Stress is not an excuse to do bad things and hurt people but I still must deal with it and improve in character.

This was a very personal conversation with my Dad, I am putting it here so that I can hear it over and over again and probably play it to my children; to learn more about their lineage.

Also, I do want anyone out there who lands on this to hear about The Grail Message.

All Glory is to God, Amen.

There’s something about the way we teach about choosing a spouse that struggle with

That I’m very tired

The Reason You Can't See Yet

"Everything happens for a reason." It's one of the most common things people say — and one of the most painful things to hear when you're in the middle of loss, grief, or failure.

In this episode, we sit with that tension honestly. Why do we so easily accept a reason for a delayed flight, but refuse to believe there could be any reason at all for losing someone we love? And what does it really mean when we can't find a reason that benefits us directly?

This episode challenges the quiet selfishness in how we process hardship, explores what faith says about whose good things are actually working toward, and offers a mindset shift that could change how you move through every season of your life — the painful ones and the good ones.

Because the reason may not come in the moment. It may not come for years. But having the right posture means that when it does arrive, you'll recognise it — and you'll find yourself grateful for the very chapter of your life you once wished had never happened.

The Fine Line: Building Your Tech Brand Without the Fake It Till You Make It

Episode Description:

This episode features real examples, expert insights, and practical strategies for sharing your tech journey authentically. Whether you're a bootcamp grad, junior developer, or senior engineer, you'll learn how to contribute meaningfully to tech discussions while staying true to your experience level.

In This Episode:

Talk Is Cheap!

Okay, if talk is cheap. Why are you not talking?

The people who talk the talk and don't walk the walk keep getting all the recognition, while those who believe they can get things done stay silent.

If we continue to keep silent we will leave the beginners to be prey to these wolves in sheep's clothing.

Listen to the episode for more details.

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In this enlightening episode, we discuss recognizing and leveraging your self-worth in your career.

Discover actionable steps to create opportunities that reflect your true value, gather substantial evidence of your skills and achievements, and understand the typical compensation for your level with insights from mentors and seniors.

We also explore strategic job hunting, optimizing value in your current role, and the importance of networking.

Learn how continuous learning and side projects can bolster your career prospects and how to evaluate your daily cost of production.

Finally, we discuss how to aim for a new job or promotion that significantly enhances your earning potential. Tune in for a comprehensive guide to advancing your career and maximizing your worth!

Guys, I'm back, again.

This time, with food prepared by my very good friend Feranmi. This will feed your mind and help you feed your body better.

The 3 Career Optimization Cycles

Embark on a journey through the "3 Career Optimization Cycles" in our enlightening episode. We start by cycling through the foundational phase of amassing diverse and enriching experiences, setting the stage for a robust career trajectory. Transition into the second cycle, where the focus shifts to financial elevation, understanding the art of negotiating your worth and strategically boosting your earnings. The final cycle delves into enhancing your value to those who compensate you, ensuring your contributions are indispensable and impactful. This episode serves as a blueprint for navigating the cyclical nature of career development, offering insights and strategies for each phase. Whether you're just starting or looking to enrich your career path, these optimization cycles offer a structured approach to achieving professional fulfilment, financial growth, and unparalleled value in your role. Join us to discover how to transition through these cycles for a thriving career journey seamlessly.