In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I’m switching things up.

We’re not talking about sex, G-spots, butt stuff, or relationships today.

We’re talking business — and I have a bone to pick with brands.

After nearly 20 years in my industry, building a community across 11 social accounts and reaching millions of followers, I still get overlooked for brand partnerships because the content I create is considered too uncomfortable, too honest, or too “risky.”

And I know I’m not the only one.

Creators talking openly about intimacy, mental health, addiction and recovery, divorce, grief, chronic illness, body image, LGBTQ+ experiences, and other real-life topics are building some of the most deeply connected communities online — yet brands continue choosing the safer, perfectly curated alternative.

I think they’re making a huge mistake.

💋 Why brands keep choosing “safe” influencers

💋 The difference between reach and actual trust

💋 Why a smaller, deeply engaged audience can be more valuable than millions of passive followers

💋 Why uncomfortable content doesn’t automatically mean brand risk

💋 The creators brands continue to overlook

💋 Why vulnerable creators can build incredibly loyal communities

💋 What brands should actually be looking at beyond follower count

💋 Why DMs and community conversations can tell you more than surface-level engagement

💋 How creators can pitch their trust, not just their numbers

💋 Why playing it safe could actually be costing brands money

💋 What I’ve learned from selling products to an audience that genuinely trusts my recommendations

I also share a real example from my own business: how a completely new product became one of the top sellers on my established website in less than a month — not because my audience could smell it through their phones or because it fit some perfectly curated influencer aesthetic, but because they trusted my recommendation.

That’s the part of influencer marketing I think brands are missing.

To every creator who has been told you’re too honest, too controversial, too uncomfortable, too complicated, or just too much:

Keep building.

The trust you’re earning cannot be manufactured.

And to the brands?

The creators you keep overlooking might be exactly the creators who could grow your business.

That’s the law.

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The Law of Cassidy — intimacy, business, power, healing, and the conversations most people are too uncomfortable to have.

Let’s talk about something way too many couples are doing wrong: oral intimacy.

The orgasm gap is real, and in this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons women struggle to finish during partnered sex — we’re rushing, skipping the warm-up, ignoring anatomy, and treating female pleasure like an appetizer instead of the main course.

This is the oral intimacy guide I wish everyone got before they started having sex.

And yes, men, I need you to take notes.

💋 Female anatomy 101 — including where the clitoris actually is and how it works
💋 Why going straight for the most sensitive spot can actually feel terrible
💋 The biggest oral intimacy mistakes people make
💋 Why slowing down can completely change her experience
💋 How to use rhythm, pressure, breath, hands, and anticipation
💋 Why “DON’T STOP” actually means do not change what you're doing
💋 How to tell when something is working without having to ask
💋 Why women get stuck in their heads during intimacy
💋 How to make her feel safe enough to actually let go
💋 Why making her feel like she’s “taking too long” can ruin everything
💋 How women can communicate what they actually want without bruising their partner’s ego
💋 Why faking it is making your sex life worse
💋 How couples can close the orgasm gap together

I’m also answering your Confessions from the DMs, including what to do when you can’t get out of your head while receiving, how to ask your partner for more oral intimacy, and what happens when your partner makes it obvious they don’t enjoy giving it.

Because her pleasure isn’t a performance.

It’s the point.

Send this episode to your partner, listen together, and then actually have the conversation.

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This is The Law of Cassidy — intimacy, business, power, healing, and the conversations most people are too uncomfortable to have.

We’re talking butt stuff — and yes, we’re answering the questions you’ve probably been way too afraid to ask out loud.

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical and Future Method and author of Butt Seriously, to break down the anatomy, health, preparation, pleasure, and misconceptions surrounding anal play. 

We’re getting into everything from hemorrhoids and pelvic floor muscles to preparation, lubrication, dilators, prostate stimulation, STI testing, and even Botox… yes, Botox for your butt is apparently a thing.

💋 Why butt stuff shouldn’t automatically hurt
💋 What actually happens to your pelvic floor during penetration
💋 How beginners should prepare and work their way up
💋 Why lubrication and relaxation matter so much
💋 Hemorrhoids, skin tags, fissures, and when something needs to be checked
💋 How much cleaning is actually necessary
💋 The biggest douching mistakes people make
💋 Prostate pleasure and why enjoying it has nothing to do with sexual orientation
💋 Why your gut health can affect what happens in the bedroom
💋 STI testing, HPV, and preventative sexual health
💋 What anal Botox is and why some patients use it
💋 The mistakes that can turn one bad experience into “I’m NEVER doing that again”

Whether you’re already experienced, completely curious, or had one terrible experience and decided butt stuff wasn’t for you, this episode is about understanding your body and learning how to approach it with education, communication, patience, and zero shame.

