I spent Halloween 2024 working a 30-hour shift that should have taken 15 hours, missing trick-or-treating with my kids. In this episode, I share the harsh reality of being a truck driver in South Texas and the complete lack of accountability in the workplace. Learn about the constant struggle between drivers paid by the load and operators paid by the hour, how operators waste driver time while milking the clock, and why there's no real accountability for wasting our government-mandated driving hours. I break down specific examples: 6 hours to open a gate at Energy Transfer Company, 3.5 hours waiting during shift change at Valero in Three Rivers, dispatcher failures that cost 3 hours, and the story of standing up to an arrogant operator named Frank. This isn't just about trucking—it's about any profession that can be stepped on (teachers, paramedics, drivers). Real talk about workplace accountability, the battle between hourly and load-based pay, and why companies always take the operator's side over drivers. If you're a truck driver or work in an industry with no accountability, this episode is for you. Blog Post Here. 

Why do some couples allow strip club visits? In this episode, I discuss a conversation with my wife about respecting marriage boundaries and what the Bible says about lust. Drawing from Jesus's teaching on adultery in the heart and Proverbs 5:15-23 about being intoxicated with your wife, I explore why men are visual, the difference between being caught off guard by temptation versus seeking it out, and the importance of dying to self. Learn about biblical marriage boundaries, avoiding lustful temptation, and why respecting the covenant of marriage matters. I share personal insights on denying fleshly instincts, staying away from situations that compromise your marriage, and living according to biblical principles. Christian marriage advice on purity, faithfulness, and honoring your spouse. Blog Post Here.

Why does marriage commitment matter for society? In this episode, I explore the social impact of divorce, unfaithfulness in relationships, and what the Bible says about staying together. Drawing from Proverbs 23:27-28 and Proverbs 5:3-5, I discuss how sexual immorality spreads through communities, the challenge of long-term marriage commitment, and why self-control matters. I share personal observations about divorce trends in church communities and issue an urgent call for relationship integrity. Learn biblical perspectives on marriage, communication with your spouse, and how stronger marriages create better communities. Important: I'm not advocating staying in abusive relationships—this is about genuine commitment when both partners want to work on their marriage. Christian marriage advice, relationship wisdom, and faith-based perspectives on commitment. Recorded October 29, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

My wife and I often wonder why so many marriages end in divorce. Today I'm sharing what I believe is the real reason: marriage is a divine institution under spiritual attack. We live in a culture that says you don't need marriage, sleep with whoever you want, move from partner to partner—and the kids suffer for it. I talk about why communication (especially about finances and temptation) saved my marriage, the importance of vetting someone before you commit, what the Bible says about intimacy in marriage (Corinthians), and why you need to approach relationships from a biblical perspective instead of a secular one. No marriage is perfect—mine isn't—but understanding God's design and actually talking to your spouse changes everything. Also: happy birthday to my wife. October 28th, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

Had to borrow someone's car recently and it reminded me: most people on the road don't actually own their car—the bank does. Yeah, the new car was nice with Bluetooth and all the bells and whistles, but at what cost? I'd rather take the bus and save cash than be in debt for something that goes down in value the second you drive it off the lot. Today I'm talking about why I'm avoiding car payments, the one thing worth going into debt for (a house), the 25% rule for "toys" with motors, and where that interest money could go instead (retirement, index funds, actually building wealth). My car broke down and I'm taking public transportation until we save enough to buy our next vehicle in cash. Financial freedom over fancy features. Blog Post Here. 

After dinner with my kids, I got to thinking about something I learned substitute teaching years ago: kids are way smarter than we give them credit for. Every age has a mind that's thinking, learning, analyzing—and we miss out when we dismiss young voices. This applies to the workplace too. From "Stop Work Authority" to servant leadership, I talk about why we need to listen up and down the hierarchy, why veterans shouldn't dismiss new workers, and why new workers shouldn't think they know everything. Age doesn't determine the value of an idea. Let's build a culture where everyone's voice matters. October 22nd, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

Just finished an incredible conversation with Melanie Sandoval, a doula in South Texas, for episode 94 of Corpus Christi Originals. We talked about the breakdown of the family system, teen pregnancy in our community, why marriage-first matters, men's mental health in Hispanic culture, narcissism in relationships and social media, and why I believe a biblical perspective on marriage and family is what society needs. Melanie's story is inspiring—diagnosed with a brain tumor at 18 weeks pregnant, now running her own doula agency with three kids. A real conversation about what holds communities together and what's tearing them apart. Blog Post Here 

Day 5 bringing you multiple topics: Why creativity has no age limit, how your audience can help you discover your true mission, watching my daughter grow up and wanting makeup for the first time, realizing a neighborhood kid might need a father figure, the easy trap of gossip and how to avoid it, and why vetting collaborators matters for your podcast or business. Plus updates on Corpus Christi Originals podcast and how my values shape everything I create. October 19th, 2025. JesusHilarioH.com

How do you handle a colleague who sees everything you do as competition? In this episode, I open up about dealing with a backstabbing coworker, the patterns I learned from narcissistic family members, and why setting boundaries is essential for your mental health. If you've ever felt like you have to walk on eggshells at work, this one's for you. Stay true to yourself—it's not your job to make others feel better about their insecurities. jesushilarioh.com

Day 3 - October 17th, 2025

Why do we still think we have to pick just one table? In high school, you had to choose your group - but I wanted a little bit from each table. I like heavy metal AND hip-hop. I connect with car culture AND cyclists.

In this episode, I talk about how this "pick a table" mentality is still holding us back as adults, and how I'm building the Corpus Christi Originals podcast to break down those barriers. Different people from different walks of life, all welcome at the same table.

This daily practice is inspired by Seth Godin's approach to blogging - if you don't ship it, people can't see it.

Let me know what you think in the comments!

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