Can depression really sabotage your sex life and relationships? Unpack the eye-opening truths behind this connection in our latest episode. We begin by exploring a 2021 study revealing a shockingly high occurrence of sexual dysfunction among those battling major depressive disorder. Learn how symptoms like anhedonia, low self-esteem, and irritability can extinguish sexual desire, and discover the paradox of antidepressants, which can sometimes make things worse. We'll discuss strategies to counteract these side effects, such as tweaking dosages or opting for alternatives like Wellbutrin, and emphasize the vital role of empathy and understanding from partners.

Moving beyond the bedroom, we scrutinize how depression impacts memory and perception, causing past experiences to appear darker than they were. Hear personal stories about the relief gained from understanding concepts like confabulation and learned helplessness. We'll shed light on the neurological underpinnings, focusing on the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex and its importance in reward processing. This episode doesn't just stop at explanations—we delve into comprehensive treatments like therapy, medication, ketamine, and transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) that offer a path to restoring brain function and reclaiming life. Tune in to deepen your compassion and awareness for those navigating the labyrinth of depression.

What if exploring your deepest desires could lead to a life of empowerment and freedom? This week, the Joosi Sex Podcast is thrilled to feature the fascinating Misstress Val Eldritch, a Sensual Domina who transitioned from the corporate world to the liberating realm of sex work. Listen as Alisa and Val recount their captivating journeys, sharing the challenges and triumphs they faced along the way. From her preference for the term "Domina" to her unique practice of full-body sensual massage, Val offers insights into the softer yet powerful dynamics she maintains with her clients.

Val doesn't just talk about techniques; she delves deep into the emotional connections and consent that form the backbone of her work. She reveals how her background in Ayurvedic massage contributes to creating a holistic, stress-relieving experience for her clients. With heartfelt anecdotes and personal reflections, Val underscores the necessity of a respectful and caring environment where clients can safely explore their fantasies and kinks. We also address the societal paradox where sex work is both consumed and stigmatized, and the courage it takes to navigate such a landscape.

But that's not all. This episode also explores themes of unity and empowerment among sex workers, shedding light on the emotional labor involved and the importance of building trust and rapport. Val provides a raw look at the complexities of the industry, from dealing with substance use to advocating for better regulation and support. Whether you're curious about the nuances of BDSM, the ethics of financial domination, or the emotional highs and lows of sex work, this episode promises an enlightening and empowering conversation.

Have you ever questioned whether you’re "gay enough" to claim your identity? Join my guest Carlie and I on the Joosi Sex Podcast as we challenge stereotypes about swingers and dive into the intricacies of bisexuality and open relationships. I share my personal struggle with sexual identity and the profound impact of living authentically. Discover the importance of being open about one's orientation and how it can positively transform your life.

Celebrate Pride with us as we recount the emotional journey of coming out. By sharing my own experiences of publicly acknowledging my bisexuality and the mixed reactions that followed, we highlight the complex dynamics of family and societal acceptance. Hear about the heartfelt reconciliation with a mother and the overwhelming support from those around me, illustrating the highs and lows of this transformative process.

Shifting gears, we explore ethical non-monogamy and the importance of honesty and openness in relationships. Through personal stories, we discuss the fluid nature of relationships, different forms of ethical non-monogamy, and the significance of creating safe spaces for self-expression. Unpack the misconceptions surrounding open and closed relationships and learn how personal fulfillment can come from diverse sources. This episode is a celebration of love in all its forms and the journey toward living a life true to oneself.

What happens when you mix intimacy with psychedelics? Jess and I get personal and vulnerable as we recount our journeys navigating sex, substances, and consent. From the ethereal, boundary-melting experiences enhanced by psychedelics to the pitfalls of relying on alcohol for sexual encounters, we explore how these substances can transform or complicate our intimate lives. Through our own stories, we highlight how the dissolution of the ego can lead to profound connections but also stress the critical importance of trust and safety.

Our discussion takes a deep dive into the complexities of consent, particularly during adolescence and under the influence of substances. We share candid reflections on the struggles of growing up with religious backgrounds, the pressures to conform, and the misuse of substances like alcohol to manage these dynamics. Jess provides heartfelt insights into her early sexual experiences and how they shaped her understanding of validation and connection. We underscore the necessity of clear, enthusiastic consent and the continual practice of communicating boundaries to ensure mutual agreement.