Because if we’re going to do butt stuff, we might as well know what the hell we’re doing.

Follow Cassidy:
💋 Instagram: @its_cassidybybee
💋 TikTok: @Thatintimacychick
💋 Shop & Resources: cassidybybee.com

Follow Dr. Evan Goldstein:
💋 Instagram: @drevangoldstein
💋 Founder of Bespoke Surgical & Future Method
💋 Author of Butt Seriously

This episode is for educational and entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

If you’re over 35 and suddenly wondering, “What the hell is happening to me?” — this episode is for you.

My best friend Haileigh Mason is back, and we’re diving headfirst into what we lovingly call “cougar puberty” — aka perimenopause.

We’re talking about the symptoms women experience every single day but are too often told are simply part of “getting older.” The anxiety. The brain fog. The body changes. Waking up in the middle of the night. Feeling exhausted. Losing your sex drive. Vaginal dryness. Feeling irritated by literally EVERYTHING your husband does. And maybe the hardest part of all — feeling like you don’t recognize yourself anymore.

Haileigh breaks down what may actually be happening with estrogen and progesterone throughout perimenopause and why your hormones can feel like an absolute roller coaster.

We get into:

💋 When perimenopause can actually begin

💋 Progesterone vs. estrogen and why both matter

💋 Anxiety, brain fog and suddenly feeling mentally “off”

💋 Why you may start waking up at 2 or 3 AM

💋 Body composition and weight changes

💋 What can happen to your sex drive during perimenopause

💋 Vaginal dryness, painful sex and changes in sensitivity

💋 Why communication with your partner matters more than ever

💋 Hormone testing and why Haley looks at symptoms alongside labs

💋 Estrogen cream and vaginal health

💋 Heart palpitations and when you should still talk to your doctor

💋 Hormones, birth control and antidepressants

💋 Hydration, strength training, stretching and taking care of your body

💋 Why perimenopause does NOT have to become your new identity

And yes… we also discuss why your husband chewing too loudly may suddenly feel like a personal attack.

If you’ve been saying, “I just don’t feel like myself anymore,” I hope this conversation gives you questions to bring to a qualified healthcare professional and helps you feel more informed about what may be happening in your body.

Send this episode to the women in your life — and honestly, send it to the men too. They need the perimenopause survival guide just as much as we do.

Follow Cassidy:

💋 Instagram: @its_cassidybybee
💋 TikTok: @Thatintimacychick
💋 Shop & Resources: cassidybybee.com

Connect with Haley Mason:

💋 Mason Aesthetics & Wellness
💋 West Haven, Utah
💋 Hormone & wellness care, including telehealth options

This episode is for educational and entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Can a long-distance relationship actually work?

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm joined by creator, podcaster, fitness coach, and all-around powerhouse Tatum Zoe for an honest conversation about dating, healthy relationships, fitness, confidence, social media, and building a life that actually feels good.

We dive into what it's really like maintaining a long-distance relationship, why self-respect is the biggest green flag, how fitness transformed her confidence, and why showing up authentically online matters more than ever.

If you've ever questioned whether distance, timing, or personal growth can coexist with love... this episode is for you.

In this episode we discuss:

💋 How to make a long-distance relationship actually work

💋 The biggest dating mistakes women keep making

💋 Why healthy relationships feel different

💋 Morning routines that set you up for success

💋 How fitness changed her confidence forever

💋 Why authenticity wins on social media

💋 Friendship breakups and personal growth

💋 Creating content in the intimacy space

💋 Learning to slow down after years of survival mode

💋 Building a life you're actually excited to live

Whether you're dating, healing, building your career, or simply trying to become the best version of yourself, this conversation is packed with relatable stories, laughs, and real advice.

Follow Tatum:
Instagram: @tatumzoeee
Podcast: Girl Stop Talking

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💋 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thatintimacychick

💋 Shop & Resources: https://www.cassidybybee.com

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Healing isn't pretty.

It doesn't happen overnight.
It isn't linear.
And it definitely isn't made up of inspirational quotes alone.

In this deeply personal solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm opening up about one of the hardest seasons of my life—friendship breakups, betrayal, grief, and the healing process that completely changed my perspective.

I share the lessons I've learned in therapy, the powerful realization that came from an Oracle session, and why I now believe some of the most painful endings are actually divine redirections.

If you've ever felt blindsided by people you trusted, struggled to let go, or wondered why certain relationships had to end, this episode is for you.

In this episode we talk about:

💋 How to heal without becoming bitter

💋 Why not feeling like yourself can actually be a sign of growth

💋 Letting go of revenge and choosing peace

💋 Friendship breakups and betrayal

💋 Why some people are only meant for a season

💋 What "divine redirection" taught me

💋 Healing childhood wounds that still affect adult relationships

💋 Why protecting your heart doesn't mean closing it

💋 The hardest lessons I've learned this year

💋 How to move forward when your life feels like it's falling apart

If you're in a broken season right now, I hope this reminds you that you aren't broken...

