The R-Word Series | Week 2 [Chad Simpkins]
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Our posture in marriage is important.
Posture #1: Back to Back
Expressed by verbal and physical anger.
Proverbs 30:33 - As the beating of cream yields butter and striking the nose causes bleeding, so stirring up anger causes quarrels.
Problem: Lack of Communication
Agape - Sacrificial Love
Sacrificial Love Means: Our battle isn’t with each other
Posture #2: Shoulder to Shoulder
Proverbs 27:9 - The sweet smell of incense can make you feel good, but true friendship is better still.
Posture #3: Face to Face
Genesis 4:1 (ESV) - Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.”
Yada: To Know
Ahava - To Give
Wives: Song of Solomon 5:10-13, 16
Husbands: Song of Solomon 4:1-3, 7
How Can You Yada Your Spouse?
Step 1: Put Jesus First
Step 2: Realize Your Spouse is NOT Your Enemy
Step 3: Go to Counseling
Step #4 - Find a Healthy Married Couple to Mentor You
Step #5 - Fix Your Posture