The J Ade Podcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @zelormassaquoi and @ije_adachiii.

This episode covers: 

“HOMOPHOBIA/TRANSPHOBIA”

-Personal definitions of homophobia

-Personal definitions of transphobia

-The cultural impact of being a member of the LBGTQIA+ community

-The biggest homophobes are typically dealing with issues with their own sexuality. Facts or fiction?

-Should a transgender person tell you they’re trans prior to pursuing them romantically?

-Is it transphobic to not want to date a transgender individual?

-Are men more likely to look past a woman who has explored with another woman than women are to look past a man that has done so?

-Thoughts on the use of the words “suspect”, “fag”, “no homo”, “pause”, etc.

-Nature versus nurture argument. What side are you on?

-Is it homophobic to not have gay friends? What if it’s purely circumstantial?

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @so.intrigued and @cookingwithkalii.   

This episode covers: 

"MORALS" 

-Personal definitions of morality 

-The impact of upbringing on a person’s moral code 

-Abortions: under what circumstance is abortion considered a moral act?  

-Are the immoral acts of celebrities judged differently based on who the celebrity is? 

-Chivalry: do men do the things they do for women because it's right or to avoid backlash? 

-Lying by omission: is this truly immoral? Under what circumstance is this acceptable? 

-Is premarital sex truly immoral, why or why not?    

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @queenezirike and @mani2x___.  

This episode covers: 

"INFIDELITY"  

- Who cheats more? Who cheats better? Men or women?  

- Could you date someone whose last relationship ended because they cheated? 

- Is there a difference between physical cheating and emotional cheating? If so, which is worse? 

- After cheating, is it harder to get the women or the man back? 

- Does it matter what exact acts were done, or are all acts of cheating equally bad? 

- Does it hurt more if you know the person who they cheated with? 

- Does the confession time window matter?  

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @dinatime_ and @osamu.diamen.

This episode covers:

"PROMISCUITY"

- What do you define as promiscuity?

- Double standards: Is there a difference between a promiscuous man and a promiscuous woman?

- Can someone be labeled as promiscuous by the way they dress?

- Is sex work considered promiscuity?

- Can a previously promiscuous person be faithful in a relationship?

- Are women more likely to excuse the promiscuity of a man than a man is to excuse the promiscuity of a woman? Why?

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @tayojr and @astoldbynaomib.

This episode covers:

"Counting Favors"

- Is counting favors subconscious or learned behavior?

- Reciprocating what your parents have done for you: is that a choice or an obligation?

- Must good deeds always be brought to light, or is it okay to leave some things unmentioned?

- When is the appropriate time to "humble" someone and remind them of what you've done for them?

- At what point does the giver take responsibility for giving too much?

- Does motive matter? Does the end result overshadow ulterior motives?

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @queenestherrrr and @___chidiebere. 

This episode covers: 

"Pocket Watching" 

-What do you define as pocket watching?  

-Is questioning what someone does with their money a natural train of thought, or is it hating? 

-Buying designer clothing but complaining about being broke: is it your place to speak on their financial decisions? 

-Owing money: those that owe you money but are spending lavishly. At what point do you speak up 

-Relationships: saying you don’t have enough for a date, but you’re consistently buying things for yourself. Is that an issue of prioritizing or is that person just doing what they want to do with their money? 

-Family: do you feel more comfortable addressing the spending habits of relatives or is it not your business? 

-Friends that are broke but expect people to cover for them every time: where do you draw the line? -Reselling culture: is reselling wrong altogether or just when it affects Black businesses (Ex: Telfar)?  

-Do you believe there shouldn’t be billionaires? Are you someone who believes that they earned that money and deserve to spend it how they please, or do you feel like they should distribute the wealth? 

-Are there wrong ways to make money? Thoughts on scamming, selling drugs, ForEx, OnlyFans, etc.  

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @seuntheactivist and @lade_dadee.

This episode covers:

"Black Consciousness"

-What is Black consciousness?

-Are most Black people socially aware/informed?

-Do African immigrants truly not see Black American issues as their issues?

-Do celebrities opinions on social issues truly matter?

-Are some people protesting for the wrong reasons?

-Are non-black people speaking up now because they're finally "seeing the light", or are they trying to shut us up?

-Tangible ways we can contribute to the Black liberation cause

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, @KRDot and @ObiBryant.

This episode covers: 

"Social Media"

-Is social media a credible source for news and other information? 

-How much of an impact do social media influencers truly make? 

-People are afraid to post what they truly think on social media because they're afraid of the backlash. Facts or fiction?

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, Mac and Glo.

This episode covers:

"Get A Hobby"

-How much time is too much time spent on hobbies or friendships?

-Some men don't want women to spend time with certain friends, and vice versa - Fair reasoning or insecurity?

-Do people pursue multiple hobbies as a way to escape from the realities of their relationships?

-Women have a hard time understanding the bond that men and their friends have, because their friendships with other women aren’t as genuine. Facts or fiction?

-The definition of "quality time"

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast

J. Adé discusses the controversial topic of the week with special guests, Dina and Chioma.

This episode covers:

"Fake Love"

-Should your parents support your dreams unconditionally?

-If you get a negative response from your friend in reference to your idea (ex: they say you’re not capable of achieving that goal), how would you react?

-If someone says that they don’t believe in your idea, you go forward with it, and they support you anyway, do you consider that to be fake love?

-If your significant other does not believe in your dreams, is the relationship over?

-Is it easier for strangers to support you since they’re actually supporting the product/brand itself, and not really factoring in your personality/relationship with you into it?

This candid conversation addresses these topics, amongst others, while covering some of the most popping trending topics on the TL from that week. Enjoy! #JAdePodcast