In this episode, I’m talking about the kind of friendship we don’t post about. The quiet, steady support that holds your life together.

From a friend sending tuwo across countries when my kids wouldn’t eat, to someone sitting in a hospital waiting room without being asked, to the women who show up for my children when I travel… this is a reflection on the real meaning of having a village.

Not loud. Not performative. Just intentional, reliable, and deeply felt.

We often measure friendship by proximity and shared moments, but adulthood teaches you something different: the real luxury in life is being supported consistently, quietly, and without conditions.

This episode is about the people who do that for me… and why building a friendship village is one of the most important things I’ve ever done.

Self-concept is the foundation of the It Girl life.

In this episode, we unpack the mindset shift that makes everything feel easier. Love, money, boundaries, consistency, peace, and confidence. Because once you change the story you believe about yourself, you stop entertaining what’s beneath you… and start attracting what’s truly aligned.

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Welcome to The It Girl Edit 🎙️

In our first episode, we’re setting the tone for a new season of womanhood. A season where you stop romanticizing chaos and start curating your life with intention.

We’re talking about what it really means to be curated, not chaotic, how to recognize the emotional noise that keeps you stuck, and the quiet edits that transform your identity, your relationships, and your standards.

This episode is for the woman who is done surviving.

She’s choosing clarity, softness, discipline, and elevation.

Because becoming her isn’t about doing more.

It’s about choosing better.

✨ In this episode:

• What “Curated, Not Chaotic” truly means

• Signs your life needs an edit

• The 5 edits that instantly elevate your life

• Why peace is a standard, not a reward

Welcome to The It Girl Edit 🤍