Finally, we reflect on the empowering impact of sobriety on our sexual experiences. By embracing a sober lifestyle, we found deeper connections, clearer intentions, and the ability to genuinely tune into our desires. We discuss how setting boundaries and practicing body scanning have helped us engage in more intentional and mindful sexual encounters. Whether you're curious about the role of psychedelics in enhancing intimacy or seeking guidance on navigating consent and sobriety, our conversation offers a raw, honest exploration of the intimate and often unspoken aspects of sexual wellness.

Can a high-tech scale really measure your self-worth? Join us on this episode of the Joosi Sex Podcast as Kim and I, your host Alisa, have a raw and heartfelt discussion on diet culture. We dig deep into the ingrained societal beliefs that equate thinness with health and goodness, revealing the relentless pressure to shrink our bodies to fit these arbitrary ideals. Reflecting on past dieting fads like the ultra low-fat craze of the 90s, we reveal how these ever-changing trends contribute to a toxic cycle of shame and confusion.

Hear our honest takes on the mental and emotional toll these diets have had on us, from the highs of calorie counting to the despair of watching our weight yo-yo despite all efforts. We share our personal battles with diet culture, recounting how strict diet rules and the irrational hope of fitting into old clothes have fed into feelings of failure and disordered eating. Through our stories, we underscore the importance of rejecting shame and acknowledging that the struggle with body image is a shared human experience.

Finally, we confront the dangers of diet pills and extreme workout regimens. Hear about an addiction to Oxy Elite during college and the chilling parallels between dieting and substance addiction. Kim and I emphasize the need for self-compassion in this ongoing journey and advocate for healthier, guilt-free approaches to food and wellness. Tune in for an episode that promises to resonate deeply, offering both insight and solidarity in the quest to break free from toxic ideologies around dieting and body image.

Ever had a date with a flat earther? Yep, we’ve been there too, and it’s just the tip of the iceberg in this wild episode of the Joosi Sex Podcast. We kick things off with that bizarre dating story, which perfectly segues into an enlightening discussion about the "ho phase"—a time in life where being less picky about partners and exploring your sexuality without societal strings attached is not just okay, but damn liberating. We reflect on our own journeys through sexual liberation, touching on the perplexing resistance to condom use in today's dating scene, and stress the crucial role of sexual autonomy and safety.

Communication and consent are the bedrock of satisfying sexual experiences, and we’ve got tales to tell! From navigating the uncharted waters of threesomes to the liberating act of ending unsatisfying sex mid-stroke, we underscore the importance of asserting control over your sexual encounters. We highlight the necessity of clear communication and consent, even in the heat of the moment, to ensure everyone’s comfort and pleasure. Our stories reinforce that no one owes their partner anything beyond their comfort, and it’s perfectly okay to call the shots when things aren’t hitting the right notes.

And for those who like a dash of adventure, we delve into the thrill of public sex, recounting escapades from gondolas to porta potties that add a spicy twist to any relationship. We also explore how a "ho phase" can impact friendships and personal growth, acknowledging the emotional toll and the liberation that comes with embracing your desires. Whether it’s a short-lived phase or a long-term choice, this episode is all about celebrating your sexual freedom, living without shame, and recognizing that your journey is uniquely yours. Join us for a candid, empowering conversation that might just change the way you think about your own sexual adventures!

Threesomes are America's number one fantasy, but only 1 in 5 of us have tried one. These four Trysexuals have logged our 10,000 hours and we're giving you the lowdown on how to menage your trois.

Have you wondered what Open Relationships are really like? Join this irreverent and honest conversation as Alisa, Jennica, and Gracia talk about our journey from monogamy to non-monogamy and sometimes back again. 

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When did you first masturbate? What tools did you use as a teenager? How does masturbation fit in your life now? Join Alisa and her friends Melissa and Jenn for a hilariously candid and highly inappropriate open discussion. No holds barred. If you thought you were a weirdo before, you'll soon discover you're not alone!

Part 2 of the  2 part Pride Edition: The Bisexual Trysexual. The conversation was so good we had to keep recording! In the second half we discuss how we came out to our families, then we get into opinions about commercialization of Pride, whether kinksters belong at Pride, diversity (or lack thereof) in our corner of the non-monogamous community, and what to do when businesses we love are out of alignment with our Pride values.