n this episode of The Jessica Viera Show, we’re diving deep into the concept of Coochie Power—a term that started as a family dinner joke but quickly became a powerful message about self-worth, boundaries, and protecting your energy in dating. Jessica breaks down why attraction and chemistry alone aren’t enough to build a strong relationship and why real compatibility comes from asking the right questions early on.

If you’ve ever found yourself emotionally entangled with someone who doesn’t meet your needs, or stuck in a situationship that’s going nowhere, this episode is for you. Jessica shares the 15 essential questions to ask in the first 30 days of dating to avoid heartbreak and ensure alignment in values, attachment styles, future goals, and emotional availability. She also unpacks why women need to protect their emotional and physical energy, why men need to be responsible for the emotional well-being of the women they pursue, and how to recognize when someone is simply not on your level.

By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to stop dating based on vibes and start dating with clarity and self-respect. Whether you’re single, newly dating, or just want to elevate your standards, this conversation will empower you to choose relationships that honor your worth.

🔥 Listen now and take back your dating power! #CoochiePower #DatingStandards #TheJessicaVieraShow

Episode 3: Breaking the Cycle – Why You Keep Dating the Emotional Blueprint of Your Parents

Why do we keep choosing partners who mirror the same emotional wounds we grew up with? Why does love often feel like a chase, and why do we continue lowering our standards for people who can’t meet us where we are? In this episode, Jessica takes a deep dive into attachment theory, childhood conditioning, and the subconscious patterns that keep us stuck in toxic dating cycles.

She explores how our earliest experiences with caregivers shape the way we seek love and connection as adults. If your father was emotionally unavailable, critical, or absent, you might find yourself drawn to partners who make you prove your worth. If your mother was distant, smothering, or inconsistent, you may be subconsciously choosing relationships where you need to emotionally save someone but never feel fully let in. These patterns aren’t random—they’re a direct reflection of what your nervous system has learned to associate with love.

Jessica unpacks why inconsistency feels familiar and even addictive, how the pedestal effect causes us to fantasize about a partner’s potential rather than their reality, and why we often mistake emotional highs and lows for real connection. She also breaks down the moment you need to walk away—when you start lowering your standards just to keep someone around, when their inconsistency makes you question your worth, or when you’re emotionally exhausted but still waiting for them to choose you.

This episode isn’t just about awareness; it’s about action. Jessica walks you through the post-breakup glow-up formula, showing you how to energetically disconnect, reclaim your worth, and finally attract a relationship that feels safe, secure, and fulfilling. If you’ve ever found yourself over-giving, over-explaining, or trying to earn love, this episode will hit hard. It’s time to stop dating from a place of childhood wounds and start choosing love from a place of self-worth.

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Why do we chase love in all the wrong places? Why do we mistake sex for validation, thinking it will make someone love us more? In this raw and deeply personal episode, we’re diving into the patterns, conditioning, and generational trauma that lead us to seek love through intimacy—often with the wrong people.

Jessica gets real about her own experiences, from childhood wounds to dating emotionally unavailable men, and how these patterns kept showing up in her life. She breaks down why we’re drawn to partners who mirror our unhealed wounds, why we crave the dopamine hit of attention, and how our subconscious beliefs about love and self-worth are shaped by early experiences.

Expect to unpack:

• How childhood conditioning wires us to mistake sex for love
• Why we overgive in relationships and attract emotionally unavailable partners
• The role of generational trauma in dating patterns
• How sexual energy affects self-worth, success, and confidence
• The difference between confidence and true self-worth
• How to break toxic patterns, set boundaries, and reclaim personal power

This episode is for anyone who has ever chased love in all the wrong places, over-given in relationships, or struggled with self-worth. It’s time to break the cycle, reclaim your standards, and understand that real love isn’t something you earn—it’s something you choose to receive.

🔥 If this episode hits home, leave a review, share it with a friend, and tag @JessicaViera on Instagram. Let’s start the conversation.

This episode exposes how sexual energy leaks, low self-worth, and toxic relationships directly affect your confidence, success, and even your bank account. If you’ve ever felt drained, stuck, or like no matter how much you do, things aren’t flowing—this one’s for you.

We’re diving into:

How sex is an energy exchange (and why the wrong people can literally drain your life force).

Why being intimate with the wrong partner can block your success & money flow.

What “energy vampires” are & how to know if you’re sleeping with one.

The science of frequency, attraction, and why you keep repeating patterns in love & business.

How to protect your energy, take your power back & become magnetic to success.

🔥 Plus: My own story of realizing I was leaking energy in relationships, how it affected my self-worth and success, and what I did to reclaim my power.

AHA Moments That Will Hit HARD:

• Sex is not just physical—it’s an energetic contract.

• If your love life is chaotic, your money & confidence probably are too.

• Who you sleep with impacts your emotional state, frequency, and even your business.

• If you keep feeling drained after intimacy, that’s NOT a coincidence.

🎧 This episode is going to wake you UP. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel emotionally, financially, or mentally blocked—this is your sign to start protecting your energy like your life depends on it (because it kinda does).