Numerous times this season you are going to hear about how to tap into your creativity and the need to tap into this part of yourself! Being creative allows us to lead well because we are in flow, open and it allows us to innovate when needed! Listen in as we talk about how to tap into this important component of being a leader.

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them, so they can live the life they love! She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University.

Want to chat more about how to lead your lit up life or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

Mark Golden is a man who is uplifting, inspiring and has a positive energy that exudes from him. We talk about our experiences selling Yellow Pages, his life changing accident and how he stepped into multiple areas that he has been called to do. Listen in as we discuss how each step is a step of faith and leads to diversity of work, joy and peace!

Listen in as we discuss:

• How taking what most would see as a negative situation, Marc learned and made changes to what he was doing in his life
• Taking the leap of faith versus staying in the safe zone
• Being aware of your own unusualness
• How learning that what other people say doesn't really matter and how important this is to step into what you were meant to be in this world
• The three facets Marc looks at to lead his lit up life: Doing something he loves, making a big difference in people's lives and getting paid for it.

Marc Golden is a leading business broker with a passion for helping everyday people exit and enter businesses by facilitating the buying and selling process. He spends his time with buyers, demystifying the SBA lending process, and helps sellers find the best possible investment and funding for the next part of their journey. Marc uses his background as a high producing leader in the financial services and business communications industries, helping people map a clear path forward in business and life. From his office in Florida, Marc helps business owners and buyers come together in communities across the US. He can be found teaching buyers how to secure funds and invest in businesses on his regular Find Fund Flip Challenge (www.findfundflipchallenge.com ). You can learn about Marc's businesses at www.mergers.com.

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University.

Want to chat more about how to stay out of the Victim Game or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

Why is human connection so important? Listen in as we discuss what it means to connect to others and most importantly to yourself. How connecting to your inner self allows you to experience being alone without being lonely and experiencing joy!

The world has gone through some massive changes since the pandemic and many of us have been on a journey of self-discovery. I can't believe we are already in Season 4! Throughout this season we will continue discussions about tools, principles and concepts that have allowed my guests and I to change our lives, love ourselves and those around us, and lead a life filled with joy, peace, and connection!

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them, so they can live the life they love! She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University.

Want to chat more about how to connect with yourself and others or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

Trudi Jaye is the pen name for my friend Trudi Caffell. Trudi is the epitome of laughter and joy but she hasn't always had this profound happiness. She has gone through some transformations and shares with us specifically this last year and how she has stepped into her confidence and ultimate joy!

Listen in as we discuss:

• How life is short and how she realized there was an urgency to do what she loves
• Her feisty heroines might be a bit of herself…
• When obstacles show up, how she just stepped in and kept moving
• Some obstacles were unknown, but then when they became known…
• Staying the course and how that helps to do what she wants to accomplish
• How chaos and confusion is fear based and can be countered with trust in yourself
• Polarity that something is a right or wrong answer stopped her and how she overcame this

Trudi Jaye loves to spend her time writing urban fantasy novels that feature feisty heroines, extraordinary adventures, and unexpected magic. She's been writing since she was a child and now has 18 novels to her name, across five different series. She's also one of the four hosts of the SPA Girls podcast, where they dispense advice and help for beginner Indie authors on their weekly show. She lives in New Zealand on a rural property surrounded by horses (not her own) with her lovely husband and cheeky young daughter. Trudi enjoys yoga, although she's not very bendy and karate, although she doesn't like the idea of hitting anyone. You can find her at www.trudijayewrites.com

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University.

Want to chat more about purpose and joy or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

The world has gone through some massive changes since the pandemic and many of us have been on a journey of self-discovery. I can't believe we are already in Season 4! Throughout this season we will continue discussions about tools, principles and concepts that have allowed my guests and I to change our lives, love ourselves and those around us, and lead a life filled with joy, peace, and connection!

Yes, there really are four people in my head, and guess what they live in your head too!! Understanding Transactional Analysis was so important for me to be able to let go of the past and step into the present.

• Getting in touch with the child heart, learning to play, have fun and listen to the emotion that I was feeling, well it's changed my life.
• Realizing the strength and resiliency of my adolescent along with the rebellious and sometimes passive aggressive tendencies has taken me out of the overwhelm and feelings of exhaustion that were a part of my day-to-day life.
• Realizing I was shoulding on myself – A LOT developed an awareness that I had a strong self-made critical parent in my head. Stepping out of the feeling that I needed to have all my shit together…
• Then tapping my mature adult who plays a critical role in the management of my inner family created a whole new awareness for me.

Listen in as I talk about these four people who play around in our heads, how we can be aware when they each show up or when we need them to show up more frequently. Check out more information on Transactional Analysis and the work Eric Berne has done by simply googling Transactional Analysis. Disclaimer – I am not a therapist nor claim to be one. This tool is referred to slightly differently than Eric Berne's work and I'm sharing from my own experience through a local Sandpoint group called Responsible Living.

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University.

Want to chat more about becoming aware of your inner family or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

The word joy comes to my mind whenever I think about my friend Gail! Her smile, her laugh and her purpose in this world is contagious. She has an amazing story of what she does in the world and how this helps her to exude joy! You will feel and hear her joy as you listen!

