Most people are still playing by the old rules — show up, do good work, stay loyal, and you'll be taken care of.
The problem? The social contract changed, and nobody told you. Fear-based leadership is no longer the exception — it's becoming the default, and the people it targets usually don't see it coming until it's too late.
In this episode of The Leader's Mindset, Jason LeDuc welcomes back Kate Lowry — CEO coach and plaintiff advisor, and a veteran of VC, startup founding, McKinsey, and Meta — to break down the "predator playbook": the systematic tactics powerful players use to take advantage of founders, employees, and anyone with less leverage. Kate works with mission-driven and underrepresented founders, and from her bird's-eye view across dozens of startups and plaintiffs, she sees the patterns most of us experience alone.
This isn't a doom conversation. It's a field guide — how to spot the red flags, how to protect yourself before you act, and why becoming a protector for others might be the most important leadership move you make.
💡 Who should watch this episode
- Founders raising capital who need to read a term sheet — and the people behind it
- Employees who feel the ground shifting under them at work
- Leaders and investors who want win-win relationships, not extraction
- Anyone weighing whether to speak up, push back, or blow the whistle
🤔 What you will learn:
- Why "fear-based leaders are now the norm, not the exception" — and the economic pressure driving it
- The predator playbook: unequal deal terms, stiffing, empty promises, hostile board structures, and "creeping" takeovers
- How predatory governance differs from a board that actually supports the founder
- "Defense against the dark arts" — connection webs, reference poisoning, and impossible milestones to watch for
- What to do BEFORE you report or quit: secure the new job, your security, your reputation, and your team
- Why the labor social contract has quietly changed — and the cost of operating as if it hasn't
🔑 Practical ideas you can use this week
1) Do real diligence on the people across the table: talk to five founders in an investor's portfolio who did NOT IPO, and ask what their experience was actually like.
2) Treat any deal — investment, job, board seat — like governance: ask who controls the votes, what the thesis is, and how value gets extracted.
3) Before you act on something you've witnessed, build your team first (legal, security, PR, trusted people) — don't move impulsively against someone using strategy against you.
4) End each day with three questions: What was the best part? What was the hardest? What do I need for tomorrow? — and ask, "Did I like who I was today?"
💬 Question for you:
Where have you felt the "rules of the game" quietly change — at work, in a deal, or in your community — and what did you do about it?
Onward and Upward! 🚀
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Website: https://www.scaleheart.co/
Substack: https://katelowry.substack.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinejlowry/
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