The Language Alchemy Podcast

By Alejandra Siroka

The language you use every day shapes your world and is your bridge to deeply connecting with yourself and others. Through the Language Alchemy Podcast, host Alejandra Siroka, a transformative communi... more

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January 14, 2026187. How to Communicate with Integrity When Others Don't
When the world feels chaotic and conversations feel risky the question becomes where to begin. Choosing integrity, clarity and care in how you communicate may be one of the most meaningful places to start.

It can be tempting to disengage or speak without much care for impact when public discourse feels fractured and emotionally charged. Alejandra Siroka invites listeners to consider why communication still shapes the quality of our relationships and how local interactions within families, workplaces and friendships remain places where integrity and care are still fully within reach.

Alejandra highlights patterns to be aware of such as shutting down to avoid conflict lashing out under pressure or staying silent to keep the peace. These responses may feel familiar yet they often pull us away from the values we want to live by. Through relatable examples she offers language that helps set boundaries without escalating tension and express disagreement while staying grounded. In this episode, you will learn to focus less on changing others and more on staying aligned with your values when conversations get uncomfortable.

At the end of the episode, Alejandra guides you through a practical exercise to support steadier conversations and reduce unnecessary drama.

Quotes
“The health of the world depends on the health of our families. And the health of our families depends on how healthy our communication is. Healthy communication gives us healthy relationships.” (00:00 | Alejandra Siroka)
“If you react by avoiding, attacking, or shutting down, then you are using what I call the language of survival.” (07:14 | Alejandra Siroka)
“You are not communicating in alignment with your values to try to change the other person. That’s not the point. You communicate with integrity because of who you are.” (12:23 | Alejandra Siroka)
“When you communicate in alignment with your values, you are being authentic. But when you communicate in alignment with your usual habits and inherited communication patterns, you are not being authentic.” (13:23 | Alejandra Siroka)
“You're not being in the present moment and you're not being authentic. True authenticity requires presence, which means pausing effort, willingness, and awareness. Authenticity means taking the space to check in with yourself and making the effort to ask yourself, what do I value in this relationship? And am I communicating in a way that reflects those values? ” (15:17| Alejandra Siroka)

Links
Group Coaching: https://www.languagealchemy.com/groupcoaching
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
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To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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27min
December 31, 2025186. Break Unhealthy Family Dynamics: How to Heal the Relationship with Your Parents, with Adult Parenting Coach Kan Yan
What happens when you stop trying to fix your parents and start rebuilding the relationship itself from the inside out?

Alejandra Siroka sits down with Kan Yan, founder of Parents Reimagined, to explore what actually helps long-standing parent–adult child dynamics shift. Rather than focusing on quick breakthroughs, they look at why awareness alone rarely changes family relationships, especially when those patterns were shaped by fear, silence, or unspoken cultural rules.

Kan shares how growing up afraid of a parent he also loved left an imprint on his nervous system, and why expecting a single emotional conversation to undo decades of conditioning often leads to disappointment. What happens when repair becomes a steady practice instead of a single moment?

The conversation also examines multicultural family dynamics and the quiet agreements many families hold around what can and cannot be talked about. Things to avoid often include staying locked in surface or action-based conversations that never touch internal experience. Alejandra and Kan invite listeners to consider how language, presence, and consistency can slowly loosen rigid roles, even with parents who never learned how to talk about feelings or relationships.

Rather than offering a promise of a perfect outcome, this episode presents a grounded way of thinking about change that includes release, reimagining, support, and experimentation. It encourages listeners to understand that healing does not mean getting the parent you once wished for, but it can include uncovering a relationship that feels more alive, more honest, and more human.

