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In the first of two special reflection episodes mid-season, host Lola Soyebo Harris explores the powerful theme of "Breaking Free from Expected Paths" through insights gained from conversations with three remarkable women featured in Season 2: Ukonwa Ojo, Ayesha Chidolue, and Joy Aboderin. Each left successful corporate careers to pursue entrepreneurial ventures aligned with their deeper purpose.
Lola shares her personal reflections on their journeys, highlighting common threads including the persistent call that preceded their pivots, how they moved through fear with preparation, the crucial role of support systems, and finding flow when aligned with purpose. Through these stories and her own insights, Lola explores what it means to become a "Kádàrá Woman" - someone who courageously aligns with her authentic path and purpose.
Whether you're contemplating your own pivot or simply seeking inspiration, this episode offers wisdom for recognizing and responding to the whispers of your own calling.
What We Discuss:
0:00 - Introduction to this special reflection episode on breaking free from expected paths
2:04 - Joy Aboderin's story and Lola's reflections on recognizing recurring whispers
5:26 - Addressing fear: Joy's perspective and Lola's "crying baby" metaphor
7:25 - Lola shares her journey of chasing achievements versus finding true purpose
10:15 - Ayesha's personal catalyst and Lola's thoughts on witnessing others' struggles
12:40 - Partnership in purpose: Ayesha's support system and Lola's takeaways
16:01 - Vision and manifestation: Ayesha's approach and Lola's experience with vision boards
19:30 - Ukonwa on "golden handcuffs" and Lola's thoughts on corporate transitions
24:23 - The river metaphor: Ukonwa's perspective on destiny and Lola's connection to it
25:58 - Legacy reflections: What Ukonwa's insights revealed to Lola about purpose
27:52 - Lola identifies four powerful common threads across all three journeys
32:12 - Closing questions for listeners to reflect on their own paths
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
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About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Joy Aboderin shares her purpose-driven journey from a 13-year accounting career to founding Potential U, a successful global styling business. After hearing God's call in 2003, Joy eventually took the leap in 2008, selling her house to start her business. Now celebrating 17 years, Joy reveals how she's transformed her styling consultancy into a global enterprise, pivoted during COVID, and is launching the Potential U Style Academy to mentor the next generation. Her story demonstrates how aligning with your purpose and "feeling the fear but doing it anyway" can lead to a fulfilling life of impact and meaning.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[01:05] - Joy's Nigerian heritage and how it shaped her
[04:49] - Childhood dreams and the path to becoming an accountant
[06:06] - First exposure to fashion through her stylish mother
[12:31] - The divine calling to leave accounting for fashion
[15:08] - Joy's first styling client and the emotional transformation
[17:38] - Selling her house to start Potential U in 2008
[21:05] - Early business challenges and networking lessons
[26:39] - Pivoting during COVID to offer virtual styling services
[31:17] - Streamlining services and knowing your business worth
[33:52] - Understanding clients beyond appearances in styling
[37:26] - Balancing timeless wardrobes versus fashion trends
[40:11] - Launching the Potential U Style Academy
[46:35] - Faith over fear: Building confidence in your purpose
[51:52] - Finding balance and rest as an entrepreneur
[53:15] - The emotional impact of styling a terminal client
[54:26] - Lightning round: Personal mantras and life lessons
[59:39] - Destiny and pursuing your purpose
Connect with Joy Aboderin
Instagram | Potential U | Potential U Academy
Resources Mentioned: Rachel Rodgers - We Should All Be Millionaires
Fashion She Wore: Heathe
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
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Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
