Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever…

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This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with Anania, but today she’s in the apartment to get behind YOU with a strap! We discuss starting threesomes with strangers at pride, initiating it inside a crowded Thai restaurant, changing relationship habits, starting Mutuals Media, and the trauma caused by Tumblr and AskFM. How gay were Ashley’s parents?! Did Lizzy get discriminated against for getting gay married?!

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This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of the greatest TV shows of our current time, but now she’s on the couch to show something NASTIER on screen! We discuss having an open relationship dynamic with your boyfriend, using your arrangement to flash strangers on the internet, butt play, pansexuality, and sexting people with gusto. Ashley asks Jen for permission to MILF. Lizzy gets gay married. 

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This episode is surviving a crazy childhood, listener! Hannah Beck is a hilarious queer Chicago-based comedian and podcaster that’s performing at the biggest venues across the city, but today she’s in the apartment to escape the biggest CULTS in America. We discuss growing up in a crazy cult, escaping it through your gay bestie, the best ways to flirt as a lesbian, how to tell if you’re on a date, and how dating men is a recession indicator. Against all odds — Ashley’s Brazilian MILF arc continues… and it gets GILFy. Lizzy can definitely tell when it’s not a date.

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Get tickets to Maddie’s LIVE special taping on 9/20 in NYC! It will be the funniest thing you’ve ever seen, and the entire WHGS crew will be there:

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This episode is a year too late, listener! Maddie Wiener is a stand-up comedian, staff writer at Saturday Night Live, and the FORMER co-host of WHGS, but today she’s in the apartment to give Bottom Nation some closure (and maybe some head). We discuss what Maddie has been up to, getting heart surgery, gender identity, its links to neurodivergence, sexism inside and out of relationships, and whether or not Heated Rivalry made you trans or horny. Ashley got socialized poorly. Lizzy treats her new strain of bi-polar disorder.

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This episode is going on some kinky vacations, listener! Eliot Glazer is a delightful comedian, writer, actor, and the mind behind some of your favorite TV shows ever made, but today he’s in the apartment to get behind some handsome fellas — if you catch our drift! We discuss the phenomenon of big gay vacations, going to secret cove orgies on pacific islands, short-term flings while you are traveling, and which has a larger cultural impact: Shrek… or 9/11? Ashley encounters her childhood bully once more. Lizzy goes to a FLINTA sex party. 

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This episode is doin’ group stuff, listener! It’s a WHGS first as we shove FIVE whole guests onto the pod — Hilarious non-binary comedian & JFL New Face Freddie Shanel, their super talented girlfriend & musician Camille Schmidt, Ashley’s beloved GF Jen Davis, and comedian Sam Morrison (but he’s only allowed to watch). We discuss getting clocked as non-binary before you even knew it yourself, gender presentation, body image, having identical GFs, and car crashes giving you amazing skin. Ashley needs her tatas treated right. Sam takes a BIG one.

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This episode is in the TWILIGHT ZONE, listener! Kevin Atwater is an incredible queer musician who has garnered millions of listens across TikTok and Spotify with his honest songwriting, but today he’s in the apartment to honestly tell us one of the freakiest stories we’ve heard… We discuss otherworldly hookups in haunted houses filled with stuffed animals, writing queer music, getting started as a fan editor, and GHB patches getting you through it all. Ashley heals past trauma with love. Ali is going crazy.

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This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes in-depth on being open. Neil goes gay on the road.

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Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin!

This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon delight! We discuss making love in the middle of the day, energy vs. physical appearance, self-image when flirting, and going for the throat in a chicken fight. Ashley argues with homophobic gamers. Lizzy likes ‘em THICK.

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