This Valentine’s season invites Christian men to reflect on how we love the women God has placed in our lives. Love is more than gifts — it’s intentionality, sacrifice, communication, and spiritual leadership.

In this episode, King Tee, King Gbenuski, King Daniel, and King Bemi explore what it means to Love Your Queen Right, offering wisdom for marriage, courtship, and godly relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Love Languages

04:42 The Journey of Meeting a Partner

09:26 Sacrificial Love in Relationships

14:22 The Role of Selflessness in Love

18:37 The Importance of God in Love

23:16 The Fruit of the Spirit in Relationships

24:38 The Essence of Love and Relationships

25:07 Growing in Faith and Love

26:06 The Importance of Intentionality in Relationships

28:18 Gifts and Acts of Kindness

29:14 Navigating Expectations in Relationships

31:18 Understanding Men's Challenges in Love

32:04 The Role of Discipleship in Love

33:49 God's Perspective on Love

35:39 The Impact of Healthy Role Models

36:38 Overcoming Past Wounds and Identity Issues

39:38 Final Thoughts on Love and Relationships

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Let’s start by saying thank you very much for watching this video, for subscribing, liking our videos, and sharing them with family. We started this vision in February 2025 to equip young men to be truly kings and priests of our God and His Christ, and to represent Him in all areas of life. We believe strong men — not the world’s definition of strength, but men who are vulnerable and submitted to God and family — make a strong family, and family is the bedrock of every society. So by restoring and equipping men, we are touching families and changing the world.

Getting Right in 2026.

Our first episode in 2026 is a timeless video that will be a blessing to you this year and every new year. We’ve already received testimonies from people who have listened to it, and we are certain it will bless you too.

So why start your new year without clarity and direction? Instead, start it by Getting Right in 2026.

As mentioned in the video, we have a beautiful community of young men, and we’d love to invite you to be part of it.

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Diets for Kings | Monthly Spiritual Growth for Young Men

Growing into the fullness of your purpose requires intentional decisions shaped by revelation and wisdom. Diets for Kings is The King Man Community’s monthly teaching series created to equip young men to rise as Kings and Priests unto our God and His Christ.

Every session offers practical wisdom, spiritual insight, and kingdom-focused guidance for men who desire growth, discipline, and purpose-driven living.

📅 Monthly Meeting Time

Every first Saturday of the month — 9pm WAT

(8pm GMT / 9pm BST)

🔥 What You’ll Gain

• Spiritual clarity and direction

• Kingdom identity and mindset

• Practical steps for personal growth

• Brotherhood and accountability

• Teachings rooted in Scripture and revelation

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Takeaways

1. A lot of times, before you condemn those people.
2. The enemy has passed their beds 62 times and told them how they are not worth it.
3. The grace of God, which is impossible.
4. Men are fallible but with God it's possible for you to live above sin.
5. We don't condone, but we want to help you.
6. They are trying their best not to give up on this work of God.
7. We want to help you.
8. Gather them and say, ah, we know, you know, we understand.
9. How they are not worth it, how they are useless.
10. With God it's possible for you to live above sin.

Keywords

faith, compassion, church, redemption, grace, understanding, support, sin, community, God

Takeaways

• Young men face significant pressures in today's society.
• Achieving a balanced life is challenging but essential.
• Spiritual growth should be a priority in life.
• Balance may not mean equal energy distribution.
• Different seasons of life require different focuses.
• Intentional efforts are crucial for achieving balance.
• Creating systems can help manage various life aspects.
• Juggling responsibilities is not sustainable; prioritize wisely.
• Seeking God can lead to better balance in life.
• Understanding that not all areas can receive equal attention is key.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Life's Pressures as Young Men

02:55 The Quest for Balance in Life

08:04 Understanding Seasons of Life and Purpose

Keywords

balance, life pressures, young men, personal growth, spirituality, priorities, intentional living, seasons of life, mental health, self-care

Merry Christmas Kings. Watch this special Christmas episode. Dealing with Pressure without resulting in Escaping.

Takeaways

• Every man faces pressure, but not every man knows how to handle it.
• Escapism can take many forms, including isolation and overworking.
• Societal expectations place a heavy burden on young men.
• True rest and healing can only be found in God.
• Healthy coping mechanisms are essential for emotional well-being.
• Community and connection are vital for support and healing.
• Pride often prevents men from being vulnerable and seeking help.
• It's important to confront issues rather than escape them.
• Too much of everything is not good; moderation is key.
• Men need to be intentional about breaking free from societal pressures.

Chapters

00:00 Facing Pressure: The Reality for Men

03:26 Escapism: Understanding Our Coping Mechanisms

11:08 The Weight of Expectations: Societal Pressures on Men

19:57 The Role of Pride and Vulnerability in Escapism

23:18 NEWCHAPTER

26:00 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Escapism: Finding Balance

32:45 The Importance of Community and Connection

39:36 Finding True Rest: Spiritual and Emotional Well-being

46:17 Concluding Thoughts: Embracing Vulnerability and Seeking Help

Keywords

pressure, escapism, mental health, young men, societal expectations, vulnerability, community, healing, God, emotional well-being

Where the Boy grows, the man Heals and the King Emerges. God’s way.

Diets for Kings – First Saturday of every month at 9pmA teaching meeting; feeding the spirit, mind, and man.

👑Kings are made in the secret place… join us this Saturday

🎙 King Gbubemi

As King Priest.• We must reprioritise our lives and put as number one priority as your relationship with God (for without him we can do nothing) (cf. John 15:5)• Guide our heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life (cf. Proverbs 4:23)•Be committed to our families and our purpose by setting your affection on things above not on things on the earth (cf. Colossians 3:2)

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Diets for Kings – First Saturday of every month at 9pmA teaching meeting; feeding the spirit, mind, and man.👥

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** Every year-end brings contradictions and contemplations.** Self-audit should be constructive, not self-pitying.** God's love is everlasting and consistent.** Gratitude helps in recognizing what went well.** Focus on God's plans rather than personal failures.** Avoid comparing your life to others.** Trust in Jesus to alleviate pressures.** Purposeful living reduces feelings of inadequacy.** God's plans are for our good and future.** Entering into God's rest is essential for peace.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Year-End Pressure01:19 The Importance of Constructive Self-Audit04:00 Understanding God's Consistent Love06:37 God's Good Plans for You08:18 God Has Not Forsaken You10:35 Focus on Purpose to Overcome Pressure14:44 Trusting Jesus Amidst Life's Pressures17:28 Entering into God's Rest20:43 Final Thoughts and EncouragementKeywords

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We live in a culture that tells men they are the provider, protector, planner, and producer. But what happens when you hit burnout, when your strength runs out, or when life doesn’t go according to your plan?

This episode is a call to realign. God is the Provider. You're a steward—not the source.We'll discuss how to set priorities as a man, manage ambition without idolatry, and trust God with your needs, goals, and future.

The goal isn’t to do less, but to do first things first. To set priorities based on Kingdom order—not culture's demands.Takeaways

** Building a relationship with God is essential for daily guidance.

** Every season of life requires different priorities and wisdom.

** Presence in family life is more important than material provision.

** God provides for us, but we have a responsibility to provide for our families.

** Asking God for wisdom is crucial in navigating life's challenges.

** Partnership with God allows us to manage our responsibilities effectively.

** Balancing spirituality and family life is a common struggle.

** Understanding the pressures of modern life can help in managing stress.

** Escapism is a common response to pressure, but it can be harmful.

** Prioritizing God's presence can lead to better decision-making.

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