If you’ve ever had the thought, “I don’t want to keep doing this anymore”- but weren’t quite sure what doing things differently would actually look like- this conversation is for you.
In this episode, I’m joined by one of my incredible clients, confidence and mindset coach, Allison Meyer, for a conversation about people pleasing, perfectionism, self-trust, and what happens when you reach a point in your life where you realize you’re ready to stop living according to everyone else’s expectations.
Because for so many high-achieving women, life can look really good on the outside.
You’re successful. You’re capable. You take care of your family. You show up for your work or business. You’re the person everyone can count on.
But somewhere along the way, you may realize you’ve become so good at anticipating what everyone else needs that you’re not even sure what you want anymore.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why people pleasing can make it difficult to even know what you want
- How perfectionism can keep you from doing things you’re completely capable of doing
- Why the qualities you’ve been praised for might also be the ones exhausting you
- The connection between confidence and keeping small promises to yourself
- How to stop taking responsibility for other people’s emotions
- Why changing a behavior isn’t always enough when the pattern is deeply ingrained
- How self-trust helps you move forward even when you’ve never done something before
- What it looks like to reconnect with the version of you that existed before everyone else’s expectations got so loud
- How small identity shifts can create massive changes in your relationships, career, business, and everyday life
If you’re in a season where you’re questioning old patterns, craving more confidence, or realizing you’re ready to stop living your life according to what everyone else needs from you, you’re going to LOVE this episode.
Connect with Allison
Listen to the Courageously Confident Podcast
Allison’s website
Check out the Spark Circle
Join Allison’s private Facebook Group
Resources & Links:
➡️ Book your free Good Girl Unleashed Expansion Call
➡️ Apply for coaching
➡️ Connect on Instagram
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