Listen in as we discuss:

• How we are always in transition and how lack of identity creates undo stress during transitions
• What identity is and how it plays into your purpose and passions
• How passion and purpose lead to finding how to let this flow out into the world
• When you are doing what you are meant to be in the world it brings excitement and energy
• How being mindful of your environment is important

Gail Leslie Tipton wears many hats and as a B2B Consultant she is in high-demand across the globe. Gail specializes in successful outcomes, efficiency improvement, interim operations management, and leadership development. She is the fearless leader as President and CEO of Gail Tipton International, LLC, an arts and teaching ministry, women's empowerment, theatre, music, and vocal performances with production. She is a Master Coach at Life by Divine Design – coaching for women in transition and a contributing author of How to Break the Glass Ceiling Without a Hammer: Career Strategies for Women and author of her book, Pray Laugh Serve: An Odyssey Into Resolve and Restoration. Her mission is to help others execute life in a different and more enhancing way through purpose and relationships and by experiencing exceeding abundance. You can follow her @msgail65

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University. Want to chat more about purpose and joy or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

The world has gone through some massive changes since the pandemic and many of us have been on a journey of self-discovery. I can't believe we are already in Season 4! Throughout this season we will continue discussions about tools, principles and concepts that have allowed my guests and I to change our lives, love ourselves and those around us, and lead a life filled with joy, peace and connection!

The title of this episode might take you by surprise, however this was a HUGE, eye opening experience for me so I want to share with you, not only the obvious, but the subtleties of how we step into the Victim Game (or sometimes known as the Drama Triangle) with others and within our own minds.

Listen in as we discuss what the victim game is, the roles played, and how words matter. Most importantly becoming aware of these roles allows a choice to be made to stay out of the victim game, resulting in a richer, more authentic life filled with honest and open relationships!

Debbie helps entrepreneurs make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She is passionate about helping other entrepreneurs lead their businesses instead of the business running their lives, so they can have their hopes, wishes and dreams come true. She also is an adjunct professor at Gonzaga University. Want to chat more about how to stay out of the Victim Game or how to stop having your business run your life? Reach out to Debbie Heiser, founder and Chief Igniter of Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser at www.leadyourlituplife.com and on multiple social media platforms.

A big part of stepping into a Lit Up life for me is centered on 12 Guiding Principles. In this episode we are taking a deep dive into the last four of the Guiding Principle 9,10,11 & 12.

• I will forgive. What I choose not to forgive today, I will manage in a loving and gentle manner.
• • How forgiving and not forgiving impacts you and those around you
  • Be specific about what we are forgiving – the more specific and clear you can be the more you can release
  • Forgiving others is important, but forgiving ourselves is critical

• I will use I statements, be specific, and use the responsible listening model
  • Focusing on what YOU are doing…using I statements instead of "when you"
  • What the Responsible Listening Model is and how to use it with others.
• I will maintain confidentiality at all times
  • Its so much more than the obvious
  • If it's not your story – keep it confidential
  • Sharing things that happened to your children is not keeping things confidential

• I will remove any blocks that keep me from loving myself and others
• • When I have plans but I stop myself, what is that about
  • How can I remove the blocks I have?
  • How I help others do this through my business

The world has gone through some massive changes since the pandemic and many of us have been on a journey of self-discovery. Throughout this season we will be talking about the tools, principles and concepts that have allowed me to change my life, love who I am, love others around me and lead a life filled with joy, peace and connection!

Debbie Heiser is the founder and CEO of Lead Your Life and Three Vines Consulting & Leadership Development. She considers herself to be a Chief Igniter, helping entrepreneurs make a ton of money doing what they love without sacrificing what's most important!

Find out more at www.leadyourlituplife.com , and on multiple social media platforms under Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser

Brian Golub is a man that is full of love, light, and energy! He serves people through his acting and holistic wellness! We met in the San Diego airport and immediately had a connection. His love of life carries over into his work as an entertainer, as a massage therapist, reiki and energy healer, yogi and as a death doula. Listen in as we talk about his experience in the entertainment world and how he serves others!

Listen in as we discuss:

• His work in the world – the light, love and energy of who is he
• How he pivoted when the entertainment world stopped in its tracks
• Answering the what if question and how that led to him being able to continue to serve others
• How creativity and foresight has allowed him to continue his holistic wellness practice, setting himself up for future success
• How important it is to live and love a full life
• What his motto is and means – leap, play, love
• Multiple parallels from his experiences to life and leading yourself and others
• Just listen in – Brian is one of my all-time favorite persons' and you WILL feel energized by hearing his story!!

Debbie Heiser is the founder and CEO of Lead Your Life and Three Vines Consulting & Leadership Development. She considers herself to be a Chief Igniter, helping entrepreneurs make a ton of money doing what they love, without sacrificing what they value the most! Join in the movement to Lead Your LIT UP Life!!

Find out more at www.leadyourlituplife.com , and on multiple social media platforms under Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser.

A big part of stepping into a Lit Up life for me is centered on 12 Guiding Principles. In this episode we are taking a deep dive into Guiding Principle 7 & 8!

• I will solely do my work and no one else's.
• • What does it mean to do other people's work?
  • Why is it important to do only my work and not try to rescue or tell others what to do?
  • Doing other's work leads them to not trust themselves

• I will choose a win/win mentality and I will not support or play the victim game.
  • What is the victim game?
  • What does it mean to be a victim? A rescuer? A persecutor?
  • How does it show up in our world?
  • What it means to have a win/win mentality

The world has gone through some massive changes since the pandemic and many of us have been on a journey of self-discovery. Throughout this season we will be talking about the tools, principles and concepts that have allowed me to change my life, love who I am, love others around me and lead a life filled with joy, peace and connection!

Debbie Heiser is the founder and CEO of Lead Your Life and Three Vines Consulting & Leadership Development. She considers herself to be a Chief Igniter, helping entrepreneurs make a ton of money doing what they love without sacrificing what's most important!

Find out more at www.leadyourlituplife.com , and on multiple social media platforms under Lead Your Life with Debbie Heiser