What happens to your professional identity when your career starts moving in a different direction?
In this episode of The Leadership Shift, I reflect on my own transition from more than two decades in technology into building a coaching and consultancy business, and why changing direction hasn't meant leaving my previous professional identity behind.
I also explore something much more personal: my lifelong difficulty with exams. There have been times when I've known the subject and had years of practical experience, but struggled to demonstrate that knowledge in an exam environment. Understanding my neurodivergence has helped me reconsider what those experiences actually told me about my ability.
Drawing on some of my earlier training in Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), I look at the beliefs we can attach to results, rejection and career setbacks, while recognising that individual thinking isn't the whole picture. Assessment methods, workplaces and other systems can create genuine barriers too.
I also share some lovely news: I've been named a finalist in the Voice at the Table Inclusion Leadership Awards 2026, in the Inclusive Leadership Impact category. It has prompted me to think about external recognition from another direction and how much authority we give awards, qualifications, job titles and other people's decisions over the way we see ourselves professionally.
This episode is about allowing our careers to evolve without treating every result, transition or setback as a verdict on everything we've done before.
References and further reading
David, D. (2015). Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). Wiley Encyclopedia of Clinical Psychology.
Gullifor, D. P. et al. (2024). The impostor phenomenon at work: A systematic evidence-based review, conceptual development, and agenda for future research. Journal of Organizational Behavior.
Ibarra, H., Wittman, S. & Smith, K. (2026). Career Transition and Professional Identity: Dynamic Processes, Multiple Selves, and Nonlinear Trajectories. Annual Review of Organizational Psychology and Organizational Behavior, 13, 137–163.
Nieminen, J. H., Moriña, A. & Biagiotti, G. (2024). Assessment as a matter of inclusion: A meta-ethnographic review of the assessment experiences of students with disabilities in higher education. Educational Research Review, 42, 100582.
National Autistic Society. Making exams accessible for autistic students.
https://www.autism.org.uk/learn/knowledge-hub/professional-practice/accessible-exams
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