It doesn’t matter your background, your start in life, your current trials or disappointments, nor the frustrations and limitations you’ve experienced – God has amazing plans for your life that He wants to make real to you this year. As well as being spiritual beings, we are physical beings, and God can give us personal dreams. This doesn’t mean God ‘approving’ our own dreams with His blessing, but it means receiving clear vision to see what God sees and recognising His dreams for our personal lives.
God wants to turn around lives where pain, limitation and struggle are the norm, and instead bring blessing, expansion, protection, freedom, and answered prayer. Perhaps today you feel that your life is marked by pain; in your marriage, your family, your health, your bank balance, your debt, your grief, or your loss. Maybe hurtful words have been spoken over you that you carry deep in your heart. Perhaps you can’t see how your life can change. But today God wants to reveal a new dream. A dream full of His blessing, healing, protection and provision, and one that frees you from the pain of the past. Looking at the prayer of Jabez, a man literally marked by and identified with pain, we see how this is possible.
#1. Bless Me ‘Oh, that you would bless me…’ (Gen. 32:24-28, Mark 10:51-52, Matt. 7:9-11, Deut. 28:12)
#2. Enlarge My Territory ‘…and enlarge my territory!’ (Isa. 54:2-3, John 10:10, Luke 16:10, Gen. 26:12, Eph. 3:20, Psalm 34:4-7)
#3. Let me know the presence and favour of God ‘Let your hand be with me…’ (Job 12:10, Neh. 9:19-20, 1 Chron. 29:12)
#4. Keep Me From Pain ‘…keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.’ (Isa. 43:18-19, 53:5, 54:4, Psalm 121:5-8)
Further Scripture: Psalm 37:4, Jer. 29:11-14, 32:27, Matt. 6:33, Gen. 18:14.
Apply The Word
Are you an honourable person in your family, finances, personal life, workplace, and relationship with God? Before we approach God with our requests, we must be people of honour. Jabez ‘was more honourable than his brothers’ and when he approached God, ‘God granted his request’. We must have this same lifestyle if we want to open the doorway to God’s blessings. (Read more about God’s command to honour in 1 Cor. 6:20, Prov. 3:9, Exo. 20:12, Rom. 13:7, 1 Sam. 2:30). If you have any area of your life which you know doesn’t bring honour to God, repent and turn away from that today so that you can approach God with clean hands.
What is your personal identity? What things from your past mark you? What negative things have you accepted that shape your decisions and future? Jabez was called pain and was marked and identified by pain, but he was not satisfied or settled with living with that curse for the rest of his life. Consider those areas that are marking your personal life or the generations before you. Think of the promises of God and the Word of God and where your identity needs to be corrected with a God-given identity of blessing. Cry out to God that He will change your nature from any negative thing and instead give you His blessings.
Are you faithful with what God has placed in your hands? Do you bring the confidence of your obedience when you approach God with your requests? Jesus promises that those who are faithful in the small will be trusted with more (Luke 16:10). In every area of your life, look at what God has already given you and what you are doing with that gift. Choose today to be excellent in all of the things God has put in your hand, no matter how seemingly small they may be. While doing so, ask God to favour you as you prove yourself a faithful steward in each season.
How clear are your dreams for 2020? Continue to write down your dreams for 2020 as we look at Spiritual, Personal, Family, Ministry, and Secular dreams.