Chris Kyle

    The truth is that society’s definition of success—money, power and position—simply doesn’t lead to happiness. Rather, the opportunity to build a legacy and do something meaningful are key in moving beyond the ‘default life’ to something extraordinary. But how do you gain the clarity of purpose necessary to live a life of meaning? The answer lies in going inside-out.

    Chris Kyle is a speaker, business coach and eLearning expert who supports authors, entrepreneurs and organizations in developing transformative online courses that unite and inspire a global audience. A catalyst for growth and awakening, Chris has created his own online learning programs in the realm of purpose and authentic leadership, originating The Power of Purpose Summit, Launch Academy, and the Man on Purpose 7-week online course.

    Today, Chris sits down with Emerald to share his calling to help men ‘heal, grow and expand who they are.’ He explains how creativity emerges from a deepening sense of purpose and how his Purpose Activation Blueprint takes men beyond the ‘default life’ set forth by our cultural conditioning. Chris discusses the idea that a combination of RIGHTNESS and RIPENESS lead to creative ACTION and offers insight around why society’s definition of success doesn’t lead to fulfillment. Listen in to understand the significance of excavating old patterns and beliefs and learn how to go inward first in order to gain clarity of purpose.

    What You Will Learn

    How the ManKind Project helped Chris discover his role as a leader

    Chris’ calling to help men heal, grow and expand who they are

    The emergence of creativity that comes from a deepening of purpose

    Chris’ insight around the need to go inward first for clarity

    The significance of excavating old shadows, patterns and beliefs

    How RIGHTNESS and RIPENESS lead to creative action

    The beauty of being able to test ourselves out in the world

    How a strong sense of purpose lives beyond form

    How the Purpose Activation Blueprint takes men beyond the ‘default life’

    Why our cultural idea of success does not lead to fulfillment

    The three fundamentals of purpose

    • Essence
    • Gifts
    • Aligned actions

    Chris’ purpose as a catalyst for growth and awakening

    How to celebrate the risk regardless of the outcome

    Connect with Chris Kyle

    Chris’ Website

    Chris on Twitter

    Chris on Facebook

    Resources

    Man on Purpose Online Course

    ManKind Project

    Purpose Activation Blueprint

    Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder by Arianna Huffington

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Creative Age Consulting Group

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    Emerald on Twitter

    Email: [email protected]

    This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

    29 min
  • Going Inward FIRST for Clarity of Purpose with Chris Kyle

    The truth is that society’s definition of success—money, power and position—simply doesn’t lead to happiness. Rather, the opportunity to build a legacy and do something meaningful are key in moving beyond the ‘default life’ to something extraordinary. But how do you gain the clarity of purpose necessary to live a life of meaning? The answer lies in going inside-out.

    Chris Kyle is a speaker, business coach and eLearning expert who supports authors, entrepreneurs and organizations in developing transformative online courses that unite and inspire a global audience. A catalyst for growth and awakening, Chris has created his own online learning programs in the realm of purpose and authentic leadership, originating The Power of Purpose Summit, Launch Academy, and the Man on Purpose 7-week online course.

    Today, Chris sits down with Emerald to share his calling to help men ‘heal, grow and expand who they are.’ He explains how creativity emerges from a deepening sense of purpose and how his Purpose Activation Blueprint takes men beyond the ‘default life’ set forth by our cultural conditioning. Chris discusses the idea that a combination of RIGHTNESS and RIPENESS lead to creative ACTION and offers insight around why society’s definition of success doesn’t lead to fulfillment. Listen in to understand the significance of excavating old patterns and beliefs and learn how to go inward first in order to gain clarity of purpose.

    What You Will Learn

    How the ManKind Project helped Chris discover his role as a leader

    Chris’ calling to help men heal, grow and expand who they are

    The emergence of creativity that comes from a deepening of purpose

    Chris’ insight around the need to go inward first for clarity

    The significance of excavating old shadows, patterns and beliefs

    How RIGHTNESS and RIPENESS lead to creative action

    The beauty of being able to test ourselves out in the world

    How a strong sense of purpose lives beyond form

    How the Purpose Activation Blueprint takes men beyond the ‘default life’

    Why our cultural idea of success does not lead to fulfillment

    The three fundamentals of purpose

    • Essence
    • Gifts
    • Aligned actions

    Chris’ purpose as a catalyst for growth and awakening

    How to celebrate the risk regardless of the outcome

    Connect with Chris Kyle

    Chris’ Website

    Chris on Twitter

    Chris on Facebook

    Resources

    Man on Purpose Online Course

    ManKind Project

    Purpose Activation Blueprint

    Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder by Arianna Huffington

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one

    29 min
  • Achieving Excellence Through Community with Aaron Walker

    ‘The enemy to excellence is isolation.’

    Aaron Walker contends that if you surround yourself with the right community, a group of people who care enough to tell you the truth, their insight can truly change the trajectory of your life and help you move from ordinary to extraordinary.

    Aaron is the founder and president of View from the Top, a premiere life and business coaching resource committed to helping men grow in success and significance. A serial entrepreneur, Aaron has bought and sold eight successful companies over the past 37 years, and he is part of a long-standing mastermind group with the likes of Dave Ramsey, Dan Miller and Ken Abraham. Aaron’s new book, View from the Top, motivates readers to live a successful and significant life, regardless of current circumstances.

