This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers that we will NOT edit out of the pod. Ashley and Jen’s parents finally meet for the first time. Lizzy spreads vicious gay rumors about her uncle.

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Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments!

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This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley almost gets arrested. Lizzy lives in the queer underground.

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This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt with gorgeous gay women, and wanting nothing more than to be so good in bed that you ruin lives. Ashley tries sexting her GF. Breanne gets “whiskey strap.” 

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This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy doesn’t come out to her family.

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This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the powerful will-they-won’t-they of lesbian relationships. Enjoy, and thanks for all of your support through 300 EPISODES OF WHGS!!!

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This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the internet, coming out as queer when young, and playing with ALL the pronouns in your gender presentation. Ashley fights to stay in the closet. Kylie hypes herself up with queer pop. 

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This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an administration hostile to queer people, and the various problems within the queer community that are holding us back. Ashley dates an actor. Bre is a voyeur in hotels. 

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This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet.  

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This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk about cruises. 

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