On this episode, I discuss embracing our authentic sexuality and the damaging effects of reducing individuals to mere sexual worth. Understanding our desires and boundaries is crucial to mental well-being and self-acceptance. Delving into the psychological aspects, I highlight the detrimental impact of societal objectification on our mental health and relationships. The aim is to advocate for a society that values our complex identities beyond surface judgments.

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On this episode, I delve into the enduring impact of words within relationships, unraveling their potency through poignant narratives. I stress the significance of responsible communication, particularly during emotionally charged moments. Through personal insights, I invite reflection on how our choice of words shapes the narrative of our relationships, and how hurtful words can crumble relationships.

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On this episode, I take us through the world of active listening—an art beyond hearing, diving into the heart of understanding and connection. Delving into the fundamental principles of active listening, I explore its transformative power in relationships, emphasizing its significance in both everyday interactions and within the nuanced dynamics of the BDSM community. Join me as I unravel the layers of active listening, recognizing its pivotal role in building trust, fostering empathy, and enriching the human experience.

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On this episode, I venture into the subtle art of desire, exploring the nuanced realms of eroticism, the raw beauty of sex, and their mixture into the world of BDSM. I discuss how eroticism transcends the physical, teasing the senses and kindling connections. The difference between the sexual and the erotic. And the effect of these two on the lifestyle itself.

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On this episode, I embarked on a profound exploration of sexual health, responsibility, and the complex dynamics within lifestyle communities. I dive into the critical role of disclosure in sexual encounters, emphasizing the ethical and emotional importance of transparent communication. I discuss the controversial world of bug-chasing, seeking to understand the motivations and psychology behind this practice while highlighting the substantial public health risks it poses. Finally, I examine how differing opinions on sexual health practices can impact community dynamics and mental well-being, understanding, and responsible choices.

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On this episode, clinical psychologist Elise Loprieno and I, dive into the intricate world of emotional dysregulation (ED) and its profound impact on relationships. We explore the definition and contributing factors of ED, emphasizing its challenging dynamics within relationships and the importance of empathy, communication, and setting boundaries. We also discuss how the integration of DBT and CBT therapies can offerdifferent solutions. Lastly, we explore how teaching CBT principles can enhance emotional management and address specific relationship challenges, providing practical insights for improved emotional well-being and more harmonious connections.

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On this episode, I discuss the intriguing world of sensation-seeking personalities in BDSM. Delving into the psyche of thrill-seekers, I explore their unique desires, the psychological intricacies of risk and responsibility, and the profound emotional aftermath they navigate. I look at and try to unravel the complex interplay between erotic desire, discovery and dismissal of emotional after effects as lines become blurred between fantasy and reality for these types.

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On this episode, I discuss and explore the intriguing concept of emotional bleed. Delving into the realms of desire, risk, and intimacy, we unravel the intricate interplay between human psychology and sexual experiences. Understanding how we navigate the emotional aftermath of BDSM scenes and emphasize the pivotal role of communication and consent in ensuring safe and gratifying encounters, while mitigating our emotional health...

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On this episode, I discuss the evolving meaning of "incel" and its tendency to perpetuate harmful stereotypes when applied broadly, especially within the BDSM community. I discuss the overuse of "cultural appropriation" and the rich tapestry of shared cultural practices. Lastly, I emphasize the dangers of misinformation and labeling, underscoring the need for informed, nuanced discussions to address complex issues without resorting to hasty judgments, especially within the lifestyle.

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First, I want to issue a pause for those that may have issues with claustrophobia or any other emotionally constrained issues that may be touched based upon in this episode. On this episode, I take you through the journey of a more extreme part of our lifestyle, a burial scene. I discuss how two people wanted to explore a riskier style of play, how it began, the work that went into it, the culmination and so much more.

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