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About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Lola sits down with Remi Roy, a Nigerian author, entrepreneur, and host of The Driven Introvert podcast. Raised by a single mother after losing her father before birth, Remi shares her remarkable journey from being a painfully shy introvert to becoming a confident public speaker, published author, and founder of ShePact, a platform empowering introverts to find their voice. She opens up about unexpected childhood discoveries, fertility struggles, career pivots from microbiology to creative entrepreneurship, and how faith has anchored her intentional living approach. This conversation delivers practical strategies for overcoming shyness, building confidence in professional settings, and pursuing multiple passions with purpose. Whether you struggle with public speaking anxiety or feel directionless in your career path, Remi's authentic insights offer a roadmap for transformation.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[00:00] - Introduction to Remi Roy and the episode overview
[01:24] - Nigerian heritage and the impact of growing up without a father
[04:22] - The pivotal moment: discovering her father's obituary as a child
[06:53] - Educational journey: from aspiring doctor to finding her creative voice
[10:54] - Becoming a "self-proclaimed trier" and embracing multiple passions
[18:19] - Finding direction: practical advice for when you feel lost
[21:02] - Writing career: how Remi published her first books
[24:42] - Creating ShePact and The Driven Introvert podcast
[27:56] - Public speaking strategies for introverts
[36:35] - Building resilience through life's difficult challenges
[39:21] - Living intentionally: practical steps for purposeful living
[43:54] - Book recommendation and overcoming creative resistance
[47:40] - Lightning round: personal philosophies and turning points
[55:43] - Reflections on destiny and pursuing purpose
Connect with Remi Roy
Instagram | Podcast | Shepact
Resources Mentioned: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kádàrá Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Ayesha Chidolue's journey from corporate attorney to founder of a Top 10 law firm on the Inc. 5000 list is a masterclass in purpose-driven entrepreneurship. Born in Texas but raised in Nigeria until age 17, she credits her Nigerian upbringing for instilling the grit and ambition that propelled her success. After years in corporate law and even a stint as a wedding photographer, Ayesha found her calling in immigration law where she could create a meaningful impact while building a business that now employs 52 people.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[00:00:36] - Introduction to Ayesha Chidolue and Her Journey
[00:02:05] - Nigerian Heritage and How It Shaped Her Mindset
[00:04:02] - Childhood Dream of Becoming a Lawyer
[00:05:48] - Transition from Corporate America to Entrepreneurship
[00:08:23] - Navigating Career and Motherhood Through Multiple Moves
[00:11:43] - Taking the Bar Exam While Raising Young Children
[00:14:14] - Starting a Law Practice and Finding Her Purpose
[00:17:14] - Personal Connection to Immigration Law and Its Impact
[00:20:11] - Building a Firm with Strong Core Values and Systems
[00:23:38] - Working Successfully with Her Husband as COO
[00:27:37] - The Role of Faith in Business Growth and Decision-Making
[00:32:02] - Being Recognized on the Inc. 5000 List as a Top 10 Law Firm
[00:35:34] - Celebrating Client Victories in Immigration Cases
[00:37:58] - Maintaining Work-Life Balance as a Business Owner
[00:41:56] - Navigating Challenges in Immigration Law Practice
[00:47:56] - Advice for Entrepreneurs: The Power of Laser Focus
[00:50:12] - The Power of Manifestation and Setting Clear Goals
[00:53:46] - Building a Legacy Beyond Personal Success
Connect with Ayesha Chidolue:
Ayesha IG | The Chidolue Law Firm
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kadara Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Irish-Ghanaian boxing champion Lesley Sackey shares her remarkable journey from avoiding PE class to winning EU gold medals, and ultimately founding Fight Forward and Pillow.AI. After surviving a seven-year abusive relationship, Lesley transformed her trauma into purpose, creating innovative organizations that use boxing as a therapeutic tool for domestic abuse survivors. She details how physical movement releases "calcified energy" stored in the body, helping women reclaim their power and voice.
