I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move through the world. Our relationships hold culture, understanding, and a kind of recognition that can be hard to find anywhere else. I also invited a few of my friends to weigh in with voice notes about what queer friendship means to them and it's probably my favorite thing I've ever made, tbh. 

This week's question is "How have queer friendships impacted or changed you" and you can send your voice note here.

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Is "I like blondes" a sexual orientation or a bro hierarchy? Why does straight people talking about their types feel like what I was doing when I was experiencing comp-het? And what I'm actually into in my 40s. 

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Erin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the difference?), lesbian bed death, what "counts" as sex and more!

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This episode is a bunch of affirmations I needed when I was "coming out" after divorcing a man. About indoctrination, sex, identity, imposter syndrome, and other people's opinions. The first 8 minutes is a brief synopsis of my life leading up to divorce, you might skip if you're already familiar with that context. xo

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Sydney and I talk about intergenerational queer friendships (she's in her 20s, I'm in my 40's, we're in community together) and share our generation-specific lore with one another. She tells me about youtubers and Victorious and I'm talking Sam on Who's The Boss and Queen Latifah. Enjoy.

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We talk about intersections of identity in the queer community online and off, the geographical differences in our cluster culture, but also fisting and an awesome movie they made. 

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We talk about our experiences identifying as bi while everyone else seemed to already know we were lesbians. Our individual experiences with burlesque. The politics of being "mean" on and off stage. The importance of creating spaces specifically for Black performers and a lot about shaking @ss. 

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We talk about our experiences identifying as bi while everyone else seemed to already know we were lesbians. Our individual experiences with burlesque. The politics of being "mean" on and off stage. The importance of creating spaces specifically for Black performers and a lot about shaking @ss. 

You can find Rosè here.

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In this solo episode Erin answers listener questions about identity, relationships and her experience. Other topics include: the new series "Members Only," the importance of d/ke spaces and straight women representation in queer community. 

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Jill Louise Busby is the author of Unfollow me: Essays on Complicity. We talk about the experience of "microfame," reality television, being a new mother and lesbian bed death. 

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