The Jennifer Hargrave Show

The Jennifer Hargrave Show

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The Jennifer Hargrave Show episodes

  • How to Talk to Your Teen About Suicide: A Parent's Guide with Dr. Kristin Kroll

    You don't have to be an expert to have this conversation with your teen. You just have to start it.

    In honor of World Suicide Prevention Day, Jennifer Hargrave sits down with Dr. Kristin Kroll, founder of Little Dove Psychology in Austin, Texas, for a conversation every parent needs to hear. Dr. Kroll spent over a decade in academic medicine at Children's Hospital of Wisconsin, and she brings that clinical expertise to one of the hardest topics parents face: how, when, and why to talk to kids about suicide.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    Why talking about suicide does not put the idea in a child's head (and what the research actually shows)
    How early to start the conversation, and what age hospitals are now screening from
    The warning signs that matter most, and how to tell them apart from normal teenage moodiness
    What to say (and what not to say) if your teen tells you they've had these thoughts
    How to talk with teens about supporting friends without taking on their burden
    What "contracting for safety" means and what really happens when someone calls a crisis line
    A message of hope for parents navigating this with their own teens

    This conversation is also personal for Jennifer. As a family law attorney, she sees firsthand how life transitions, including divorce, can be a high risk time for teens, and why having these tools matters for every family, not just families in crisis.

    If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out:
    988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
    The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ youth): call 1-866-803-7386 or visit thetrevorproject.org

    Learn more about Dr. Kroll and Little Dove Psychology:
    Kristin Kroll, PhD, is a licensed psychologist and the founder of Little Dove Psychology, a virtual practice for children, teens, and college students. She completed pediatric hospital training at Children's Wisconsin, served as Assistant Professor at the Medical College of Wisconsin, and is the author of a Cambridge University Press textbook on evidence-based treatment for children. Before the pandemic she was researching telehealth delivery of group therapy, and later helped Children's Wisconsin build its telehealth clinical procedures.

    Little Dove Psychology provides therapy across the 42 PSYPACT jurisdictions, Texas included, and ADHD, autism, and dyslexia evaluations for Texas clients ages 6 through 55. The practice is in network with several major commercial plans, including Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Texas, and Optum, for therapy and testing alike. Every family starts with a free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Kroll. littledovepsychology.com

    24 min
  • Selling Your Home During Divorce: What Every Texas Family Needs to Know

    Going through a divorce and facing the sale of your home? You don't have to navigate it alone.

    In this episode, Board-Certified family law attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with Liz Crisostomo, a seasoned realtor with Coldwell Banker REALTORS® serving North Texas families. Liz has worked with dozens of clients navigating the emotional and financial complexity of selling a home during divorce — and in this conversation, she shares exactly how she helps families come out the other side with clarity and confidence.

    In this episode, you'll learn:
    • How to prepare your home for sale — even when you're short on time and money
    • The surprising truth about pricing: why overpricing your home can cost you more in the end
    • What 'nesting' is and whether it might work for your family during the transition
    • Smart renovations that return more than they cost — and ones that don't
    • How seller leasebacks, closing cost credits, and appraisal contingencies protect you
    • Why staging matters — and how Liz staged a home that wouldn't sell and it sold in one week
    • How to sequence selling and buying so you're not stuck in an impossible timeline
    • The one thing that kills deals at the last minute (hint: it involves homeowner's insurance)
    • Practical advice for helping your kids feel less anxious about moving

    Whether you're just starting to think about selling or you're already in the process, this episode will give you real, actionable guidance from two professionals who have walked alongside Texas families through this exact transition.

    📞  Need legal guidance for your Texas divorce?
    Contact Hargrave Family Law: https://www.hargravefamilylaw.com

    🏡  Ready to work with Liz Crisostomo?
    https://www.coldwellbankerluxury.com/specialist/EBs37gI/liz-crisostomo

    16 min
  • When Your Co-Parent Won't Coparent | Co-parenting Expert Dr. Linda Threats

    Are you stuck in a cycle of conflict with your co-parent? You're not alone — and it doesn't have to stay this way.