    Today, Aaron sits down with Emerald to discuss his background as an ambitious entrepreneur and the inspiration behind View from the Top. He describes his approach to living with intention and explains how he supports clients in discovering their WHY. Aaron explains why he fears missing an opportunity more than he fears failure and how his spiritual gift for encouragement informs his work as a coach. Listen in for Aaron’s insight on community as the source of success and learn how mastermind groups changed the trajectory of his life!

    What You Will Learn

    Aaron’s background as an ambitious entrepreneur

    The accident that put Aaron’s life on hold for five years

    How Aaron was inspired to start a coaching practice

    Aaron’s approach to living life with intention

    How Aaron helps clients discover their purpose

    Why motivation is an exhaustible resource

    The idea of prioritizing your priorities

    Aaron’s spiritual gift of encouragement

    Aaron’s insight on community as the source of success

    How mastermind groups can change your life’s trajectory

    Why Aaron fears missing an opportunity more than he fears failure

    Connect with Aaron Walker

    View from the Top

    Resources

    View from the Top: Living a Life of Significance by Aaron Walker

    The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington

    Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown

    The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan

    The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks PhD

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    Emerald on Twitter

    Email: [email protected]

    This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

    28 min
  • Achieving Excellence Through Community with Aaron Walker

    ‘The enemy to excellence is isolation.’

    Aaron Walker contends that if you surround yourself with the right community, a group of people who care enough to tell you the truth, their insight can truly change the trajectory of your life and help you move from ordinary to extraordinary.

    Aaron is the founder and president of View from the Top, a premiere life and business coaching resource committed to helping men grow in success and significance. A serial entrepreneur, Aaron has bought and sold eight successful companies over the past 37 years, and he is part of a long-standing mastermind group with the likes of Dave Ramsey, Dan Miller and Ken Abraham. Aaron’s new book, View from the Top, motivates readers to live a successful and significant life, regardless of current circumstances.

    Today, Aaron sits down with Emerald to discuss his background as an ambitious entrepreneur and the inspiration behind View from the Top. He describes his approach to living with intention and explains how he supports clients in discovering their WHY. Aaron explains why he fears missing an opportunity more than he fears failure and how his spiritual gift for encouragement informs his work as a coach. Listen in for Aaron’s insight on community as the source of success and learn how mastermind groups changed the trajectory of his life!

    What You Will Learn

    Aaron’s background as an ambitious entrepreneur

    The accident that put Aaron’s life on hold for five years

    How Aaron was inspired to start a coaching practice

    Aaron’s approach to living life with intention

    How Aaron helps clients discover their purpose

    Why motivation is an exhaustible resource

    The idea of prioritizing your priorities

    Aaron’s spiritual gift of encouragement

    Aaron’s insight on community as the source of success

    How mastermind groups can change your life’s trajectory

    Why Aaron fears missing an opportunity more than he fears failure

    Connect with Aaron Walker

    View from the Top

    Resources

    View from the Top: Living a Life of Significance by Aaron Walker

    The 12 Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington

    Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown

    The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan

    The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks PhD

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Em
    28 min
  • Interrogating Your Reality with Personal Development Coach Phillip Andrew

    What beliefs are holding you back? Where did they come from? Are they true? An integral part of personal development involves taking the time to ‘interrogate your reality’ and attack the limiting beliefs that are keeping you from the life you deserve.

    A multidimensional Man on Purpose, Phillip Andrew is a media and personal development coach based in Los Angeles. He has 15 years of live performance and public speaking experience, and Phillip is often asked to present at high schools and colleges across the country. In addition, he has ten years of addiction recovery experience and a nine-year background producing digital and television content. Phillip has worked on shows for Netflix, YouTube Red, A&E, E! Entertainment, and Fuse, among many others.

    Today, Phillip joins Emerald to explain how he made the shift from a mindset of self-interest to one of service. He speaks to the value in sharing your insecurities and being present for others to do the same. Phillip shares his own struggle with alcoholism, discussing the personal development work he did in the recovery process and how that informs his approach to coaching others. Listen in to understand Phillip’s idea of ‘interrogating your reality’ and learn about Phillip’s ongoing challenge to recognize what he cannot control.

    What You Will Learn

    Phillip’s shift from a mindset of self-interest to one of service

    The danger in prioritizing ‘the brand’ in front of the person

    How Phillip puts himself in a position to share his insecurities

    The value of being present for others through deep listening

    Phillip’s belief that a coach has to do the work themselves first

    Phillip’s struggle with alcohol abuse

    Phillip’s approach to the coaching process

    • Identify root problem
    • Establish definition of success
    • Instill sense of peace, confidence

    The idea of ‘interrogating your reality’

    Phillip’s struggle around relinquishing control

    Connect with Phillip Andrew

    Phillip’s Website

    Phillip on Facebook

    Phillip on Twitter

    Suggest a Guest

    If you (or someone you know) are one of the worlds Magnificent Men On Purpose who should be considered for a guest spot on the show APPLY HERE: bit.ly/PitchMen

    Connect with Emerald GreenForest

    Emerald’s Website

    Emerald on LinkedIn

    Emerald on Twitter

    Email: [email protected]

    This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.

    27 min

About The Irreplaceable Man Podcast

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Welcome to The Irreplaceable Man Podcast, where we believe that every man has the potential to become the irreplaceable man and husband that he knows he is capable of being - and the one that his wife would never want to leave.