Transcript:
Hello, this is Pastor Don Willeman of Christ Redeemer Church. Welcome to a special-edition series of The Kingdom Perspective.
The coronavirus lockdown has created some uniquely difficult challenges, especially for parenting. How should we respond?
We should use this as a divinely mandated opportunity to grow in patience.
Now, for many of us this suggestion may feel like a cruel joke, or at least, somewhat tone deaf to the painful madness of the present moment. We are tired of being patient!
Patience is perhaps the most difficult of virtues. It takes work. Hard work. No pain; no gain. Perhaps you know the old joke you should never ask the Lord to help you grow in patience—for the only way God can answer that prayer is to allow challenging situations or people into your life and force you to bear up underneath—to wait. Indeed, the New Testament word for patience, quite literally, means “long tempered” or “long suffering”.
Nonetheless, St. Paul lists patience first in his description of what love is (1 Corinthians 13). “Love is patient. Love is kind.” Etc. Indeed, patience belongs to the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). So, we can be assured that patience is exactly what Jesus is working in us at this time.
Now, to assist you in your parenting, I’d like to direct you to some helpful resources. The book Parenting with Patience: Overcoming Anger in your Home by Chap Bettis is excellent, and for the next month it comes with free access to the videos by the same name. Go to the transcript of this podcast on our website for details and for more suggestions.
Bottom line: we grow in our patience when we feast on Jesus’s patience toward us.
Something to think about from The Kingdom Perspective.
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
~ Ephesians 6:1-4 (ESV)
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.
~ Colossians 3:20-21