    In this episode of the Hargrave Family Law podcast, Board-Certified family law attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with Dr. Linda Threats, a renowned conflict resolution expert and court-appointed co-parenting therapist serving North Texas families. Dr. Threats has spent over 20 years helping high-conflict co-parents find peace — and in this conversation, she pulls back the curtain on exactly how she does it.
    In this episode, you'll learn:

    Why co-parents get stuck in conflict cycles (and the surprising neuroscience behind it)
    How your childhood experiences are secretly driving your communication patterns today
    The difference between passive, aggressive, and assertive communication — and which one actually works
    Why most people aren't ready to communicate until they deal with their emotions first
    The step-by-step structure of Dr. Threats' 12-week co-parenting program used by North Texas courts
    How to stop looking to your ex for happiness and reclaim your personal power
    What it really means to choose "peace that heals" over "peace that makes you bitter"

    Whether you've been court-ordered into co-parenting therapy or you're simply trying to reduce conflict for the sake of your kids, this episode will give you real tools and genuine hope.
    📞 Need help navigating a high-conflict divorce in Texas?
    Contact Hargrave Family Law: https://www.hargravefamilylaw.com
    🎙️ Learn more about Dr. Linda Threats and her co-parenting programs:

    26 min
  • Divorce in a High-Interest Market: Can You Still Afford the House?

    If you’re going through a divorce in Texas, one of the biggest — and most emotional — questions is:

    Who gets the house?

    In today’s fluctuating interest rate environment, deciding whether to keep, refinance, sell, or assume a mortgage can dramatically impact your financial future.

    In this episode of The Jennifer Hargrave Show, Dallas divorce attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) Julie Howell to break down what REALLY happens to the marital home in a Texas divorce.

    Whether you’re trying to:
    ✔ Keep the house after divorce
    ✔ Remove your spouse from the mortgage
    ✔ Access equity in a Texas divorce
    ✔ Understand mortgage assumptions
    ✔ Qualify using child support or spousal maintenance
    ✔ Protect your credit during property division

    This episode gives you practical guidance before you sign a settlement agreement.
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    🏡 What We Cover:

    Mortgage assumptions in divorce (FHA, VA, Conventional loans)

    Refinancing vs. selling the marital home

    Owelty liens (Texas co-owner buyouts explained)

    Home equity loans and Texas homestead protections

    Qualifying for a mortgage after divorce

    Using child support or spousal maintenance as income

    The risk of leaving your name on the mortgage

    How interest rates impact divorce settlements

    If you are considering divorce in Dallas or anywhere in Texas, understanding your mortgage options early can protect your equity, your credit, and your long-term stability.

    24 min
  • Intimacy After Divorce: How to Reclaim Desire, Confidence & Connection

    Intimacy is one of the most natural parts of being human — and one of the hardest to talk about.

    In this episode of The Jennifer Hargrave Show, Dallas divorce attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with intimacy coach and educator JenMG to explore what happens to desire, confidence, and connection during and after divorce — and how to rebuild them in a healthy, empowered way.

    Together, they unpack:

    The difference between sex and true intimacy

    Why performance pressure kills pleasure

    How shame keeps people disconnected from themselves

    The impact of porn culture and unrealistic expectations on relationships

    The concept of “Act Two Intimacy” — and how desire evolves after divorce

    Why many marriages struggle with sexual mismatch

    How learning intimacy skills can increase confidence in every area of life

    If you are navigating divorce, recently divorced, or simply wondering why connection feels harder than it should, this conversation offers insight, permission, and practical tools to help you reconnect — first with yourself, and then with others.

    At Hargrave Family Law, we know that divorce isn’t just a legal transition — it’s a deeply personal one. As a compassionate Dallas divorce lawyer and collaborative divorce advocate, Jennifer believes that rebuilding your life includes reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your vision for what’s next.

    This episode is for anyone ready to step into their next chapter — with clarity, self-trust, and renewed aliveness.

    If you are navigating intimacy after divorce or are interested in learning more about JenMG and her work as an Intimacy Coach & Educator visit her website here: https://www.jenmg.com/

    27 min
  • Preparing For The Empty Nest (Marriage, Identity and Personal Growth)

    Your youngest child is leaving for college—and suddenly your life feels wide open and uncertain at the same time.

    In this episode of The Jennifer Hargrave Show, Dallas family law attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with licensed professional counselor Susan Schlehuber to talk about what really happens when parents enter the empty nest years.

    Together, they explore:

    How marriage changes when the kids leave home

    Reconnecting with your spouse after years of parenting

    Setting healthy boundaries with adult children

    Avoiding identity loss and grief in the empty nest transition

    Why this season can be one of the most fulfilling chapters of your life

    For many couples, the empty nest years are a turning point—sometimes strengthening a marriage, and other times raising questions about divorce, separation, or collaborative divorce. This conversation offers compassionate insight for parents who want clarity, connection, and confidence moving forward.

    If you’re navigating life changes, marriage challenges, or considering your options with a Dallas divorce lawyer, this episode offers perspective you don’t want to miss.

