Whether we are going through changes in life or not, it's always good to have someone to talk to, to sound out all thoughts, to have someone hold up a mirror so that we can see what we can't see but need to see and to hear what we need to hear but can't hear.

There are many mentors out there. Many of us will check on their experiences, qualifications or reputations when choosing one.

However, there is one important element which most people don't pay attention to when choosing a mentor and this one element plays a crucial part in the success of it all.