As my children have grown, I have tried to be intentional with each phase that they pass through. Challenging them to stretch and grow, learn new things, and to accept responsibility. The season of the teen years is one that intimidated me. Will my children still love God? Will they love their dad and me? Will the journey to independence be filled with trials? I know that God holds all these things in His hands and I can only do what He has called me to do- love my children, show them grace, model Christian living, train them to do difficult things, and then let them go into His hands. Years ago, we watched some wise mentors walk their children from childhood to adulthood in a very intentional manner. There was no expectation of rebelling. No abandoning the young adults just as they needed their parents' guidance. It was done in a manner than tied their children's hearts to theirs while simultaneously letting them move into independent and responsible adulthood. In order to help our boys along this journey, we gave them each Twelve Challenges on their twelfth birthday. They were each expected to complete these before their thirteenth birthdays at which time they received additional privileges to launch them on a young man's journey to adulthood. Listen in for ideas and inspiration!
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