    17 min
  • How to get unstuck: Counseling VS Coaching

    Feeling stuck in your relationship, career, or life? Therapist Annie Tam explains why high achievers get overwhelmed—and how to get unstuck using values-based tools that actually work.

    In this episode of The Jennifer Hargrave Show, licensed professional counselor Annie Tam shares practical strategies for moving out of overwhelm, decision fatigue, and people-pleasing patterns. We discuss why achievers often feel trapped, how values act as your internal operating system, and tools like Do, Ditch, Delegate to create clarity and momentum.

    You’ll also learn:
    ✔ Why feeling “stuck” is often about values conflict
    ✔ How to regain control when you can’t change your partner
    ✔ The difference between counseling and coaching
    ✔ How EMDR helps process stuck emotions and triggers
    ✔ Steps to reclaim your power in relationships and life transitions

    If you’re questioning a relationship, navigating burnout, or feeling paralyzed by too many decisions, this conversation offers hope, clarity, and actionable next steps.

    👉 Please learn more about Annie Tam's practice here: Annie — MEND Counseling

    Checkout more information on her couples retreat here: REFRESH: A Couples Retreat--Join us for deeper understanding and connection in 2026! — A and K Retreats

    🔔 Subscribe for weekly conversations on relationships, divorce clarity, emotional health, and life after separation.

    29 min
  • When Kids Refuse a Parent (Understanding Custody, Alienation & Co-Parenting)

    When your child suddenly says, “I don’t want to go to Mom’s” or “I don’t want to see Dad,” it can feel confusing, overwhelming, and deeply painful. Is it parental alienation? A safety concern? A loyalty bind? Or something else entirely?

    In this episode, Dallas divorce attorney Jennifer Hargrave sits down with custody expert Christy Bradshaw Schmidt to break down what’s really happening when kids resist or refuse time with a parent during or after divorce.

    Together, they explore:

    💔 Why kids resist a parent
    Enmeshment or loyalty binds
    Estrangement caused by legitimate concerns
    True parental alienation
    Hybrid cases (the most common)

    🙋‍♂️ For the rejected parent:
    How to respond without escalating the conflict
    Why therapy and coaching are essential tools
    How to use family therapy to rebuild connection
    What to do when a court order is being undermined

    ❤️ For the favored parent:
    How to support your child while still honoring the court order
    Why giving in (“You don’t have to go”) can make things worse
    How to encourage a healthier relationship with the other parent

    ⚖️ Inside a custody evaluation
    What evaluators actually look for
    How they determine the “why” behind the resist/refuse dynamic
    What interventions can prevent long-term cutoff

    🌱 A message of hope
    Christy shares real-life examples where damaged relationships were restored—even after years with no contact.
    Work With a Dallas Divorce Attorney

    At Hargrave Family Law, we help families navigate divorce and custody with clarity, compassion, and strategy. Our team supports parents through:

    Child custody and parenting plans
    Collaborative divorce and mediation
    Resist/refuse and parent–child relationship issues

    If you’re facing custody challenges in North Texas, we can help you protect your relationship with your child and build a healthier path forward.

    👉 Schedule a complimentary case evaluation with a Dallas divorce attorney at Hargrave Family Law.

    24 min
  • Inclusive Employment & Community (Hugs Cafe)

    If you love someone with a disability—or care about inclusive employment—you’ll love this episode. Dallas divorce attorney Jennifer Hargrave talks with Lauren Smith (Executive Director) and Kit Marshall (Administrative Coordinator) from Hugs Cafe about creating meaningful jobs, building confidence, and expanding from McKinney to Dallas.

    What we cover:

    Hugs’ 4 programs: Cafe, Greenhouse, Training Academy, Social Programs

    “Job carving” and what personal success looks like for each team member

    Training Academy: 120 hours, certifications, scholarships, and employer partners

    How businesses can welcome neurodiverse and disabled talent—and why it works

    Expansion news: new Dallas cafe and a forever headquarters

    Licensing the Hugs curriculum across multiple states

    Whether you’re navigating a family transition, considering collaborative divorce, or building a healthier workplace culture, this story will inspire you to lead with hope, understanding, grace, and success.

    👉 Learn more about Hugs Cafe: https://hugscafe.org/
    👉 Work with a compassionate Dallas divorce lawyer: https://hargravefamilylaw.com/
    👉 Complimentary resources on peaceful divorce: https://hargravefamilylaw.com/how-to-divorce-without-destroying-your-family/


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    23 min

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