Quotes
“Our kind of solution set of reality depends on the kinds of things we can see around us.” (10:22 | Kan Yan)
“Instead of saying, hey, mom and dad, you're messed up, I went to my dad and I had a big conversation with him where I shared, actually, I'm having a hard time.” (12:48 | Kan Yan)
“What I tell people is to not expect very much from catharsis when it comes to this kind of relationship, because this relationship has been forged over decades, know, in the early decades in a daily hour by hour way.” (16:35 | Kan Yan)
“Just because you bring some awareness to the relationship doesn't mean that the other person is suddenly going to become the fantasy parent that you never had.” (32:55 | Kan Yan)
“There's a lot of stigma and shame around having some sort of unsatisfying parent relationship. We think that we should have a better relationship and so we hide it. That's a real problem because the more you can have support from outside of the family system, the more likely it is that things will change.” (37:15 | Kan Yan)

Links
Parents Reimagined: https://www.parentsreimagined.com/
Language Alchemy Group Coaching: https://www.languagealchemy.com/groupcoaching

To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
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To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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44min
December 17, 2025185. How to Respond to Passive-Aggressive Communication (Without Losing Your Mind). Passive Aggression, Part 4
Passive aggression loses its power when you learn how to meet it with clarity, steadiness and communication grounded in your own values.

This episode gets right to the question so many people carry: what do you do when someone’s indirect comment leaves you confused, tense or unsure how to respond? Alejandra talks about the inner experience behind passive aggression and why it often reflects fear, discomfort or a lack of skill rather than intentional harm. That insight becomes the entry point for a more grounded response. What if your goal isn’t to decode their tone but to stay centered in your own values? What opens up when you stop chasing reassurance and instead hold steady?

From there, Alejandra shares practical ways to keep conversations from spiraling. Remain neutral so you don’t absorb someone else’s emotional load. Name the mismatch you notice when words and tone don’t align. Set firm boundaries when the pattern continues. Acknowledge directness when it finally emerges. Each tool protects your peace and creates enough clarity for honest dialogue to become possible.

Throughout the episode, she returns to discernment. Not every moment calls for analysis or engagement. Things to avoid are overexplaining, internalizing someone else’s feelings or taking vague comments as truth. Try to be aware of what the relationship can hold and what your own capacity permits. The heart of the conversation is simple. You cannot control someone else’s communication, yet you can respond with intention and create interactions that feel more grounded, respectful and real.

Quotes
“Let's start by acknowledging that you have no control of how others communicate.You can't make someone communicate directly if they're not ready, they don't know how, or at the very least, they're not willing to express what they feel, want, need, or value.” (04:55 | Alejandra Siroka)
“We always have the discernment and the responsibility to choose how to respond when others communicate with us. And you have the power to create the conditions that make direct communication more possible.” (05:20 | Alejandra Siroka)
“You can think of passive-aggressive communication as smoke signals. The person is trying to tell you something, but they don't know how to do it directly.” (07:45 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Your job isn't to decode the message perfectly or to fix their communication. What you need to do instead is to respond in a way that's aligned with your values and to invite, but not demand, more authentic communication.” (07:54 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Passive aggression will not change overnight, but if you respect your own boundaries and you hold yourself and the other person with compassion, the boundaries can guide the other person to communicate more directly with you.” (15:54 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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23min
December 03, 2025184. Transforming Your Passive-Aggressive Communication Patterns. Passive Aggression, Part 3
Healthy boundaries are part of any healthy relationship. And passive aggression often shows up when we are not setting clear boundaries.

Passive-aggressive communication may look small on the surface, but it creates confusion, distance, and a surprising amount of emotional fatigue. In this episode, Alejandra Siroka shows why indirect comments and hidden resentment become so draining and why many people default to these habits when they fear disappointing others or being dismissed. The discussion centers on a simple but powerful idea: clarity is not harshness, and honesty is not danger.

Listeners are invited to reflect on an important question: what happens when you stop expecting others to read your mind and start trusting your voice instead? Alejandra walks through four core skills that support more direct expression, from identifying your actual needs to setting boundaries before resentment builds. She also shares a daily journaling practice that helps you notice your patterns and strengthen your ability to communicate with intention.

The heart of this episode is the reminder that passive aggression fades when self-worth grows, and every clear statement you make creates more connection, not less.