As a mother of three and a social entrepreneur, Lesley discusses balancing motherhood with her mission to help 10,000 women fight forward. Her story exemplifies how African women are pioneering trauma-informed approaches to healing and demonstrates that our greatest challenges can become our most meaningful contributions to the world.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[01:27] - Irish-Ghanaian Heritage and Cultural Identity
[08:57] - From Theatre Kid to Unexpected Athlete
[14:21] - Finding Her Boxing Community
[19:43] - Winning Gold: The European Championships
[26:30] - Life's Unexpected Plot Twist
[30:12] - The Kadara Moment: Birth of Fight Forward
[36:03] - Boxing as Trauma Healing Medicine
[42:07] - Pillow: Tech Solution for Survivors
[47:10] - Success Habits of a Champion
[52:52] - Life Lessons from the Boxing Ring
Connect with Lesley Sackey
Lesley IG | Fight Forward IG
Fight Forward Website |Pillow.AI Website
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kadara Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
For Podcasthon 2025, Nigerian-born pharmacist Dr. Nnenna Onosode shares her journey from experiencing childhood sexual abuse to founding Anadel Speaks Foundation, a nonprofit organization protecting African children through sexual abuse prevention education.
After building a successful healthcare career in America, Nnenna responded to a divine calling that began after motherhood. She reveals how she overcame fears to launch her child protection nonprofit, developed educational programs remotely implemented in Nigerian schools, and is now constructing a shelter for abuse survivors.
Through her inspiring story, Dr. Nnenna offers wisdom on recognizing your purpose, navigating cross-cultural nonprofit challenges in Africa, maintaining wellness while doing trauma-related work, and transforming personal pain into impactful child advocacy that bridges continents.
This special episode is also part of Podcasthon 2025 -@podcasthon-en, a global movement uniting podcasters to amplify charitable causes throughout this week.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[00:00] - Introduction to Dr. Nnenna and Podcasthon 2025
[04:25] - From Nigeria to America: Educational Journey
[08:46] - The Divine Calling to Child Protection Work
[14:12] - Surviving Childhood Abuse: A Personal Story
[23:37] - Divine Confirmation and Foundation Genesis
[32:28] - Building Educational Programs Across Continents
[39:30] - Overcoming Challenges in African Nonprofit Work
[47:50] - Spiritual Self-Care While Carrying Others' Stories
[52:23] - Celebrating Growth: Shelter Construction and Beyond
[01:01:44] - Reflections & Finding Your Purpose: Destiny and Divine Timing
Connect with Nnenna Onosode
Instagram |Website
Resource Shared: The Bait of Satan by John Bevere
🔗 Connect With Lola on: Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kadara Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Former Amazon Prime CMO, Ukonwa Ojo shares her journey from Nigerian schoolgirl to global marketing executive and finally to purpose-driven entrepreneur. After 27 years in corporate America, including roles as CMO for MAC Cosmetics and SVP for Cover Girl, Ukonwa made the brave decision to walk away from the "golden handcuffs" to pursue her God-given purpose. Her story reveals important lessons about authenticity, faith, and finding true fulfillment.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[00:00] - Welcome to Season Two's Video Premiere
[03:09] - Nigerian Roots: Ukonwa's Formative Years
[05:42] - Early Career Aspirations and Family Influence
[08:29] - The Journey Through Education and Corporate America
[11:20] - The Loneliness of Being "The Only One" in the Room
[18:39] - Living Authentically: Bringing Your Whole Self to Work
[22:23] - The Pyramid Theory: How Difference Drives Success
[27:51] - Full Circle Moment: Returning to Queen's College Nigeria
[31:33] - The Kadara Moment: Deciding to Leave Corporate America
[37:44] - The Courage to Pivot: Faith and Family Support
[44:15] - Building Zaia: A Platform Uniting Christians Worldwide
[46:09] - Honoring Her Mother Through Ada & Edith Fashion Line
[54:44] - The Entrepreneurship Adjustment: Eating Your Ego
[59:49] - Coming Full Circle: Speaking as CEO, Not CMO
[01:16:53] - Lightning Round: Personal Insights and Wisdom
[01:24:38] - Finding Your Current: The River Metaphor for Destiny
Connect with Ukonwa Ojo
Websites: Zaia | Ada & Edith
Socials: Ukonwa on IG | Zaia IG | Ada & Edith IG
Resource Mentioned: The Pursuit of Purpose - Dr. Myles Munroe
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kadara Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | Website
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
We are back with new conversations with more women of African descent! Our new season starts on Tuesday, March 11 so be sure you have your notifications on.