You're becoming.

Welcome back, vain ones. 💋

After nearly 20 years in the intimacy and wellness space, I've been asked this question more times than I can count...

Can every woman squirt?

In this episode, I'm breaking down the science, the myths, and the practical techniques behind squirting—without shame, unrealistic expectations, or misinformation. Whether you're simply curious, trying to understand your own body, or looking to improve intimacy with your partner, this episode is for you.

We cover what squirting actually is, why it happens, why it doesn't happen for everyone, and how to create the right environment without turning it into a performance.

In this episode I cover:

💋 What squirting actually is (and what it isn't)

💋 Is squirting pee? The science finally explained

💋 The difference between squirting and female ejaculation

💋 Can every woman squirt?

💋 Why porn has created unrealistic expectations

💋 Step-by-step techniques that actually help

💋 The biggest mistakes couples make

💋 How to remove pressure and enjoy the experience

💋 G-spot stimulation, clitoral stimulation, and why both matter

💋 Real listener questions from Confessions in the DMs

Most importantly, I want you to know this:

If you've never squirted, you're not broken.

Pleasure isn't measured by one specific experience. Your body isn't failing you, and intimacy should never become a performance.

If this episode helped you, share it with your partner or send it to someone who's always wondered but was too embarrassed to ask.

Subscribe for more conversations about intimacy, relationships, confidence, and everything people are usually too uncomfortable to talk about.

Opps...I mean 8...

Some trends deserve the hype.

Others deserve to disappear forever.

In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm sharing my completely unfiltered opinions on the biggest trends taking over 2026—from business scams and parenting culture to relationships, social media, coaching, and everything in between.

You probably won't agree with all of them... and that's okay.

💋 Why selling courses about selling courses feels like a scam

💋 My thoughts on using kids for content

💋 Why I think Snapchat should've stayed in 2013

💋 The truth behind couples who say "we never fight"

💋 The pressure of the perfectly curated Utah aesthetic

💋 Why experience matters more than fancy credentials

💋 My honest review of viral protein foods

💋 Dirty sodas, McDonald's, and my controversial opinion

💋 Confessions from the DMs

💋 My favorite intimacy products that actually work

This episode is funny, spicy, opinionated, and probably going to make at least a few people mad... but if you've been here for a while, you already know that's kind of the point.

Welcome back, vain ones. 💋

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Instagram: @thelawofcassidy , @its_cassidybybee
TikTok: @itscassidybybee
Shop: https://www.cassidybybee.com

Everyone tells you to "be yourself."

Nobody tells you how.

In this solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm sharing the mindset shifts that completely changed my life and helped me stop living for other people's approval.

This isn't about becoming louder.

It's about becoming freer.

I talk about why authenticity costs you relationships, why so many people stay trapped in performance mode, and the exact steps I've taken to become the same person on camera, online, and in real life.

If you've ever felt like you're editing yourself just to make other people comfortable, this episode is for you.

💋 Why people judge authenticity
💋 The hidden cost of performing for everyone else
💋 How to stop caring what people think
💋 Why being misunderstood is part of growth
💋 The biggest reason people lose themselves
💋 How to build confidence by telling the truth
💋 The conversations you've been avoiding
💋 Why authenticity often costs friendships
💋 The mindset that helped me find peace
💋 Practical ways to become unapologetically yourself

This is one of my most personal solo episodes because everything I share is something I've had to learn the hard way.

If you've ever felt misunderstood, overwhelmed by other people's expectations, or afraid to fully be yourself, I hope this episode reminds you that the people meant for you will always find the real version of you.

Welcome back, vain ones. 💋

Thinking about Botox or filler but don't know where to start?

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm joined by master injector Sarah Olsen from Mason Aesthetics & Wellness to answer every question you've ever had about injectables, aging, skin health, and how to enhance your natural beauty without looking overdone.

We break down the biggest myths about Botox and filler, why so many people end up with unnatural results, and what a great injector actually looks for before recommending treatment.

💋 Botox vs. filler—what's the difference?
💋 What Sculptra is and why everyone is talking about it
💋 The biggest mistakes people make with injectables
💋 When you should start preventative Botox
💋 How GLP-1 weight loss medications can affect your face
💋 Why cheaper isn't always better
💋 The treatments that give the biggest results
💋 How to age gracefully while still looking like YOU
💋 What every first-time Botox patient should know
💋 Sarah's best skincare and anti-aging advice

If you've been curious about Botox, filler, Sculptra, skin treatments, or simply want to look refreshed instead of overdone, this episode is packed with practical advice from someone who does this every single day.

Welcome back, vain ones. 💋