The Labia Lounge

This week in The Labia Lounge we've got the second part of a larger conversation about neurodiversity and intimacy. This time Hannah and I chat about ADHD and it's a fascinating glimpse into the ways in which this effects people's lives and especially their time in the bedroom.

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In this week's eppy of The Labia Lounge pod I had a mad chat with my mate Hannah Demerise about neurodiversity and how to navigate it in the bedroom, in the world, and in friendships and social settings. Hannah gives us some incredible insights into her experience with autism and how this has effected her relationships and sex life, and gives some practical and tangible tips around how to navigate intimacy when you're neurodiverse.

Make sure you also check out our Tub Talks episode about this topic, and stay tuned for part 2 of this episode about ADHD too!

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This week in The labia Lounge I'm releasing another throw back! This episode is one of the most validating and practical episodes I've ever done, and addresses one of the most common challenges women come to me struggling with. Difficulties orgasming with their partners.

Enjoy the tangible advice and information in this one, and I'll be back with more fresh episodes before you know it!

Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!

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This juicy re-release is another of my favourite chats on The Labia Lounge.

Get ready to level up your communication and rupture/repair skills in your relationships!

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Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!

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Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/

Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings

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And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge

Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf

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Enjoy a re-release of one of my fav episodes to start the year off right!

Fresh content coming soon!

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Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!

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Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/

Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings

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Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf

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In our final installment of this 3 part series, Hannah and I discuss their experience with unwanted pregnancy, abortion, and - down the track a couple of years - a miscarriage. This is s shorter one as we'd run out of time before Hannah had to fly out but I also have an incredible episode about abortion with Madison Griffiths, the author of Tissue. So I'd highly recommend checking that out too.

This chat talks about the very different experiences and approaches Hannah had when confronted with their first unwanted pregnancy and subsequent abortion, compared to their second unwanted pregnancy that wound up miscarrying. The emotional journey and process that they've been on in between these two experiences and how they feel about it all now.

We finish with a beautiful and powerful poem that Han wrote during the first experience about the pregnancy that I feel super honoured and privileged to be allowed to share with you. So stick around till then end cos it's poignant AF!

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In this episode of The Labia Lounge Hannah and I follow on from our earlier conversation in Part 1 and chat about Hannah's journey being diagnosed with Autism and ADHD.

We jumped in the bath for a classic Tub Talks conversation where we delved into the ways Hannah has navigated this process of learning how their brain works and come to some pretty helpful realisations through researching neurodivergence. It's been a life-changing turning point for Hannah as they've discovered way to regulate and optimise their functioning while trying to have compassion and understanding for themselves in the process of operating in a world that's not designed for them.

We talk about masking, eye contact, chronic pain and disregulation in the body and nervous system, autistic burnout, the challenges and the gifts, and loads of other stuff that I can't remember right now! We'll be doing a follow up episode to cover what we didn't have time for or think of in the moment because this is a big topic and we both had many other thoughts around this pop up once we'd finished recording! So stay tuned but please enjoy this very vulnerable, frank, and fascinating chat.

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Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings

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This episode of The Labia Lounge is the first installment of a three part series that I did with my dear friend Hannah while they were visiting from Perth.

In this chat we cover different experiences we've had around things like sexual harassment on the street or in bars, strategies we recommend for handling this when it happens, strategies we DON'T recommend, and we also go on a few other side quests around neurodivergence, online chat room experiences, our teenage years, aaaand ducklings!

It's a really wonderful, funny, relatable and interesting yarn so I hope you enjoy. Please stick around for the next part too as we cover some serious ground in this series and it's all full to the brim with nuggets!

This marks the end of Season 3 of the podcast and I'll be back atchya in the new year. Have a sick time on your holibobs and catch up on past episodes that you've been meaning to check out cos once I come back in Jan it'll be back to weekly episodes and who can keep up with that?!

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This week on The Labia Lounge I got to speak with Alice Child about the orgasm gap AKA the pleasure gap. This refers to the discrepancy between the amount of pleasure and O's that men and women have during sex. The studies vary as to the exact stats but overall there's usually at least a 30% difference between the genders and, surprise surprise, men have a LOT more O's than us women.

We chat about why this discrepancy exists, whether it also effects queer relationships and intimacy, what factors contribute to it continuing to be a big issue in heterosexual sexual dynamics, how to combat it and what can be done on an individual level as well as on a larger scale.

Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!

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Check out Alice's work here: https://www.alicechild.com.au/ and get her Pillow Play games for couples for 50% off using the code LABIALOUNGE

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Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings

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In this special Tree Talks edition of The Labia Lounge pod I hit record while chatting to a mate on the c*nt couch out in naytchah! I'd gone camping and happened to have the couch in the back of my van so we popped it out under some pines and had a yarn about whatever came up and this episode is the result.

We spoke about chronic health challenges and chronic illness, parenting - both conscious and unconscious - and privilege. There're some personal stories about our experiences with our own fathers, and chronic health issues - both mental and physical - as well as some relevant and related stories that came up about people we know (all of which I have the go-ahead to share on here from the owners of said stories).

It's an informal but heartfelt chat and as this year winds to an end I hope it resonates with some of you and helps you feel seen and validated in your experiences if you've had a shitty or narcissistic parent, if you're a parent yourself, if you deal with health battles or mystery illness, or if you've had a shocker of a breakup recently too!

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Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/

Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings

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And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge

Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf

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