In this episode, I talk about why being a nice guy just isn’t attractive to women. I also answer a few other questions, like:
Are nice guys attractive?
What does a woman like most in a man?
Do women like ‘jerks’ more than nice guys?
Did men evolve to be ‘liked,’ or not?
You won’t want to miss this one.
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Now, you've probably heard a lot of people say things like you can't be a nice guy can't be a pushover, you know, you got to have an edge. You got to be kind of a, you know, got to be kind of a jerk if you want the ladies to like, right. And so this is kind of the the common verbiage.
And then if you talk to people who are a little bit wiser, they'll say something like, Well, no, the idea isn't to be a jerk. The idea is just to not give off low value signals associated with being you know, nice to nice that you're a pushover.
So what's the truth of the matter? What's important to know about this, because not too long ago, I had an interesting and very, like, educational interaction with a lady. And we went out we were talking to hanging out and stuff. And over the course of the of the Hangout, you know, it went really well. I just kind of acted like my usual self. And I escalated pretty early on in the conversation. And I noticed that she, she was testing me a little bit like, you know, she didn't like, like, resist my temps escalating. But she didn't like make them easy, per se. Right. And so, you know, now generally, when this is going on, you want to look at two different things. Like is she just not into it? Or is this some kind of a value tests or a shit test? And I really was getting the vibe that this was some kind of value test, right? Although I wasn't sure.
However, you know, we continue to date and I ended up inviting her back to my place. And so you know, went really well had a super good time. But later on that night, she actually told me that earlier on in the conversation she like, she didn't think that I was going to be you know, quote, unquote, her type of guy, because I just seemed too nice.