Quotes
"Going through elaborate methods to try to have people read our minds and then feeling hurt when they can't is not only exhausting, it is a form of self abandonment." (07:19 | Alejandra Siroka)
"No's are as important as yeses in our relationships." (10:21 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Passive aggression often comes from a deep belief that we are not worthy of direct communication, that if we are too direct, too clear or too much ourselves, people will reject us." (13:31 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Learning to believe that you are worthy of expressing yourself directly, that your feelings matter, that your needs are legitimate, that you don't have to manipulate, control, or manage situations or people into caring about you." (35:05 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Every time you choose direct communication over passive aggression, you are choosing to co-create and maintain thriving relationships and contributing to a more conscious world." (37:45 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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23min
November 19, 2025183. Passive Aggression's Hidden Cost: How It Erodes Trust & Blocks Intimacy. Passive Aggression Part 2
Passive aggression quietly unravels trust and closeness by hiding real emotions behind polite words.

Alejandra Siroka looks at how passive aggression shapes the emotional tone of a relationship long before anyone names the tension out loud. She explains how mismatched messages create doubt that settles into the space between people, especially when humor, silence, or polite phrases carry a hint of frustration, anger or disappointment beneath the surface. That subtle mismatch can make it hard to feel understood, even when both people care deeply about the relationship.

Instead of assuming hostility, Alejandra invites listeners to explore what those moments reveal. What if the sting you feel signals a deeper discomfort that has been pushed aside? What comes into view when you trust the signals your body picks up before your mind rationalizes them away? Alejandra offers five tools that help listeners uncover these patterns and engage with them more consciously. Things to avoid are quick blame, defensiveness, or the urge to downplay what feels off. Try to be aware of jokes that carry tension, agreements that feel forced, or silence that feels heavy. Consider how clarity, honesty, and compassion can guide the way you express what matters most.

This episode encourages a deeper understanding of passive aggression as a learned response that can shift with intention, presence, and value-based communication.

Quotes
"When you can't trust that someone means what they say, the foundation of the relationship begins to crumble. You start second guessing every interaction, looking for hidden meanings and ulterior motives, even when there are nothing but good intentions and zero hidden agendas." (04:05 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Real connection requires authenticity." (05:08 | Alejandra Siroka)
"This kind of passive aggression is a form of gaslighting." (10:25 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Trust your body's wisdom. Your body knows when something is off, even when your mind tries to rationalize it. If you feel that sting, that tightness in your stomach, that confusion after an interaction, pay attention to it. Don't dismiss it." (12:12 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Passive aggression operates beneath the surface. And if we don't work to transform this negative form of communication, it can gradually create a series of tears in the relationship that eventually can reduce relationships to threads." (11:29 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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21min
November 05, 2025182. What is Passive Aggressive Communication Recognizing Hidden Messages in Your Relationships
Passive aggression hides beneath polite words and careful smiles, creating confusion and distance in relationships that crave honesty and emotional safety.

Alejandra Siroka begins a new mini-series by inviting listeners to understand passive-aggressive communication not as cruelty or manipulation but as a protective response born from fear, powerlessness, or cultural conditioning. She reveals how indirect language—sarcasm, silence, backhanded compliments, or half-hearted agreement—often signals discomfort that feels too risky to express directly.

Rather than labeling these moments as toxic, Alejandra encourages awareness. What if the tension you feel in a conversation isn’t hostility but an attempt to stay safe? What changes when you notice the mismatch between someone’s words and their energy with curiosity instead of blame?

Through relatable examples and compassionate reflection, she helps listeners uncover the roots of passive aggression and begin seeing it as a learned pattern that can soften with understanding. This first part of the mini-series lays the foundation for a more conscious way to relate, one that replaces confusion with clarity and hidden resentment with genuine connection.

Quotes
“Passive-aggressive communication is a way of expressing something we consider uncomfortable in an indirect way." (04:15 | Alejandra Siroka)
“That's the tricky thing about passive aggression. It operates in the space between what is said and what is meant. And it leaves the person on the receiving end feeling confused, questioning their perception, and often absorbing guilt or shame that isn't theirs.” (10:00 | Alejandra Siroka)
"People who communicate with passive aggression are not bad people. They are wonderful, good, loving humans, just like you, who happen to be reacting." (10:46 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Passive aggression often emerges when someone feels they have no direct power or voice in a situation." (13:00 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Passive-aggressive communication is the indirect expression of uncomfortable feelings, opinions, experiences, wants, and needs. And we communicate that through words, tone, or behavior that don't match what we mean.” (16:15 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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19min
October 22, 2025181. How to Be There for our Loved Ones During Difficult Times
When someone we care about feels overwhelmed or emotionally stretched thin, their communication may shift — not because they intend harm, but because their inner resources are running low.

In this episode, Alejandra Siroka offers a new way to interpret those moments. Instead of taking sharp replies, distance, or inconsistency personally, try to notice them as signs of depletion rather than rejection. She introduces a powerful comparison: the care we naturally extend to a sprained ankle — patience, gentleness, slower pacing — is the same kind of awareness that can be brought to the emotional healing of others. Rather than labeling someone as too sensitive or difficult, consider what changes when you treat their tenderness as a temporary injury rather than a flaw.

Alejandra explores eight practices that may help you relate more intentionally when someone you love is struggling. These include offering acknowledgment without fixing, speaking in softer tones when possible, waiting for settled energy before approaching complex topics, and choosing language that frames others with dignity even when their actions feel challenging.

The invitation isn’t to overextend or absorb what isn’t yours, it’s to stay rooted in compassion while still honoring your own clarity. This approach may reveal that support doesn’t always come through solutions. Sometimes it’s simply presence, patience, and a willingness to see beyond the moment.

Quotes
"The same tender awareness we give to a sprained ankle is exactly what the people in our lives need when they are going through challenges or feeling heartbroken by what's happening in the world." (03:38 | Alejandra Siroka)
"When someone is under-resourced, their communication is going to be more habitual and less authentic. It's going to be less conscious and less mindful of their own impact on others." (06:12 | Alejandra Siroka)
“If you can remember that they are under-resourced, that they are operating from a place of depletion rather than fullness, you can create space for their struggle without making it about you.” (07:26 | Alejandra Siroka)
"When you don't take it personally, you free yourself to respond with compassion instead of defensiveness. You can see their habitual communication patterns for what they are, survival mechanisms, rather than attacks on you." (08:02 | Alejandra Siroka)
"We need to be each other's keepers. What does that mean? It means showing up with tenderness when someone is hurting. It means choosing compassion over impatience." (14:29 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/mailinglist
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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19min
October 08, 2025180. How to Talk About Gaza & the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict
When the world is shaken by war, violence, and human suffering, it can feel impossible to talk about it without creating more distance. Maybe you’ve stayed silent to avoid conflict. Maybe you’ve spoken up only to regret how the conversation unfolded. Or maybe you’ve felt pressure to take a side just to prove that you care.

Alejandra Siroka invites you to understand a different way forward. She shares how conversations anchored in values—compassion, humility, justice, peace, or connection—can open space rather than shut it down. Instead of falling into the trap of being “right” or “wrong,” Alejandra shows how to consider what outcome you want from a conversation and how to let that guide your words.

Through stories and real-life examples, you’ll uncover ways to respond with honesty, curiosity, and humanity in even the most charged moments. You’ll see how choosing one guiding value can reshape not only what you say, but how you show up for others.

This episode leaves you with a framework to lean on when words feel inadequate. It’s an invitation to explore how your communication, grounded in values, can help protect dignity and connection in times when the world feels divided.

Quotes
“How do we speak about something this complex and emotionally charged without losing our way? The answer lies in one of the core principles of language alchemy, which is about getting crystal clear on your values and anchoring your communication in them.” (09:00 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Before you enter any conversation about the Israel-Gaza crisis, pause and ask yourself these three questions. Number one, what value do I most want to embody in this conversation? Number two, am I speaking from my values or from a need to be right? And number three, what outcome am I hoping for? Connection or conquest?” (09:21 | Alejandra Siroka)
"When you lead with, I don't know, you're not being weak or uncommitted. You are being honest about the limitations of your perspective while staying connected to your values." (16:43 | Alejandra Siroka)
"Your willingness to communicate from your values, even when others may get caught in the reactive patterns, is not something neutral. It is a form of evolutionary activism." ( 21:36 | Alejandra Siroka)
"The world doesn't need more people taking sides. It needs more people willing to communicate from their deepest wisdom and stay connected across differences." ( 22:42 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
To leave a review on Apple Podcasts, click: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-language-alchemy-podcast/id1576461366
To leave a review on Spotify, click: https://open.spotify.com/show/5yTj9hSotq8EAjPCYg2jYw?si=aQNuoStRQomTNUKHGSD56A&nd=1&dlsi=064dcb42ba8d4706
To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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27min
September 24, 2025179. Back to School 3 Questions Every Parent Needs
The back-to-school season doesn’t just shift kids’ routines, it changes the rhythm of the whole family.

Alejandra Siroka invites parents and co-parents to pause and notice how these transitions impact their partnerships. She shares three simple yet powerful questions that help partners move from silent frustration to mutual support, turning hectic weeks into opportunities for connection.

Alejandra also explores the importance of grounding family logistics in shared values, checking in regularly, and practicing daily gratitude. Whether you’re in a couple or parenting solo, this episode offers ways to uncover hidden stress points, consider what support really looks like, and create a smoother transition for everyone at home.

Quotes
“When we name what’s happening and we create the space to talk about it together, we can transform a potentially chaotic transition into a meaningful passage that can bring you and your partner or co-parent together.” (03:20 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Before you and your partner get deep into logistics, this conversation needs to start with your values.” (04:11 | Alejandra Siroka)
“What’s key here is that you show yourself that you are not alone. Because most likely, there is someone who would really enjoy supporting you and feeling heard by you.” (14:42 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Conscious communication doesn’t mean you’ll have to have perfect conversations or that every transition will go smoothly. It means you are choosing to engage with intention rather than with reaction. It means you are building connection even in the midst of change.” (15:24 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Every conversation you have, whether it’s checking in with your partner about their needs for the week or expressing gratitude for how they’re supporting the family is an act of evolutionary activism because you’re modeling to your children how to navigate transitions in a meaningful and connecting way.” (16:13 | Alejandra Siroka)

Links
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To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
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September 10, 2025178. Back-to-School Talk: Helping Kids Navigate Transitions
Back-to-school season often comes with shopping lists, new schedules, and endless logistics, but how often do we stop to think about what this transition feels like for our children?

In this episode, Alejandra Siroka invites parents to use conscious communication to guide kids through the mix of excitement, nervousness, and even sadness that often accompanies change. She explains how small, everyday conversations, whether during a car ride, over dinner, or in a quiet moment before bed, can create space for kids to feel safe and understood. Each school year brings new dynamics and emotions, even when everything else seems familiar. How do we recognize these subtle shifts and turn them into opportunities for connection? Alejandra shows how embracing transition as transformation can help families build resilience and deeper bonds that last well beyond the classroom.

Quotes
“Every transition matters because every transition brings changes. And every change can serve as an opportunity for growth, connection, and transformation, especially when we give them our full attention through skillful communication.” (04:58 | Alejandra Siroka)
“When you validate your children’s feelings and help them see that emotions are temporary, you are teaching them emotional intelligence and resilience that will serve them throughout their lives.” (09:17 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Your role is to be present, to listen, to be their source for safety and connection, and also to help them understand that whatever they’re feeling, that experience and that feeling is valid and temporary.” (11:17 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Every conversation you have, whether it’s validating your child’s nervousness about a new teacher or simply acknowledging that transitions can feel overwhelming, is an act of evolutionary activism because you’re modeling a new way of being in relationship.” (12:50 | Alejandra Siroka)
“Transition is transformation in disguise. When we meet it with conscious communication, we don’t just survive the change. We help our children thrive through it.” (13:27 | Alejandra Siroka)

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To work with Alejandra, visit: www.languagealchemy.com/workwithme
To join the Language Alchemy mailing list, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com
To ask questions you'd like Alejandra to answer in the podcast, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/podcastquestion
To find out about 1:1 transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/oneonone
To find out about couple transformative communication coaching with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/couples
To schedule a reduced-rate coaching consultation with Alejandra, visit: https://www.languagealchemy.com/newclient
To follow Alejandra on instagram follow @languagealchemy
Podcast Music composed by Gary Lapow: open.spotify.com/artist/1HlMhcNfKIELxYil5mVqD

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