Learning how to improve your dating life as a man requires you to learn not just how to be a good man, but also how to specifically become a highly desirable man to women. In this episode, we’re going to discuss the truth about what high-value women are actually looking for—the truth about what separates highly desirable men from ‘undesirable boys.’ This episode is crucial for men who want to improve their odds of dating success! 

The 4 steps to become a highly desirable man: 

1. Become a man who holds yourself to high standards (i.e. be getting money, working out at the gym, growing your skills, grooming well, presenting yourself professionally, developing a high-value social circle, etc.)

2. Be cognitively flexible in all areas of life

3. Become radically self-responsible

4. Level up in all 9 of the vital life domains

What are the 9 vital life domains?

1. Mindset

2. Infrastructure/Responsibility

3. Finances

4. Purpose

5. Self-improvement

6. Adventure

7. Intimacy

8. Social connection

9. Legacy

More information on the 9 vital life domains: https://joshuasigafus.com/life-areas-for-goal-setting/

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Men, if you want to increase your dating success, date more girls, go on more dates, find more women who might want to ‘boyfriend you up’ and take you off the market, and even find love in the modern dating landscape, it’s crucial that you start getting some phone numbers. Thankfully for you, I can tell you exactly how to do it. These statistics will help you to understand how a simple plan and taking small action steps every day can lead to massive benefits in the long term for your dating life as a man. You just need to be willing to take action and go for it. 

NY Post Article: https://nypost.com/2022/08/04/why-theres-no-hope-for-men-on-dating-apps-revealed/ 

You want to get more phone numbers. Good! The only problem is that sometimes this seems hopeless. 

Well gentlemen, what if I told you that with just a little bit of time and effort every day, you could massively increase your chances—to the point where you could potentially get 72 phone numbers, or even more, from women this year—all without doing a ton of extra work on a daily basis? 

Well, it’s possible. 

According to statistics… “In 2021, SwipeStats.io found that women swipe more than men overall, but are far more selective when doing so. They found the average female user receives about three matches per day while the median male user receives about one match.”

Here’s the math:

Create 1 new engagement with a woman every day via cold approach or tribal dating. This creates 30 opportunities every month. 

Double this by using dating apps to increase the odds to 60 per month. 

60 x 12 equals 720 opportunities per year. 

Divide this by 10 to get our conversion rate of 10%: that gives us 72 phone numbers. 

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

As a man, it’s really important that you learn how to run a successful date. This means that you’ll need to learn how to properly greet the woman, how to flirt, how to escalate—all of it. If you find yourself on a lot of first dates, but don’t ever end up closing hookups or getting women hitting you up for second dates, then these 3 keys may be missing from your repertoire! If you want to learn how to triple your close rate on dates, how to get more second dates, my key secrets to dating success, and just in-general learn how to make a woman want you… DO NOT miss this episode! 

The 3 secrets:

1. Greet her and welcome her into your domain

2. Start flirting and escalating fast

3. Treat every conversation thread like a mini adventure

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

As a man, it’s really important that you actually learn how to seduce a woman properly in the modern era. Well, in this episode, I’m going to tell you the 4 secrets to top-level masculine seduction that I’ve learned through my own dating adventures. These secrets have served me extremely well, and always prove to crush it when the time comes to romance my favorite lady! Use them wisely to help you improve your dating life and make your dates awesome—she just might fall in love with you. 

1. Establish a powerful emotional connection

2. Maintain a ‘rhythm’ between communication and escalation

3. Escalate boldly, but with proper timing

4. As the man, always take the lead and do what you want to do

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

A lot of men wonder what masculine qualities make them attractive to women. Well, a lot of people believe that this answer is subjective—but it’s actually not! In this episode, I’m going to cover 4 masculine qualities that make men irresistible to women. Missing even one of these qualities is going to seriously undermine your ability to create attraction—and thus, hurt your dating life as a result. These qualities are CRUCIAL for men who want to succeed at dating and attracting women. 

1. You’re self-validated

2. You have a purpose

3. You’re intentionally and intensely developing yourself

4. You’re radically self-responsible and want to lead

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Benching is basically a dating trend where someone ‘keeps you on the bench as a backup’ in case their first dating pick doesn’t come through. This is a terrible dating trend for men because a lot of women will hedge their bets to try to keep from ending up ‘lonely’ if their first-string guy doesn’t ask them out as planned. Men, do not fall for this dating trend! Here’s the strategy you need to know to keep it from affecting you. 

Ladbible benching post: https://www.ladbible.com/news/benched-worst-dating-trend-2023-506920-20230519 

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

What is Ghostlighting? As it turns out, it’s a new dating trend that actually isn’t so new—in which people ‘ghost’ and then try to ‘gaslight’ you into thinking that you either weren’t ghosted, or that YOU were the one who did it! This is a crazy dating trend. And guess what? Men need to be super careful about this one because I’ve experienced a LOT of women doing it! You won’t want to miss these crucial dating tips for men! 

Ghostlighting post: https://www.glam.com/1289669/ghostlighting-toxic-dating-trend-explained/ 

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

What is wokefishing? This dating trend is basically a trend where people pretend to be ‘woke’ to virtue signal and thus, appeal to the person they’re dating more. But it’s disingenuous and gross! In this episode, I’ll teach you exactly what you need to know as a man to not only avoid this problematic issue, but also how to handle it when you encounter women who use this tactic. You won’t want to miss these crucial dating tips and advice for men! 

Wokefishing article: https://www.distractify.com/p/wokefishing-dating-explained 

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

In today’s episode, I talk about 3 vital energy shifts that men can embrace to get on the right foot with women. And if you actually use these energy shifts every time you engage with a woman, you’ll find that you’ll tend to attract more women and broadcast higher attraction markers as a man–thus, improving your masculine dating life. Let’s dive into it!

3 phase energy shift:

1. Confidence/From A Place Of Zero Fear

2. Curiosity/From A Place Of Abundance

3. Positivity/From A Place Of Peace

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.

These tips are coming directly from my own men’s dating playbook! Start talking to more women by utilizing these 5 tips to jump right into the dating game and start more conversations. Here are the tips in bite-sized format:

1. Approach with intention and in your own confident, masculine frame. 

2. Find an awesome reason to start a conversation. 

3. Make her laugh. 

4. Get her to answer ‘yes’ before going for the number. 

5. Don’t ask for the number—tell her you want it. 

Follow these tips to meet unlimited women this summer, and cultivate an AMAZING dating life for yourself! 

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Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise.