"The Kitchen Table" Presented by TPI Canada

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In this episode, Ron tells a story of love and growth, during a profound life changing realization. Gregg and Dave help Ron find the wisdom in his story. How did he arrive at certainty? What were the theological and psychological factors at play? How do we find a solid confidence in our inner voice? Important questions, especially in the afternoon of life.

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In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron accept the challenge to remember the people and stories that helped shape their lives. From family members to research leaders and influential people from business. Our virtues and values surface out of stories. Our lives hold promise because we’ve been blessed by others.

Links 

The Science of Everyday Ethics    McCombs School Of Business, University of Texas- Austin

 Justice: What the Right Thing to Do?  Harvard University – Dr. Michael Sandel
 
Reflective Questions

1.      What do I stand for? 

2.     What won’t I stand for?

3.     What has life taught me so far? What have you learnt so far?

4.     Who do I admire & Why? Specifically?

5.     Who have been influencers in your life? And why? What did they do or say?

6.     What are stories from your life that define you?  Why?

7.     Who were you? Who are you? Who will you be? 

8.     How do you want to be seen by people (who you most respect)?

9.     What is your overriding purpose or goal in life?

10.  How do you define your success?  Success is …

11.   What are my core beliefs?   I fundamentally believe… 

12.   What did I learn from “my parent” …

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In this episode, Gregg provides a philosophical framework, call it the elements of “character". Ron and Dave react and add their impressions including references from their life journeys. Learning and growing is a do-it-yourself project, dictated by our unique life experiences. But we can learn from the masters, the wisdom of the ages. Part 2 

Resources

 Cardinal Virtues

https://www.learnreligions.com/prudence-a-cardinal-virtue-542128 

It may be helpful for you to check the following link. 

https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths-via

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In this episode, Gregg lays down the premise that Philosophy is the logical next exploration in search of Wisdom. Ron and Dave react, and add. How can we make our study personal, but also of benefit to others? We have a growing platter of subjects and studies. Will we keep it simple? Not easy, and this conversation is our Part 1

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In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron brainstorm "where do we want to take the podcast next?” Philosophy, spirituality, maybe the cardinal virtues? Stoicism? Can we make the complex simple? Can we avoid creating an orthodoxy? Bottom line, “know thyself”. Better yet, “be thy self”.

 Links'

Fulton Breen- Novarete

We've mentioned Fulton in this podcast here is his link to his company  Novarete.

https://novarete.com/how-it-works/ethics-engine/

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The Fallout From Negative News Media Starts With Winning Your Attention

In this episode, Ron, Dave and Gregg comment on the many faceted “Emissions” article by NYU Professor Scott Galloway. Electronic media. Artificial Intelligence. Polarized cable news. Click-bait. Rage. We’re all in over our heads.  Is there anyway to fight this battle? Start by paying attention to what catches your attention.

Link to Article - Emissions

https://www.profgalloway.com/emissions/

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In this episode, Ron, Gregg, and Dave explore the variety of ways to sharpen our thinking and soften our empathy. Becoming a better citizen goes beyond knowing our position on issues. We must have a perspective, but add to that better skills of caring about others, listening to others, and managing our emotional life. Can we hope to discover common goals?  Not “either/or”. How about teaching ourselves how to achieve “both/and”.

What is Polarity Thinking?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuPbO4MWxNc

Polarity is an ongoing problem with two correct  answers that are interdependent.

-Shoshana Boyd Gelfand 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jqd4-eemoAw

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In this episode, Dave, Gregg, and Ron discuss our capability to effectively participate in a functioning democracy. We have good habits and bad habits. We have respectful dialogue and we have noise. One possible tool is the practice of polarity thinking. But it takes a certain maturity. Can we get there? 

 Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck  

 https://spiraldynamics.net

 Integral Life :  Introduction to Stages of Maturity – Susann Cook-Greuter & Beena Sharma 

https://integrallife.com/stages-leadership-maturity/

What is Polarity Thinking?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuPbO4MWxNc

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In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron lay out the levels and stages of Spiral Dynamics, the adult development “ladder” of Clair Graves/Don Beck. The trio then connects these levels of maturity to current political life, specifically to our sense of citizenship and civility. 

Summary of Developmental Theory- Spiral Dynamics - Eight Stages 

1.      Beige: This is the most basic level of consciousness, characterized by a focus on survival and basic needs. At this level, individuals are primarily concerned with physical safety and security, and may not have a sense of self beyond their immediate surroundings.

2.     Purple: At this level, individuals begin to develop a sense of community and belonging, and may adopt the values and beliefs of their tribe or family.

3.     Red: This level is marked by a focus on power, domination, and self-assertion. Individuals at this level may be impulsive and rebellious, and may not have a strong sense of right and wrong.

4.     Blue: At this level, individuals develop a sense of morality and order, and may adopt a more structured and hierarchical worldview. They may be more concerned with tradition and authority, and may have a strong sense of duty and loyalty.

5.     Orange: This level is characterized by a focus on innovation, achievement, and self-actualization. Individuals at this level may be more individualistic and entrepreneurial, and may be less concerned with group identity or tradition.

6.     Green: At this level, individuals may develop a more inclusive and pluralistic worldview, and may be more concerned with social justice and equality. They may be more open to new ideas and ways of thinking, and may be more accepting of diversity and difference.

7.     Yellow: This level is marked by a focus on integration and balance, and may involve a synthesis of the values and perspectives of different memes. Individuals at this level may be more flexible and adaptable, and may be able to hold multiple perspectives simultaneously.

8.     Turquoise: This is the highest level of consciousness, characterized by a sense of unity and oneness with all of creation. Individuals at this level may have a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of all things, and may be more compassionate and empathetic towards others

Populism

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRZURSFV9hk

 Pluralism

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6xXZLvuCWU

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The Wisdom Project: Maturity Gets A Framework, Part 1

In this episode, Ron, Dave, and Gregg set the stage for understanding the contemporary path for self-actualization. The trio explores adult development, establishing a foundation leading to a richer appreciation of life. They set the stage with lessons about the journey to maturity. Exploring concepts. Introducing thought leaders. Accepting the challenge to embrace the journey. First segment of a four-part series.

Some Reference
Carl Jung  https://watchwordtest.com/dynamics

Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck  

https://spiraldynamics.net

Integral Life :  Introduction to Stages of Maturity – Susann Cook-Greuter & Beena Sharma 

https://integrallife.com/stages-leadership-maturity/