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
Key themes of the podcast include:
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Ever wondered what happens when you gather 12 incredible African women, add a dash of Mount Everest adventure, sprinkle in some entrepreneurial magic, and let their stories inspire people from Finland to Qatar? The season finale of Kadara Woman podcast wraps up exactly that kind of amazing journey, with host Lola Soyebo Harris reflecting on three months of powerful storytelling. With listeners tuning in from 17 countries and 22 US states, and downloads climbing by 37% weekly, these stories of triumph, resilience, and purpose-driven living have clearly struck a chord with audiences worldwide.
Shownotes:
[00:01] - Welcome and Introduction to Season 1 Finale
[00:33] - Purpose Behind Kadara Woman Podcast Launch
[01:48] - Season 1 Achievements and Global Reach
[02:23] - Highlighting Guest Stories and Key Lessons
[03:32] - Featuring African Women Entrepreneurs' Journeys
[05:25] - Host's Personal Reflections and Learning Moments
[06:35] - Future Plans and Season 2 Announcements
[07:08] - Gratitude and Closing Remarks
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kádàrá Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our universal stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
Tech executive turned leadership expert Foluso Gbadamosi shares her transformative journey from feeling restless in a successful tech career to discovering her true purpose. As an award-winning business leader and Gallup Strengths coach, Foluso reveals how embracing your authentic self can lead to extraordinary impact. Whether you're feeling stuck in your career, questioning your path, or searching for your purpose, this conversation offers practical insights on self-discovery, leveraging natural talents, and finding the courage to create your own trail. Perfect for ambitious professionals ready to move from success to significance.
You will learn:
What We Discuss:
[00:00 - 03:22] Early Life in Nigeria & Growing Up in Nigeria's Middle Class
[03:23 - 10:24] Career Transitions: From Tech Education to Finding Your Path
[10:24 - 18:29] Women in Tech: Building a Global Career & Returning to Africa
[18:30 - 24:47] The Kadara Moment: Finding Purpose and Clarity
[24:47 - 31:13] Leadership Development: Understanding Your Natural Talents
[31:14 - 37:04] Women in Leadership: Finding & Amplifying Your Voice
[37:04 - 44:29] Executive Coaching: Developing Africa's Next Generation
[44:29 - 51:01] Nurturing Young Talent & Her Daughter in Iwaju - The Disney Movie
[51:02 - 56:04] Writing for Teenagers: Unleasing Your Superpower Book Series
[56:04 - 01:11:47] African Women in Business: Building an Authentic Brand
Lightning Round
🔗 Connect with Foluso Gbadamosi:
Website | LinkedIn | Instagram
Her Books: Unleash Your SuperPowers, Unleash Your Superpowers for Teens & Companion Guide Available on Roving Heights (Nigeria) and on Amazon (Worldwide)
🔗 Connect With Lola on:
Instagram | LinkedIn
Follow the Kádàrá Woman podcast:
Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
Join the Kádàrá Woman Community - Newsletter
About The Podcast
The Kádàrá Woman Podcast is dedicated to amplifying the often-overlooked impact-driven stories of remarkable African women (and women of the diaspora) who pivoted into their purpose and became barrier breakers, status quo challengers and change makers around the world. This podcast spotlights the journeys of purpose-driven African women who are reshaping their lives through intentional living and powerful mindset shifts.
While we spotlight African women's experiences, our stories resonate deeply with a global audience of ambitious, forward-thinking women seeking inspiration and practical insights.
Hosted by Lola Soyebo Harris, this inspiring series explores how impact-driven African women navigate self-doubt, embrace service, and master their purpose while making pivotal decisions in their careers and personal lives. This podcast is an essential resource for those interested in personal development, mindset transformation, African women's empowerment, and purpose-driven living.
This podcast is a production of Kadara Media LLC. All rights reserved.
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